Anyone had someone they loved romantically die? How did you cope? Is there a point in having any other relationship with someone and is it even possible when you've already had the perfect partner? I try other people on, but they never quite fit right and the relationships just don't work out. I know that I need to appreciate people as their own unique individuals but I can't help but look at them different when I've already had and lost my perfect match. Is there hope for people like us? I think the only possible route is to not date at all.
>>38330525
Thought she was going to die. Then for several years thought she'd be a potato for the rest of her life. She'll always be different, but she's able to live life again, and I love her more than ever.
When I thought she was gone forever, I was relatively young. I did try to find other relationships. They never felt right, how can a relationship feel right when you'd rather be with someone else? I was perpetually the stereotype generally used for women, where they're not dating a man because they like him but because they just need a distraction from their ex whom they still have feelings for.
I don't know the right answer. When I thought she was gone, there just wasn't any happiness in my life. Hanging out with friends felt stupid and juvenile, flirting with or fugging other women felt like role-playing and always left me feeling bad. I found contentment in just living a life she'd be proud of, even if she couldn't be there for it. If I let myself go to shit, it would be dishonoring her memory anyway.
>inb4 "chad," "reee," etc.
pls no bully I'm as autismo-sperg as anyone
>>38330766
need some context to what happened to her
>>38330525
Lmao how do you romantically die