>America is a place where you're not allowed to hurt anyone's feelings or you go to jail for rape and if you have a problem with that you're a horrible asshole
>America is a place where everyone is a hostile prick and people get beat up and robbed and shot every day and if you have a problem with that you're a pussy faggot
I always get these two seemingly contradictory views on Americans and either one is wrong or I don't know how to put the two together. What is it?