why is it whenever a girl wants to hangout with me or even message me, i start putting myself down in my head
>your a fat piece of shit
>shes just gonna fuck with you
>i don't deserve to leave my room
>waste of her time
etc
am i fucked lads?
>>38104089
>a girl wants to hangout with me or even message me
Fuck off, Chad
>>38104119
on the rare occurance, once every 2 months one will approach me and it will go to shit
the only chad tier i have is that im 6'5
>>38104167
That sounds pretty good. Most times when I interact with a new girl they just look at me like I'm repulsive and do the best to end the converstation ASAP.
Just bee yourself and have fun with your girls, Demi-Chad.
I think the same way and my only advice is to stop overthinking.
>>38104089
>>38104167
You are luckier than majority of the robots here, you have no right to complain
>>38104284
does overthinking ever come in handy?
>>38104089
its cos u know that ur genetic trash
>>38104089
>why is it whenever a girl wants to hangout with me or even message me, i start putting myself down in my head
Because you use self-loathing as a defense mechanism for entertaining the idea of failure with a women romantically or sexually.
>>38104167
I haven't been approached in 24 years, fuck you desu
>>38104475
>self-loathing
i do honestly hate myself in general, literally disgusted by myself, avoid mirrors as much as possible, tell myself how much a fucker i am and shitt
>>38104760
Self-loathing is a perpetual cycle of self-fulfilling prophecies that burns everything, and everyone away from you.
Be careful with self-loathing, it's a dark road if you stay on it the entire time.
After I left school, I don't think I've ever been in a conversation with a women who isn't part of my family. I use self-checkouts to avoid interaction, and no women try and talk to me on the bus. So I'm afraid I can't help you with your predicament anon, but women want to speak with you, so that must be nice.
>>38104089
It's because
>>your a fat piece of shit
>>shes just gonna fuck with you
>>u don't deserve to leave ur room
>>waste her time
etc
>>38105089
whats wierd is ill go into a 2 hour window of feeling like a god and extremely confident
but ill rebound back to hating myself even harder then before, its a never ending cycle
op here again
ill jump also into some crazy source of energy where i feel extremely energized productive etc