>haven't seen mom in 10 years
>she wants to go out to eat
>she's the reason why I'm a loser
What am I supposed to do?
maybe she wants to apologize or something
maybe she wants to have the love of her son while she still has time in this fleeting life
maybe she has something important to tell you, like she's sick or something
i would guess the above are likelier than her just wanting to bitch you out. with that in mind i think you should go
>>38290217
That's what I keep thinking, but it seems like a bad idea for some reason.
Thanks for responding anon. I hope you have a good day/night.
>>38290066
Go.
You may hate yourself and her for what you are now.
But even the persons you hate are a part of you.
Afterall it's just a night.
>>38290066
Go with her. Don't ghost your mother.
>>38290277
>>38290282
She used to be abusive and crazy. I don't know if that's how she is now, which is making me anxious.
>>38290454
You obviously do not live with her and have some means of transportation. If the crazy comes out just leave.
>>38290454
you're an adult now, you can walk out on her if she acts up. that'll send a message. i know it's hard to do that but if you don't go you'll regret it after she's dead.
>>38290485
>>38290496
I guess that's true. Thanks for the response anons. I'll text her soon.
I hope it goes well for you, anon. I've got bad blood with my mother, and it bothers me every day. I can only hope yours is resolved.