Well i went on my date..
Met the 9/10 qt at a mexican restaurant, we spent almost 4 hours together, also went to an arcade bar afterward. I had fun. I texted her asking if she got home ok since we were drinking, and no reply.
I think i blew it lads, all seemed well but i guess not. Now i just want to sleep but i can't. Pls make me feel better
>>38382462
she spent 4 hours with your ass
you didn't blow shit
calm your ass
> I texted her asking if she got home ok since we were drinking, and no reply.
Her mangled body is probably rapidly decaying after she skid off the highway
>>38382486
I can't sleep though. I need some kind of confirmation that she had a good time.
Help me get to sleep someone pls
>>38382486
That means nothing.
I went on a 6 hour date. First coffee, then lunch, long talk, seemed to go great.
Still go ghosted.
Yooooooo I've never been on a date in my life and I know you're supposed to wait till the next day to text
>>38382637
Fucking stop my heart can't take it. Literally can't relax one bit.
What did you talk about? I couldn't even talk to my closest friends for 4 hours
>>38382656
That rule is bullshit. If they like you it doesn't matter when you text
>>38382676
You better learn quick not to get so personally invested when dating. You aren't going to survive it, kiddo.
>didnt even kiss
>>all seemed well
She probably thinks you're a massive homosexual
>>38382462
well i spent 12 months with someone, had sex numerous times, and still got ghosted
>>38382678
Just basic stuff. I thought she was having a good time because she didn't look at her phone the entire time except for when she showed me a video.
Fuuuuuuuck i can't take it
>>38382688
You gotta play the game man, you can't seem overly interested in her after a single date. Courting is supposed to be fun for both parties, if you come off as some obsessed beta after a single date then there's no fun to be had.
>>38382704
I'm trying but she is unbelievably pretty and it took me so long to find her.
>>38382733
Did it occur to you that maybe she went to bed homie
Real talk, what are you supposed to text about after the date
I don't know what I would even say besides like "last night was fun"
>>38382637
same thing happened to me, feelsbadman
>>38382733
You come off as desperate, I hope you don't show her this.
>>38382752
>but she is unbelievably prett
She probably met a Chad on the way home and forgot about you, nigga.
>>38382781
I say thanks for coming out, i had fun, and try and set up the next date.
I honestly was just concerned that she got home safely, i wasn't trying to be needy. I've gotten arrested for a dui once and it was not fucking fun. I can't really rest not getting a text that she got home, because it brings back awful memories from when i was a cell. And not to mention she could get hurt.
>>38382800
This
I really hope you are just acting extra for r9k because u seem extremely desperate.
>>38382781
'Wanna do that again sometime?'
>>38382828
>. I can't really rest not getting a text that she got home,
She probably sobered up and realized you let her drive home intoxicated and has nexted you. goof.
>>38382828
I empathize with you man, I randomly get really worried when people don't text me back sometimes, I imagine terrible stuff. But worrying about it doesn't solve any problems. You just have to sleep it off, you can't do anything, and worrying will just make things worse most likely
>>38382781
Nothing. Just wait a few dates and text her casually, as if going on dates is the most normal thing in the world to you and you just wanna move forward.
>>38382637
lel you think that's shit?
I decided to meet up with my LDR e-gf of 3 years, she was supposed to met me at the airport she never showed up.
>>38382832
It just sucks. If it didn't go well fine, but this shit always happens to me and to make it worse, it always happens when i have a 12 hour shift the next day.
Just really hate that feeling that i bombed with a beautiful girl. The best feeling is when i did good and she's texting me afterwards, eager to see me again.
>>38382878
Yeah, if only. My dumb friends already joked about now I never go out on dates in front of the girl I'm planning on asking out.
>>38382867
What's a good way to get some rest when i know tomorrow is going to be absolute hell?
>>38382957
Well you're fucked anyways. Asking out a girl who is part of your circle of friends is setting yourself up for rejection so it doesnt really matter what you do or say.