>match with high school oneitis on tinder before I go back to college
>haven't talked to her in a while but used to be really close friends
>liked her at one point, she liked me at one point too but I never did anything about it
>had a lot in common blablabla fucked up with her in high school
>regret it for a while and get over it but never really had luck with any other girls
>she starts talking to you again
>she knows you like her
>you talk back and forth for a few weeks daily
>wait a little bit to ask her out, she says yes
>she says she has to reschedule because of work
>talk to her yesterday, says she now has a boyfriend but she thinks I'm a great friend
FUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK
I actually tried and got close but I dont know what the fuck happened. Should I stay friends with her or will I want to kill myself?
>>38228256
No, Hitler was like I will stay friends with the countries that keep rejecting me and they were dicks to him. Then he retaliated of course and it became a huge shit storm and they painted him as the villain forever.
>>38228256
Ignore her. You're not "friends." Your goal was never to be friends. It was to be more.
The boyfriend didn't appear from nowhere. He just didn't fall into her house one day and ruined the life you two were about to build together. She was probably seeing him for a while and built your hopes up to keep you close. As an orbiter. Now ignore her and pursue someone who will take you as a partner. Don't pine or fawn over someone who is using you emotionally.
>>38228256
She was just playing you dude, if you continue to pursue her while with a boyfriend she will smell your desperation and make you her beta bitch
>>38228304
>>38228299
But why would a chick do that in the first place? What does she have to gain by leading me on? Validation?
>>38228363
I suppose that's a good way at putting it, or she just didn't want to hurt your feelings when you asked her out back peddled and made the boyfriend thing up for an excuse
Friendzoned lad. Sorry. She messed with your head legit.