>get text from oneitis
>chitchat back and forth
>"so, what have you been doing lately, except [thing I know she does occasionally]?"
>"nothing much anon, you?"
She has a bf, but doesn't even talk about him when asked. I want to ask her out so badly, how do I make sure she understands it's not just as friends?
>making small talk with a girl who has a bf
>wants to ask her out
Save yourself the embarrassment and just cut her out of your life.
>>38285933
You're a beta, anon, why are you trying to cuck some guy? Don't you know it's only gonna end up bad for you?
>>38285962
I have enough reason to believe she has a crush on me. We hadn't see each other in forever until recently and she had thought I didn't like her for years. She brightened up when I told her I missed her and thought about her sometimes, she also started texting me every once in a while, always initiating it.
>>38286348
Try doing something with her as a friend before asking her out. Don't make sudden changes.
>>38285933
>>38286348
You're an idiot. There are three outcomes to this situation:
1. Her bf beats you up
2. She shames you for trying to date her when you clearly know she has a bf
3. "I have a bf, anon" when you ask her on a date and she continues to repeat this until she ghosts you
>>38286369
The last time we had seen each other one on one she was clumsily and drunkenly offering sex to me. I was planning on doing something casual friends would do, like cooking together and watching a movie, but I don't want to reconnect as just old friends.
>>38286433
>1. Her bf beats you up
I'm not afraid of that, I know how to defend myself.
>2. She shames you for trying to date her when you clearly know she has a bf
She's a nice girl, she doesn't do things like that.
>3. "I have a bf, anon"
She knows I already know and I'm not afraid of rejection if it means I can finally stop thinking about her.
>>38285933
>ask her out
>"Oh anon only wants to go as friends"
>>38286604
OP thank you for standing up fr yourself