Wanting to have sex with traps is gay. You are willing to have sex with a femenine looking guy, that is gay.
It's less gay then wanting to fuck a normal guy, but it's NOT FUCKING STRAIGHT.
They have a PENIS. You want to fuck their ass while it waves around, that's fucking gay. There is literally no two ways about it, if you try and argue you're just a insecure closet-gay fag.