I'll just do this as short and factual as possible >been

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I'll just do this as short and factual as possible

>been in relationships for about 9 years
>single after my longest one again
>met a girl
>never felt as connected to a human being before
>never knew I could have such feelings
>fast forward couple months of hanging out rarely (but still apparently met me more often than other people)
>stated black on white what I think about her
>long response with 2 key statements:
>a) bunch of appreciation stated in many different ways, basically what I also think about her
>b) "it's not you it's me" hollywood style, life too self-centered at the moment hard to trust other people, can't imagine to plan a lifetime with another human being yadda yadda

met twice since that but occasion didn't quite allow to talk more

is it time to let go and see if she will come back by herself?
or should i still try get through to her and show her that i believe this is a once in a lifetime match?

how do you know when it's time to let go and when it's time to fight for a major thing in life?