>lonely >no IRL friends >try to talk with """friends"""

>>38242381
Did you meet your online friends here? I've noticed that all of the people I've met from /r9k/ have been terrible conversationalists and it's a chore trying to engage them. Find some normie online friends with similar interests. If you like anime, if shouldn't be hard to find someone who is more lively during your chats.

>>38242381
My Skype is Trigger Happy Papi, I will keep talking to you until you don't respond or have to go.

>>38242431
Nope, but most of them aren't normies. I'm sure they talk more with other people.
Maybe i'm just really boring to talk to.

>>38242441
I don't use skype, sorry.

>>38242465
Oh well that's fine. If anyone else wants to talk you can add me.

yeah i have the same issue sometimes (everyday)
leave your discord i can add you, i will try my best to keep a good convo going

>>38242632
[email protected]
Send yours to this email, I'm too paranoid to post it here

>>38242632
[email protected]

send me too im lonely and want to talk

>>38242728
>>38242764
okay i will send you a mail with mine

>>38242867
sorry i cant talk to you, you're so..thirsty..

https://desuarchive.org/r9k/search/text/nightshade%239573/

and im a grill so it wont work out.

>>38243004
its okay i guess,
not really thirsty but well

>>38242381
thats the thing, you are boring thats the reason you are alone, you have nothing to offer to other people

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>>38242381
I'm going through that right now, and it is an intense and suffocating loneliness.

>try to talk to someone online
>we get along well for a few days
>feel happy because I feel like I've finally made a friend
>I message them first sometimes, they message me first, etc. and it's nice to feel like we actually look forward to talking to each other online and sharing our lives
>eventually they stop initiating conversation
>eventually they stop responding to my initiations
>"how was your day?"
>"fine"
>just sign on "hello" and then sometimes a "goodnight" before I sign off
The worst part is that half the time they talk to me about how other people "ghost" them or how they don't have any friends but it's like they put in zero effort to maintain any friendship with me. Or worse, they talk to me when there's no one else around and they feel bad or lonely and then stop talking to me again afterwards. A lot of people will complain about being lonely but just don't seem to give a shit about other people after the novelty wears off. I dunno, maybe the rest of the internet is right and we really are just all shitty people here.

I was thinking of just ditching all of my online accounts because I don't feel like I've actually made any friends through them. I feel like maybe if I stopped enabling myself from participating in these kinds of relationships my loneliness would force me to interact and make friends in the real world with people who might actually give a shit about me.

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>>38243694
People stop because there is no end.
Conversation is a delivery system.
What use is a delivery system if there aren't events?
Forever the words flow around, and then you're still the same as you ever were. You're by yourself, in your hued dark room.

>>38243694
OP here, you can send me your contact if you want

>>38243769
I lead a surprisingly active albeit lonely life and have a lot of hobbies.

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>added on discord earlier
>get along great, liking this person
>now they're not talkative and I don't know how to start a conversation
WHY

>>38242431
>I've noticed that all of the people I've met from /r9k/ have been terrible conversationalists and it's a chore trying to engage them.
This. I've given up on befriending robots. It's emotionally exhausting to have to deal with someone who only talks at length when they want a dumping ground for their negativity or to talk about jacking off. I don't know if robots are bad people per se, but I do know that they are bad at seeming otherwise and the majority are just selfish as hell.

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Anyone still here wanting to talk about anything?
I can discord or wathever. Can't sleep so I'm just chilling. Feel free to talk about whatever.

>>38244922
I hope you're able to get to sleep at a reasonable hour, anon.

>>38245397
Well, here in europe the time right now is 5:56 am
My sleep schedule is fucked up...I just can't sleep, neither talk to normie friends. Swallowed the blackpill and I'm started to get depressed...

>>38245463
Fuck dude, you may as well stay up at that point. It's only getting to be 9 PM here.

>>38245479
Yeah, I guess... thanks

>>38242632
i-if you're still there i'd like to chat too, I usually put a lot of effort into talking with people (maybe too much who knows maybe im a sperg)
[email protected]

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>>38245517
It's alright. I've had nights like that too. Sometimes you just get into a funk and next thing you know the sun is rising and you still feel like crap. It happens when I drink sometimes.

>>38242381
>no friends
pathetic. go meet people.

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>>38245552
It's been already one week like this. Don't know if it's going to get better or worse.

>>38245599
At least it can't last forever, right?

>>38245625
I guess.. Future just looks depressing as fuck

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>>38245708
So, what is the blackpill anyway?

>>38245839
I've never been on /r9k/, came from /pol/.
Blackpill is just knowing there is no future for european civilization and that everything is going to shit.

I'm THAT boring, too autistic, and just too big a failure for anything...

