>laying in bed in the dark >suddenly ex pops in head

It's been almost exactly a year. Maybe I should write to her once more and hope.

Alice, I'm still hoping you will one day unghost me.

>>38294630
It's been 3+ years anon, she probably moved on and you should do the same, no point in beating yourself up over a past relationship

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Does anyone else not have a problem letting people go in the long term? I'd say I'm glad that I'm not troubled after the initial sadness but it also makes me a bit of a shithead, I haven't spoken to some family members in a long time and I've ghosted old friends both online and in real life. Haven't spoken to my own mother in over a year, we had a perfectly fine relationship, I just stopped talking to her and I feel bad mostly because of the fact that I'm ignoring her more than actually missing her, but that's still not a strong feeling either.

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>>38295127
I used to have a problem with it, but then 1 day I just stopped.
I had a friend who I would always talk to and would trust that he would be there for me and whatnot, and 1 day he ghosted me for a month straight. I got angry and confused and blocked him on everything I had. One day we got back into contact, but after he left me, I suddenly lost all need to keep people close to me.
I have become used to people not wanting to talk to me or be around me, and it no longer phases me to lose people.
I never try to ghost anybody though, I always want to be there for them. I just don't mind if they don't want to be there for me.

>>38294630
>Got a chance to kiss her while alone at her place
>Didn't do it for some reason
>Got sick because I mixed too much wine with Indian chicken
>Ruined that whole night for myself
>A year after she went to a different uni (Cambridge)
Hania was her name.

Although sometimes I miss her, I have a GF now at a different uni than the one I was last year and I couldn't be happier. Got a whole new life and actually see a future for myself and her.

>>38295196
Nobody has ghosted me so I don't know where it comes from. Maybe it's just a part of growing up or people growing apart, or people finding it easier to just let each other go instead of giving a proper goodbye.

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>haven't talked to oneitis in 7 years
Is there still a chance?