what do normies mean by 'finding yourself'? I want to try it.
>>37993365
It means being comfortable saying where you came from and where you're going.
>>37993365
It comes with age. Turned 22 and found out I was asexual
>>37993396
Fuck yeah, 4chan pass beat this fucking spammer
The system works
>>37993365
Their excuse for doing meaningless dumb shit for the sake of receiving pleasure.
You're better off making friends with the monks and meditating in the mountains.
>>37993365
It means dedicating yourself to the things you love and find purpose in instead of the things others expect you to do.
Personally I said fuck it and starting waving a sword around in my backyard even though people said I was autistic, I started reading tons of philosophy even though people told me I was being pretentious, I started hitting on girls even though people told me I was awkward and I started working out even though people told me I was a skeleton and I started dieting even though people told me I was a faggot.
I achieved more in 6 months than I ever have before and people definitely don't insult me for it anymore, because I've actually accomplished things.
>>37993365
>what do normies mean by 'finding yourself'?
It's basically an excuse to avoid adulthood and extend their adolescence another decade or so, so they can avoid responsibility and continue a lifestyle of short term pleasure-seeking.
They just call it "finding yourself" because it lends more legitimacy to their choices than saying "I don't feel like being an adult yet".
It's something the Jews encourage.
>>37993365
When girls say it, it means travelling around the world taking numerous dicks in each city they stay in.
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>>37993430
That's a completely different definition from what I use, but I guess there's truth to it. You see plenty of people who say they're "finding themselves" go on useless holidays and not putting any effort towards anything productive, whereas I tried to find myself by working towards something I wanted to accomplish and seeing if I found some semblance of happiness in it.
To my surprise, I really did.
>>37993365
Start reading philosophy. Specifically Plato and the forms.
For roasts it means traveling and fucking dozens of foreigners.
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>>37993595
Thnx for the responses guys. Appreciate it. It's nice to see different perspectives
>>37993365
It just means finding a direction in your life, what your desires are, who you are comfortable being, things like that. It has become a bit of a buzzword these days for travelling around, doing jackshit. What is probably more effective, is trying out different interests to see what you like, focusing on self-improvement, try reading up on philosophy to define your own principles and purpose, etc.