What is "grabbing a beer with somebody"? I can't

I have one friend and we always hang out and drink beer. It's all we ever do.
Getting drunk is fun. We just talk about how much we suck with women until we're too drunk to remember our conversations.

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>>38399300
>is it an excuse to talk to each other?
uh
duh?
Yeah of course it is.
Beer tends to make people more talkative, open up and connect better.
If a person is asking to grab a beer with you, they want to enjoy themselves with you and learn a little more about you.

It's been shown that drinking with a group, they're all more likely to have more "perfect" social moments where they laugh or smile in unison.

Did you get asked to grab a beer with someone?

>>38399300
>What is "grabbing a beer with somebody"?
just drinking and talking, maybe playing something like pool, poker or video games, making food if at home

shit like that, y'know?

i was assuming doing what with a close friend was that but he would cockblock me.

>>38399357
>Did you get asked to grab a beer with someone?
No, I hear a lot of people use it as an example of things they do with their friends. I don't really like getting drunk, I just like the taste of beer, so I usually just drink 1-3 beers. I guess I consider it in that sense like someone asking to go out and get a soda with me.

All I do with my friends is talk to them (sober). We don't really have hobbies in common. I just have a hard time imagine normal people doing this. When I tell people that's what I do with my friends, it looks like they're trying not to laugh.

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>>38399434
Essentially, they're asking you to social drink with them.
Of course, sober conversation is just as important, but typically when someone invites you to go out and drink they're looking for a bit more of an exciting time. Oh, and also to get tipsy/drunk/buzzed.

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>>38399514
(if they do ask that is. whoopsie.)

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>>38399514
Do you want to get a beer with me? I like Touhou. I've almost 1CCd a couple of them on normal.

>>38399300

A small amount of alcohol, like 1-2 pints is proven to make you more creative, which makes conversation easier and more interesting. Normies call this "loosening up"

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>>38399556
Depends on where you live. I'd be down for one or two.

>>38399569
I live in Ohio USA
I turned 21 only a few months ago!

>>38399589
If I didn't have an aversion to drive several states away just to drink with a stranger, I would!
>wa fag here
Congrats! Welcome to being an adult, with all it's positives and negatives.

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>>38399300
>tfw i will never know what its like to crack open a cold one with the boys

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>>38399612
I hope you have a good night tonight

>>38399622
It can be pretty nice desu. I hope you get to experience it.

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>>38399666
Aww. Thank you, anon.Hope you have a good one, too.
I'll make sure to crack a cold one open tonight for you.

>>38399622
And you!

>>38399300
>I'm not a social creature
>alcohol doesn't change this
>MDMA on the other hand...

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>tfw no /r9k/ drinking buddy to enjoy mutual consumption of alcoholic beverages

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>what do they talk about?

Well it's usually someone saying something and out of that random phrase it snowballs into minutes or even hours of conversation. If the conversation gets too boring you either pay for both of the beers (the other will usually decline) and go home OR read body language/facial expressions to see which topic they're interested in.

>>38399300
alcohol makes you more normal while the effects last. So drinking alcohol and talking with other people drinking alcohol as well is ideal.

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>>38399688
It seems pretty comfy desu.
>>38399716
Thanks m8. Cracking open a cold one tio enjoy with you, now

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>>38399933
I'm antisocial AF
a couple of beers later I'm just antisocial and drunk