>>you will never "toughen up"
How do I be tough? How do I stop letting the inherit frustration/futility of human existence wear me away?
get down on your knees like the little bitchboy that you are and spread your ass so i can finger your tight hole.
>>38139954
go to gym, eat healthier, get a goal in life and some values that you can defend from all angles. so you know when someone is pushing you. in that order
>>38139954
I don't think you ever do, you just get good at suppression or you don't.
If the world wears away at you enough, you'll automatically start becoming a leather-skinned monster. You don't get a callus by avoiding work and pain.
I like to go on long walks in the sun, always makes me feel like I'm going through hell and toughening up, especially when it gets tough and I keep my posture/attitude in check.
>>38140211
why is it hard to walk in the sun? how fragile are you guys
>>38140245
we're so fragile it's absurdly embarrassing and so it ends up a negative cycle that ultimately leads to isolation and suicidal thoughts
>>38140245
Maybe my perception of hard is a bit off, but I don't imagine many people are alternating between running and walking in 90+ degree weather for 3 hours a day. It also helps with being overly self conscious because so many people see you looking like madman, even my mom thinks I'm crazy.
>>38139954
Why do you care for the opinions of others?
If it's an existential question, It's up to you. Closest thing I can think of is Sisyphus but you already knew that.
It's up to you. Only you can answer this question for yourself. Why do you value pain?