>told myself at 16 that I'd have a gf by the time I was

>>37997760
I'm a khhv myself but I'm wondering why the fuck you guys care so much about losing it.

everything i've done in my life has been a mistake, i'm really thinking about committing suicide today

1. Be born a Chad
2. Done

Easy as that. If you can't do 1, enjoy your hand/shotgun to the face

>>37997789
Because I feel like if I could just have some physical experiences to prov to myself that I'm not completely worthless in the eyes of others my self confidence might improve.

>>37997820

I've seen many non-chads holding hands with females

>>37997918
With good quality females?

>>37997760
why do you faggots put so much pressure on yourselves over losing your virginity? I'm only thinking about my career and money, fuck everything else.

>>37997958
Yeah women don't have one specific taste you fucking retard. Have the people on this board wouldn't be so bitter if they ever left their house

>>37997958

Define "good-quality"

>>37997999
Yeah but attractive and intelligent women have higher quality than ugly and dumb women. It's simple.

>>37998000
The ones that Chad gets.

>>37997958
>With good quality females?
All women are the same. You're only tricking yourself if you believe in "quality" women

>>37997968
>Why do you faggots put so much pressure on yourselves over losing your virginity?
Because society deems you non human if you've never had sex.You can spout your lone wolf bullshit, but sex is everything and I guarantee you'll eat your words later on in life when you realize money and career are nothing if there's no one there to share it with and no child to carry on your legacy.

>>37998054
Chad is not a real person. Chad is just your imagined perfect version of a white man. Strive to be like the Chad you imagine in your head and stop believing it''s unachievable to become him.

Someone post the "virgin drive" one

>>37998156
It is unachievable. I can't become taller, more attractive, more intelligent, have a bigger dick and get born into a more wealthy family.

>>37998094
>sex is everything
Nope, if it's really that important go fuck as many hookers that you can afford.
>I guarantee you'll eat your words later on in life when you realize money and career are nothing if there's no one there to share it with and no child to carry on your legacy.
Maybe, but I'm not gonna kill myself over not being able to stick my dick in a vagina. I'm taking one step at a time. If down the road I connect on an emotional level with a girl then fine but for now I don't give a shit. As far as kids, that's the least of my worries. Carrying my legacy means jack shit to me.

>>37998180
Working out could make your dick bigger. It can definitely make you more attractive

>>37997789
I'm a 25 KHV, I honestly don't care because it gives me a smug satisfaction to be one when everyone else isn't and the thing that really sells it is just don't be DYEL.
I don't get this old meme anymore even when it first started, it's always been a failed normalfag problem and not a true robot one.

>>37998266
Yeah but working out won't fix the unfixable things. Like bones.

>>37998180
>taller
You can wear subtle lifts, but yea this one is pretty much undoable. However, the 4chan standards of height are bullshit, the two biggest Chads I know are 5'9". If you are very short you are in trouble though. Full manlet mode is suffering.
>More attractive
Losing weight and lifting will help. Even if you think your features are shit, having a fully defined face from low BFC is always more attractive than pudge. And a bit of tone in the arms always looks better. You objectively can become more attractive unless you're already in great shape. Plus there are tons of ugly chads, just look at the guys in porn
>more intelligent
read and study, you can definitely become smarter
>have a bigger dick
stretching works. Also pumping before a sexual encounter gives you more to work with during that encounter. Once you set that max size benchmark anything else can be chalked up to "it's an off day" or whiskey dick if you're drinking.
>get born into a more wealthy family
You can just make your own money


NONE OF THESE THINGS ARE EASY AND I AM NOT CLAIMING THEY ARE.

>>37998298
Actually bones can thicken from working out. Lifting increases bone density.

>>37998304
I want them to be as easy as they are for a top Chad. Now I am behind the starting line. If I start running now, I have to run for some time to even get to the starting line. Chad is starting way past the starting line and he has a bicycle. Guess who is gonna win this race.

Before rate threads were banned, i saw a lot of robot pics and so many of you are decently attractive guys.
A few of you are even well above average.
This whole idea that you need to be chad is all in your head. There's plenty of girls that would date most of you. Its the sperging and lack of confidence that holds you back.

Before you "be yourself" meme me, let me just say that I am a shy introvert myself and i also have self image issues and anxiety.
But theres truth behind the "fake it till you make it" meme

Women will almost always expect you to approach them first so you need to force yourself to get used
to the idea.
Work on your posture,
smile more, show her that you can be fun to be around.
Life is too short to lament putting it off. The opportunities may not be there in another 10 years. Of course rejection is shitty but never trying is way worse. You guys can do this.
Put yourself out there, take a risk.