>>38242431
>I've noticed that all of the people I've met from /r9k/ have been terrible conversationalists and it's a chore trying to engage them.
Are you better tho? I get along well the first day, but after a week or something is incredibly hard to find something meaningful to say. Do you actually provide conversation points or, like me, "How was your day?"


>>38243694
Same goes for you. If your willing to talk try to say something about you or your day. Some people doesn't like a lot of questions. Tell them if you have watched an anime or a movie you liked. Bonus points if you bring out something you know they might like.

>>38244162
I feel your pain senpai.

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>lonely
>no IRL friends
>try to talk with """friends""" on steam/telegram/discord/whatever
>they vent for about 30 minutes about how much their day sucked and how miserable and anxious they are then stop talking without even asking or caring about my day
>get hurt when I stop going out of my way to message them
The thing is, I really feel for these people. I want to listen to them and let them vent. I just can't keep doing it. It's not fair for me to be someone else's punching bag, I deserve more than to be the person other people yell when they get mad or sad while telling them it's going to be okay. Maybe it sounds selfish but if you've gone through this too I know you'll understand. I mean, I'm still a lonely bastard, but I can't do this to myself anymore.

>>38246063
I do, I'm: >>38243918
I usually talk about my hobbies or things I did that day, it's just that a lot of robots genuinely aren't that interested in talking after a while.

>>38243795
I appreciate the offer but I'm not sure it would be good for me.

>>38245839
Blackpill is when you're redpilled but realize that you really are shit. think of it like this:
>Bluepill is being a cuck and thinking that you're an alpha and everything is alright
>Redpill is knowing you're an alpha being treated like a beta and nothing is alright
>Blackpill is knowing you are a beta and nothing is alright and theres nothing you can do about it

>>38246136
>I do, I'm: >>38243918
>I usually talk about my hobbies or things I did that day, it's just that a lot of robots genuinely aren't that interested in talking after a while.
I don't know what to tell you. When I struggle to chat with my online friends it's just because of that. Many times I just lack conversation points and they are not that talkative too.
If you're able to talk an "be interesting" I guess you are just unlucky.
How many online friends have you had? How long they lasted?

>>38242632
>>38245543
hey can you send me your discord i can't actually reply from this address ;_;

>>38246230
I'm looking empathy, not advice. I feel like the biggest problem with everyone here is that most of them don't know how to just listen to other people.

>>38246269
I can give you my empathy this time.
I genuinely think online friends are real friends and if you ain't got one, I'd like to give you an advice. You can find the right person for you, I'm sure.

Some people just suck, but you shouldn't give up. And by the way, use /soc/. A good description is better than a random discord like the ones itt.

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>>38246408
Thank you, I originally appreciate it.

>>38246269
maybe they don't know how to talk, listening is usually not an issue

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>it's another "you met someone you thought was actually going to be your friend but they just wanted to try and date you" episode
>it's another "person you thought was your friend gets angry with you for not wanting to date them and thinking they were your friend" episode
when does it end?

bump for OP, if he's still here, and all the other lonely bastards that are up this late.

>>38243769
I don't know why but your post sticks out to me. I like the way you write posts.

>>38243694
Is that you Daniel the Manial?

;_; easy come easy go
origi boop

>>38247722
No, I don't know who that is but if they're suffering the same problem I am then I genuinely sympathize with them. I used to know a Daniel when I was younger, if that counts.

>tfw drunk and lonely
I hate this feel and wish I didn't have to feel it nearly every night. Everyone else seems so happy when they're drinking.

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>>38242381
Here lad, come join the family, we'll be your friends :^)
/9J9eK

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>mfw my steam account has 2 friends that don't even log on anymore and I've had the account for 6 years

it's it's its' all..good..yeah

>>38242431
Are you me?

Dammit all my online friends are lazy, selfish, and boring. All they do is play video games by themselves. I want to talk and they just come in and say "lol". I find funny videos, bring up topics of current events, stuff going on in my life. Nothing. Its not like they hate me either, they just seem like people who have given up on being humans. I have one friend who wakes up, logs into steam and plays games ALL DAY. I ask him to watch a movies (I go to effort to torrent and host this stuff) on synctube with the other friends and he barely ever responds. I am at the center of everyone too, without me all of them will return to their solitary lives. They put ZERO effort into maintaining relationships its totally exhausting.

Then when they do talk its about the most nihilist shit over and over. Look, I'm willing to talk about sad things but not everyday in the most basic way. Its not even insightful or reflective, every time I bring up solutions they shun it. Whenever I talk about my problems they barely even respond.

>>38249553
I'll be your talkative friend if you want anonif you are still there, I'm like this too, I can get easily excited with a conversation and spend hours talking about something, it frustrates me that others don't.

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>>38249451
you can add me ive had over 150 at one point before i started deleting people i dont care that much about

/id/kurwa814