You know what scares me? It's not the fact that I've never had a girlfriend at 30, or losing hope that I'll ever get one. The scariest part is not being able to come up with stories of your past relationships or a logical, valid reason of why I've been single for my whole life (let's give it 15 years of dating life). When literal 14 year old kids are out there getting sex like it's a bodily function, the real black flag is not being able to explain the WHY or HOW.
In a society such as ours, there's no way for anybody to talk their way out of something like this, and even if you somehow manage to go through all the dates and even get to sex without sharing stories about your past relationships, it will eventually come up and that other person will feel manipulated, tricked and freaked out about how they could ever fall for such a broken person that wasn't even able to achieve the most primordial of social rites of passage.
How can you even justify going through your whole life without EVER being in a relationship with somebody without appearing as a mentally ill person?
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I share your sentiments, anon.
I'm 29 and never had a gf. When (or if) I ever have one, she will definitely wonder what is wrong with me to not have had a gf before.
It's like a job. If you have no prior job experience, employers will be wondering if there is something wrong with you or if youre a lazy fuck (with good reason). And the more you wait, the harder it will be to get a job (or in this case, a girlfriend).
Chances are, if you never had a gf before, you do have some kind of mental illness.. I know I do.