Are you actually submissive or do you just tell yourself that

>>38407060
I'm actually submissive

>>38407060
I'm a switch actually, but you're right, good rr is very demanding. It's not a licence to sit back on your ass. That's not fun for your partner.

>>38407060
I'm just telling myself that because it would be more convenient.

I want to rape and be raped so both lol

More of a switch myself. I think hypothetically I'd enjoy giving someone pleasure but I can also see the merit in letting someone else take the lead.

>>38407060
how could it be convenient?

i am mostly submissive, i am also into vanilla

i could get off on dom too but i don't have the confidence, if a woman wanted this of me i could do it

>>38407060
Everyone is submissive, they just haven't found anyone impressive enough yet.

>>38407060
Convenient for what? It certainly isn't convenient for obtaining a relationship in real life.

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>>38407060
its the better role for sure, at least for me. in my experience being a dom is just boring, but im obviously biased. acting strong and dominant is fun for people that are usually reguarded as weak, whereas for regularly dominant people, the opposite is fun. im a big boi.

>>38407428
>acting
kek gtfo

>>38407428
Rr is the best.
Like I posted, it's hard.
Needs creativity and total unreserved shamelessness.

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>>38407299
Because you would rather settle for being weak than cultivate strength and assertiveness.

>>38407663
I'm pretty sure you can be a strong assertive person and then still want to be tied up and made to beg in the bedroom desu senpai.
Learning to beg and whimper like a naughty boy is stimulating and exciting in new ways.

>>38407060
how would it be more convenient? there's always posters here who say that they wish their gf would bully them, just seems like a hassle

i'm just submissive after years of exposure to degenerate porn, it doesn't mean i'm a pushover in real life and that i don't try to improve myself even though i suck

>>38407060
More of a submissive type personally because the fetishes I have all pretty much require me being a sub for it to work. Though I do switch to whatever's needed depending on the situation.

>>38407060
Probably both. I'm certainly not enthralled by the prospect of putting in any measurable amount of effort into finding a GF or someone to fuck, but I also do think I genuinely enjoy being submissive. I just want a girl to do whatever she wants with me regardless of how I feel about it.

>>38408954
I personally find the idea of moaning and struggling underneath a woman smaller and weaker than me really hot, despite the obvious fact that I could turn the tables any time I wanted.

It's hot because of how backwards and wrong it is and were almost swapping identities and responsibilities.

Now, being a woman who's larger and stronger than me's sexual object. That's REALLY hot. That's a real fucking fantasy right there.

>>38409725
>Now, being a woman who's larger and stronger than me's sexual object. That's REALLY hot

You bet it is. It's my dream to wrestle with a girl taller and more muscular than me, get pinned down, and then be pressed between her strong thighs.

But yes, being dominated by a smaller woman definitely has its charm as well. This is why I'm into lolidom.

>>38407060
>Are you actually submissive or do you just tell yourself that because it would be more convenient?
Actually submissive