So last night my girlfriend and I tried to have sex for the first

Just let me know if she needs a real man to take her virginity.

Don't fap for a week and try again. You're welcome.

Now get the fuck out of here you fucking normie.

I went through this exact same situation. She's not angry but she definitely thinks less of you. Luckily I just made up for it by going down on my girlfriend. We were basically like a lesbian couple, I had sex with her like 3 times in a year but I ate her out every single day. She sucked me off like once and she said she hated it.

Looking back on that relationship she was kind of a cunt

Either you're gay or you fap too much

Same happened to me at 19. She was not a virgin tho, but it was pretty terrible.
In fact, everything went downhill from there. I had made friends, had girls who liked me, I was doing well at uni, now it's all gone to shit and it was only a year ago.

I can't give you any advice I guess. She did forgive me but dumped my ass after a couple of times, I started using viagra to fuck and it was kinda shitty cause I couldn't come even after fucking for hours and I've kinda given up on everything. Hope you take it better than I did.

>>38078555
>Looking back on that relationship she was kind of a cunt
Not her fault when her "boyfriend" has a limp dick and can't satisfy her properly

>>38078624
Then she should have left me. If I'm going to go down on her everyday then she should reciprocate.

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>>38078529
hey, you're on the wrong board norman, could you leave please?

>>38078529
She will cheat on you, I wouldn't recommend doing this.

>>38078552
>Don't fap for a week and try again. You're welcome.

That's the plan I guess. I did fap two times earlier that day. Plus we were both pretty drunk. No fapping or drinking.

>>38078529
Been there friend its hard I know but it could be worse
the first time I tried to have sex with my ex I couldn't get it up and do you know what she did? she laughed at me and that didn't help needless to say to this day I have a hard time getting it up

>>38078679
>I did fap two times earlier that day
Retard

>>38078705
I didn't know that was even going to happen. It was spur of the moment.

Stop taking SSRIs, you dumb motherfuckers.

>>38078679
I once went for ten days of nofap and still couldn't get hard.
It's a psychological thing. You've been a virgin for too long.

>>38078529
She's currently on tinder finding some other dude to satisfy her because she knows you are incapable.

Tbqh anon she is probably being railed by Chad right now.

>>38078682
Thanks for reading and I'm sorry to hear that. She sounds absolutely terrible. I wish you the best man.

>>38078809
That's honestly what I'm really afraid of. I'm still going to try again in a few days though.

>>38078576
Thank for reading. I'm sorry man. That whole situation sounds terrible. I hope you're in a better place now.

>>38078874
>I hope you're in a better place now
No, I'm not. I became alcoholic and I'm dropping out. I'm also friendless atm.

There's no hope.

You're probably just anxious. Relax and don't overthink things. It will happen sooner or later.

Unless she's a massive thot she probably won't bail on you straight away.

>>38078529
Don't listen to the jealous permavirgins here. It's normal to not be able to get it up due to anxiety. Take it easy, stop fapping and try again.

>>38078787
never taken an SSRI in my life and when I couldn't get it up I hadn't masturbated in 72 hours. Its a mental block for me not physical

>>38078529
I've had the exact same problem with a girl I met anon, been working really hard on getting my shit together and was finally going to lose my virginity, couldn't get it up. Wish I could give you some advice but hey at least you're not in this boat alone :^)

>>38078928
Thanks man. I know, but actually relaxing is going to be a challenge.
>>38078934
Thanks man. Will do.
>>38079001
Thanks for reading man. Even though I know this isn't a really uncommon situation, it makes me feel better hearing other people that have had the same issue.

>>38079110
if it makes you feel even more better, i also knew a massive chad who couldn't get it up during a few of his first of (many dozen) lays. It seems like it's an incredibly common problem for first timers.

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>>38078529
Had that too the first time which was 2 years ago. Same gf as then, tried nofap and could get it up after like 6 weeks. Pretty sure I was addicted to porn. So just stop fapping for a while and you will be fine. My gf didn't leave me and in the meantime you can practice oral and hand skills mane.