>bf says we can do stuff together on his day off >he has

Maybe he's doing it just to make you jealous.

>>38132220
Thisbis what I do.

>>38132209
post your discord and be my bf instead

That's what being a spineless pussy gets you

Talk about it with them? If it's important to you then it's worth it rather than bottling it and just letting it fester

>>38132209
Maybe you're just too damned needy and the dude needs a little time apart now that he's finally not working. Have you considered that you're an emotionally draining person?

>>38132220
>>38132261
please don't do this, it's not nice

>>38132399
>>38132493
see, if i talk about it i'll seem needy & clingy

maybe if it keeps happening i'll say something

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>>38132650
But again if it matters to you surely you should bring some attention to it? They said they would spend time with you so it's pretty trash for them not to now. Do it for yourself, you matter too remember...

You have fallen into the worst kind of limbo. Going back and forth between which one of you ought to be flexible more or less. Best advice is ghost him, even if it's driving you nuts refrain from being the one to initiate any contact first. Make him miss you and go do something other than wait around for him to hit you up, get a life of your own he can be part of it but shouldn't be all of it. That shit is not attractive anyways.

your bf is a fucking dick and hates you

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>>38132839
>ghost him

fuck you
you're a piece of shit, nobody should do this unless the other person is mentally unstable
otherwise, ghosting people will only make the situation worse for both people involved

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Get over here and let's fuck to make him jealous.

>>38132981
i don't want to adopt such dastardly tactics but i'm afraid i may be forced to...

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>>38132209
thats what you get for being gay + having a internet relationship you dumb homo

>>38133280
i could have gotten an irl relationship with a woman but that's too gay

as much as women love me i really hate them

>>38132945
so you would advise OP just continue to be a clingy needy try hard and feel worse with every unanswered attempt at communicating? you don't know what the fuck you're talking about leaving dude alone til he reaches out is not going to make anything worse by any means dipshit

Jeez, I really want to kiss cute sub boys in threads like these, even though that's what I am!

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>>38133497
kiss me im gay

do it i dare you

>>38133968
You have to get comfy in my lap first!

One time I woke up an hour late and my gf sent two dozen messages apologizing for being bad and it's ok if I didn't love her. Is it bad I find her insecurity cute and binding us together?

>>38134188
you'll get tired of it soon, but you won't be able to get away without her threatening to kill herself.

>>38134368
I like clingy types personally, it's a great opportunity to frequently reaffirm your affection towards each other. Much better than someone who's cold and doesn't reciprocate when you want to be affectionate.

>>38134606
can I cling to you and also kiss your penis

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>try messaging bf to see if we can talk a little
>he gives uninterested single-word responses

w-well... i guess i'll try again tomorrow...

>>38134675
That's an attractive offer but I don't know anything about you anon.

It's nice when someone you like is clingy, when it's someone you don't it's not so nice.

>>38135004
did you try flirting with him yet

you can flirt with me if he doesn't want to

>ask gf for more BJ's
>she says ok
>went better than expected.jpg

>>38132209
He's a fag and he isn't into you. Find someone who will appreciate having a qt girlfriend.

>>38132209
He's only in for sex, not that fruity sentimental lovey dovey bullshit, you should be too.

I told my ex I would hang out with her today and did the same thing
But now I asked if she wants to do anything tonight, but idk what she ever likes to do with people

>>38134675
You can cling to me.

>>38135226
What if I'm a boy though? Can I still do that?

>>38135241
Depends if you're cute or not.
Are you a cute femboy?

>>38135303
I can pretend to be one for you.

>>38135322
>online only relationship
It won't work unless you're a kind of boy I like and live near me.

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>>38132209
cheat on him and send him photos

>>38132209
atleast your bf does stuff with you mine doesnt even want to play with me and just plays with his other friends all day and forgets about me

>>38132493
That doesn't matter, the guy said he would do something and now he's not. He shouldn't have made that promise if he didn't intend to keep it. OP, you should talk to him. You have every right to remind him of what HE said he'd do, and if you're afraid to communicate with him even just to remind him of his own promises, then that's barely a relationship.

>>38133486
If communication is going unanswered then what the fuck is this relationship? Sure, there might be times when it's better to give the guy time to chill, but he's already promised to do stuff with OP, he's in the wrong here.

You shouldn't have to treat your partner like an enemy. That's not a healthy way to have a relationship. OP, You should talk to him, and he should talk to you.

>>38136394
>>38136519
it was more of a noncommittal 'yeah let's hang out when there's time' than a date or a promise or anything like that

i never said anything after that and someone else asked him first

just me taking a minor miscommunication as something that it's not, because of being jealous and insecure

>>38135322
Checked.

Not that person but drop contact so you can cling to me.

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>bf isn't attentive to gf, either out of obliviousness or cruelty
>gf posts attentionwhoring threads on thirstiest board of 4chan

You deserve each other.

>>38132209
What's he playing? FFXIV?

>>38136876
Sure: [email protected].

Instead of bitching about it you could just buy the fucking game and play with him.We already have a gay board and advice board. What's the point of this thread being here anyway? A man's day off from wagecucking is sacred. You shouldn't make him waste it on doing stupid shit he doesn't like.

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>>38136213

I know this feel too, you are not alone, friend.

It's like, you want to spend time with them and stuff but it comes across as "overbearing" and then they get all bent out of shape about it.

Well excuse me for wanting to spend time with my fucking BOYFRIEND

>>38132209
>has a bf
fuck off stacy

>>38136213
>>38137530
Why do you even get into relationships with someone like that? I really don't get it.

>>38136986
That's what I was playing when I saw this thread and thought it was me

sounds like you're dating my ex.

end things now. it doesn't get any better. they don't mean to take you for granted but they don't know how to respond to your emotional needs and aren't willing to learn.

>>38138859
not either of these posters, but two reasons:

1.) crippling self-esteem issues due to distant parenting that lead the person to only seek emotionally unavailable dues as an adult.

2.) these dudes are manipulative.

mind you, both of these things can be true simultaneously.

>>38132209
get the fuck off this board you fucking normalfag piece of shit
you're a beta cuck with a shitty SO
your problems are your fault and you deserve them
this board is for autists and outcasts, not fucking faggots

>>38132209
is this the cute boys thread?

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>>38138859
>>38139693

I'm >>38137530

The self-esteem thing is definitely true for me, I don't know if it was from my parents but its there alright.

He hasn't always been distant and unwilling to spend time doing stuff together, I know there is a better side to him and that things can be great. I don't think he's manipulative.

Slowly things are getting better, but I'm not sure how much more of it I'm willing to put up with. It's not like I have any other romantic opportunities so I might as well stick with this guy...

>>38139848
You should date me instead, tfw no clingy bf/gf.