>>37998586
>Women will almost always expect you to approach them first so you need to force yourself to get used
to the idea.
Typical beta. Women want something so you conform. More alpha would be to die alone. I'm not joking.

>>37998586
>Of course rejection is shitty but never trying is way worse
I dont see it worth a risk because i have no interest in sex.

>>37998610

Its just human nature, alot of species require the male to win the females attention. Its a show of dominance.
There is nothing alpha about dying alone because you're too afraid to say hi to a woman.

>>37997846
That's your problem mate. Linking your selfworth to someone else opinion of you.
If you think fucking makes you a whole perosn, pay for a prostitute god damn it or better yet, go to a bordello if you ain't a 'merican.

Pro Tip: It won't change a thing though. Maybe you'll feel a tad less anxious about actual physical contact with a girl, the thing is though, that you still won't get the chance to that since nothing fundamentally changed about you.
Except that you put a dick in a pucci.

Think about that. Eat lentils!

>>37998094
>I guarantee you'll eat your words later on in life when you realize money and career are nothing if there's no one there to share it with and no child to carry on your legacy.
Meh I have a big family to take care off, sides I can always just adopt a child, I don't really need sex for that.

>>37997789
I often wonder the same thing. The only reason I ever cared about losing it in the past was just so I could say I'm not a virgin for the sake of appearing more normal and mature.

Once I realized I didn't actually care about the sex, it hasn't bothered me.

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As much of a meme as this will sound, stop putting pussy/hands/kisses on a pedestal. Just work towards something in your life, be successful and good things will follow. The more you allow this to be a "problem" the more toxic it's gonna be in the long run my dude. I'll give you one bit of advice though, have a hobby and/or lifestyle that gets you out there and into the social world. The longer you are seething behind closed doors about how much of a loser you are the higher that pedestals gonna get. Also don't come here.

>>37998779

Then why are you in this thread?
Its clearly about sex and relationships

>>37998876
like every fucking thread on this board. fuck off.

>>37998814
There is nothing alpha about letting yourself be manipulated. Women push inferior men into situations where they will fail. Fucking cunts.

>>37998876
>Then why are you in this thread?
Because i'm interested in dating mechanics even i'm not interested in having sex. Maybe it's asexuality or repression.

>>37998389
You. You are going to win. You will start to run. You will fall, many times. But every time you will stand up every time. You will get so strong and chad so weak that even with a bike he won't be able to surpass you

>>37999002

Its more than likely repression. Geniunely asexuality is not common at all but if your testosterone is on the low end and you're not interacting much with the opposite sex it can start to feel that way.
Do you desire companionship at all?

>>37999078
HAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA

Do you really believe this bullshit? I mean seriously? Are you OUT OF YOUR FUCKING MIND?

I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY RIGHT AT RETARDS LIKE YOU PERPETUATING THESE DUMB PLATITUDES!

Working hard to get what some people get easily doesn't make you strong, it makes you a retard. You could have spent your time getting more.

You are simply wrong.

>>37999117
>if your testosterone is on the low end and you're not interacting much with the opposite sex it can start to feel that way
I've never had a female friend throughout 24 years. It's not like i cant talk to them but i avoid talking about sexual stuff and flirting.
>Do you desire companionship at all?
I honestly dont know. On one hand i'd like to try the thing but on another it's too much of a risk for low reward.

>>37999127
What? You think Chad didn't worked hard for his success? Do you know how many hours we worked out in the gym? Everyone has it hard. He doesn't have it easier than you. And you can do it too... You can outsmart him in so many ways...

>>37999229
Retard. Success is hard work and starting position. Hard work is necessary, but not sufficient. Hard work without starting position means you get MUCH LESS for you hard work.

>>37999179

What is the actual potential loss? Some embarassment?
The rewards can be far greater if you meet someone you geniunely like with common interests

>>37999250
I get that there's financial risks, but who fucking cares. WHO FUCKING CARES. THIS IS A NON-ISSUE.

>>37999250
>What is the actual potential loss? Some embarassment?
You put your time and resources into a thing which might leave you one day without any apparent reason.
Besides it's a little too late for me. I'm 24 and girls will only be settling

>>37997760
>hair seems to overreact to wind
HOW THE FUCK DO I STOP THIS?

>>37999270

You can date someone and keep seperate finances and home life so long as they understand that from the beginning. I knew a couple that owned their own houses a block away from eachother. Finances can be entirely independant.

>>37999293

How can you think this way? 24 is so young still. If you were like 45+ that would be more like settling.
Not everyone is about money and things. There are girls that would have more fun chilling in a park with you for free than expect you to take them to some fancy outfit and shower them in gifts.
Anyone can leave later, sure but why miss out on the potential for the opposite? Unless youre really happy doing the same thing over and over, alone forever but i highly doubt that.

