Am I the only person here who wants to get laid more for validation

Who would be doing the validating?

No, probably most incels are struggling with low self esteem and feel like if they had sex, they won't feel like, "at least I am not so pathetic that someone wouldn't have sex with me".

It's actually really sad.

I really just want to have sex so I can be like everyone else. I want to be able to say no when people ask me if I'm a virgin. I want to know that somewhere out there, one person at one point in time cared enough about me to fuck me.

I just want to get my nut off

>>38380427
That's where you're going wrong.
Don't do it for validation.
Do it because it's gonna make you somewhat happy and kinda mould you into a normal loveable human that a woman wants to actually accept into their life.

There's hope for everyone, even you.
Just don't be too weird, don't pretend to be something you're not.

I've slept with around 100 women in 14 years and I'm still alone and fucking miserable... I'm sat here at 30 years old drinking cider at 5.30am trying to give you advice so that should tell a tale in itself.

>>38380427
I actually want an ideal dream relationship with a girl I love hahaha

>>38380427
I want to get laid for the intimacy. It really improves my mood. But I can't find anyone to sleep with me where I live because everyone who knows me thinks I'm crazy.

So it's a self-perpetuating cycle.

>>38380445
I'm not OP, but I just want to get laid so my family doesn't think I'm a homo.
A cousin of mine already had obvious verbal suspicions.