>>37999245
Do you think rich born people will last much up there if they are average people? No they don't last long. They will stay there temporarily and replaced by more competent people. And that is your chance to fill the power vacuum. And you can make it. Once you do this you will feel like a nothing can stop you, and asking a girl out will be a child's game. You will make it

>>37999407
Doesn't apply for genes. Looks, height, etc.

>>37997760
>high school is literally the last place to meet a girl if you don't go to college and don't live in a city
I had a quote unquote GF when I was thirteen ten or eleven years ago, we went to see movies together a few times and held hands. I hugged her once and a week or two later she said she'd rather be just friends despite being the one to approach ME and then never spoke to me again. There is no point in seeking out female companionship because one that will actually be loyal and honest is so rare you'll never find one.

>>37999446
You can work on that, as some anon stated here >>37998304

>>37999510
You work hard only to get barely to the point where gifted people get born. Actually you work hard to get MUCH further behind them.

>>37999405
>young
but college/uni area is closed because i graduated it. Still, i'm a lost person who's very depressed to be around. Hell, i even ran away from possible opportunity to get laid because i have fear of intimacy. It seems like i could've had sex but there's little interest in it because of some repressed shit.

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bulk up loser

>>37998857
Why are other goals good, but a goal for a good, physical relationship isn't?

>>37999300
Cut your hair and use a light spray of hair shaper in the morning

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highschool:
>asked out by girls
>some girls made it very apparent they wanted to fuck
>get told by others that so and so thinks I'm cute
>never bothered because I figured this was how life would be forever and there was time

after graduation:
>rarely so much as have the opportunity to speak to a girl

Now I'm 27 with the relationship experience of a preteen and a virginal penis. I've come to realize theres no hope and I pretty much doomed myself with my ignorance early on. There isn't a girl on the planet willing to be patient with an almost 30 year old virgin. Every day I wake up in my bed alone and curse myself.

>>37999293
It's not too late for you. I guarantee it, because it wasn't too late for me.

The longer you have to wait for your first hand-holding, the better it is when you first do it.
I was an early bloomer and first held hands when I was 20. I was hard as a rock the whole time and leaking pre-cum like a faulty tap.

>>37999741
How did you succeeded? Any tips?

>>37999781
I found a smart girl, told her I was good at something (which I actually am good at, not a lie), flirted two times I saw her, then told her I would teach her and asked for her number. She was initially not interested in a relationship, but a lot of stuff has happened that isn't really appropriate to share or even will make sense in the context of you and another person. Just remember that a relationship is NOT an easy thing or even necessarily what you think of as a good thing - you will have darker times than you have even experienced to this point. Prepare yourself. Your mind is underdeveloped and your viewpoint broken in ways you can't yet imagine.

>>37999878
>Your mind is underdeveloped and your viewpoint broken in ways you can't yet imagine.
I've had my share of conflicts with mom, so i'm somewhat know what to expect.

>>37999954
A good woman will change the shit out of you, anon. Good luck.

>>38000406
>A good woman will change the shit out of you, anon
How did she changed you? For the better or for the worse?

>>37997958
>good quality
What do you mean? Attractive? Because most bimbos are worthless. The women that are worth something are the few with real interests and that are smart

>>37997760

I honestly can't imagine someone a virgin past 20

How?

Do you live like the Unabomber?

>>37997789
everyones a disgusting incel.

>>37999569

>bresh

What?

>>38000697
For the better for certain. You start to view the world and the people around you in a different light, and really - and I do mean really - start to inspect your own behavior and become conscious of it.

>>38000898
>How?
Socially inept + ugly. It's really that simple.

>>37999407
There is no point in encouraging these people they are too retarded to understand
Its almost like they want to lay in their own misery and complain about it
This is the reason why i gave up on giving advice,instead i just told myself that advice and i became successful.
Im encouraging you to do the same

>>38002476
Don't give up on helping other people. Creating order out of chaos it the most meaningful thing in life.

>>38002476

Or perhaps you're terrible at giving advice/explaining things such that they seem realistic and possible

>>38002897
I can at least relax now. I didn't do anything. I just like anime and stuff. Leave me alone.

>>38001763
No, even the uggos and spergs I know aren't virgins

>>38003580
Yeah, nobody is going to to die you hear me! And they'll kill anyone who stops them! They're super sewious guais!

>>38002914
If not leaving you alone means you merely recognize your own loss of potential, I see no reason I should do so.

>>38003886
*shouldn't

>>38002914
Question. Do you do any drugs, and do you do them quite often?

>>37998304
What if you're 5'4, ugly, balding and non white?

>>38003971
Fuck. Life is cruel.

>>38003580
Not everyone lives in slavland or spicland you know.