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I just learned im officially unattractive >Bought tinder

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I just learned im officially unattractive

>Bought tinder plus because it didnt seem like much for virtually unlimited chances of finding happiness
>Literally all ages and max distance
>Been swiping literally for a full month everybody
>Even have pics of me and bio with my interests etc
>NOBODY MATCHES ME BACK
>The pain that there is literally all these people that didnt find you even remotely attractive to give you a single like is surreal
>Did match with someone today
>Omg I know this girl from
>"Hey I just swiped you so I could ask how you've been"

What is the purpose of this
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Maybe you just have shitty pics. Look up how to take more photogenic photos
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>>37992026
Like it hurts a bit because I never thought I was that unattractive, but still unattractive enough

wish my parents didnt tell me I was beautiful when i was a kid, it gives you false hope and gives you too high standards
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>>37992051
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Photogenic

this shit is just for women and people who have others take pictures of them in interesting situations

i can only make pictures myself using my smartphone and in my own home
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>>37992069

>wikihow

Look harder

>i can only make pictures myself using my smartphone and in my own home

this is why. Girls look at a photo for less than a second before they swipe. Learn to take good photos
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>>37992100
If you know it so well why dont you tell me?
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Definitely not ugly, just stupid and inexperienced. At this rate, you will stay a virgin forever.
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>>37992165
What are you even meaning?
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>>37992117
because just like everyone on this board, he doesn't know jack fucking shit and is a self prescribed know it all.
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>>37992026
l use Tinder to look at cute girls and screencap their profiIes
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>>37992117
Because normies dont like competition.
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>>37992117

try this? I see it posted around often

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qe3oJnFtA_k


but yeah I bet your profile picture is you in front of a mirror or in your room. Don't do that. Go outside
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>>37992179
That you are a dumb sheltered teenager failed normie and that you will likely remain a virgin for a long time.
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>>37992199
im almost 30 and im not a virgin

i was way more succesful in my teenager years but autism developed later
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>>37992069
>i can only make pictures myself using my smartphone and in my own home
But why? This is literally the reason. What prevents you from going outside and having a friend or family member take photos of you?
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>>37992218
i dont have friends and my family is dead to me

also i live in a shit country with no interesting stuff on te background to take a picture of

cant even get into nature, well i can go in a park but walking alone in a park taking pics just makes you look like a weirdo while doing it as well as on the pics
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>>37992218
>having a friend or family member take photos of you?
Hi re.ddit pls kys yourself and fuck off
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>>37992182
Did you screenshot this one by accident L O L
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>>37992238
If you don't have friends, how do you expect to find a gf? Hell, how did you even manage to get a tinder set up without friends?
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>>37992238
Gee, I wonder why a shut-in who interacts with no one is having a hard time presenting as attractive.
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Girls occasionaly like me on the tinder. I NVR reply though, I'm just happy looking at pics.
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>>37992247
What an intelligent and thoughtful reply. What I would expect from a raging virgin NEET with the mental level of a 12 year old.
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>>37992182
>75% gay

why is the word 'bisexual' so hard to say for some people
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>>37992026
Statistics show that for men, the best pics with most replies have these qualities
>with an animal
>outside
>not looking into camera
>not smiling
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>>37992388
Not any animal. Dog is by far the best.

Also, the negatives. Never with a girl. Never shirtless. Funny how /r9k/ gets these wrong all the time.
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>>37992388
What statistics? Where did you get this?
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>>37992330
why do you need friends to setup a tinder?

>>37992332
its all about your picture thats shit

if youre ugly youre doomed

this is my complaint
i just found out im ugly
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>>37992429
Way to ignore every post in this thread because it doesn't line up with your dumb bullshit.
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>>37992429
Don't you need a fb account with 50 friends to set up tinder?
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>>37992458
>He doesn't know
Laughing girls.jpg
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>>37992458
eh no? i have 0 friends on there and only use my first name on my fake fb account
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>>37992489
>mohawk college

H A M I L T O N !
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Why would you give money to Jewder?
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>>37992069
>i can only make pictures myself using my smartphone and in my own home
There's your answer. When I was single my picture was me in a pool, half my face and another where you couldn't really see my face. I got matches all the time.
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>>37992622
Hamilton girls are gross desu
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For the millionth time, your success with online dating is not indicative of your attractiveness.

Also, you're using Tinder, what the fuck did you actually expect? It's fucking Tinder! If you are a man and below 9/10, most girls will not give a shit about you.

Now that you understand this and underdtand that your success rate with online dating is always going to be in the range of dissapointing, you should understand tgat you have better chances learning to socialize IRL and try your luck outside of the internet. Your success rate may not skyrocket? but it's going to be better. It's easier to make a better impression IRL because girls on dating apps are snobs who purely select on superficial criterias and leave no room for mistakes.

>inb4 the same as irl girls.

To an extent, yes, but it's nowhere near as bad as on dating apps. You're better off using a combinaison of dating apps and IRL socializing because if you rely purely on dating apps, you are always gonna be dissapointed and your already low self esteem is going to plunge further into the abyss.
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>>37992345
this is r9k cunt this is our home, fuck off
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>>37992069
>>37992117
>>37992238

Don't listen to those guys OP. You clearly didn't get universally canned by hundreds of different women just because you took bad photos. They are basically just false flagging normies/chads. Tinder works just fine for them since they are attractive or extremely lucky, and they browse r9k despite having girlfriends or an active dating life just to tell us "its so easy bro just do x".

I'm sure your pictures do suck, and you could no doubt take better ones. At the end of the fucking day though, it doesn't really matter. You could have an actual photographer take a picture of you climbing a mountain, then photoshop that shit at the professional level to make you more attractive, and there will still inevitably be a handful of guys within 20 miles of you who are still more attractive than you because that is just how life is.
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>>37992841
This is not your home. Wizchan is. Out.
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>>37992905
... And he would get matches. Amazing how /r9k/ is such a negative board that is obsessed with hating everything and seeing everything as shit.
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WeIl can any of you guess?
Its a lot of money
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>>37993154

He would get matches with tinder sluts, that would probably not be girlfriend material to begin with. And even if they were they would reject him upon meeting him because of his misleading photos, altering his appearance or making it seem like he's an active outdoorsy type of person when that actually isn't true in any way.

Wow, what a catch. He's still going to end up getting rejected by the same sluts, but in a lot more time consuming way that gives him a lot more false hope.
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Wait a tick what's she mean by this
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>>37993192
Oh no, he would have sex, and maybe find a gf too. But because he still isn't Chad, and won't get a pure virgin waifu, he must not do it! Better mope alone in misery!

How can someone like you even live day to day? Why haven't you killed yourself yet?
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Well robots what do you think!
Yfdgvffg
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>>37993251

I think you're assuming way too much about my beliefs and opinions. r9k isn't one person. Half of what you just said doesn't apply to me. I'll do you the courtesy of listing out what's wrong with your post.

>he would have sex and maybe find a gf

He might have sex, but if the gatekeeper that decides whether you're ignored entirely by a tinder girl/having sex with her is dependent upon your profile pictures, then why wouldn't she immediately lose interest when meeting him irl and discovering his pictures were inaccurate and misleading? Why would you want to make a girl on tinder your girlfriend?

>won't get a pure virgin waifu

When did I bring the sexual history of any hypothetical women into question? This literally isn't important to me and was never part of the conversation.

>Better mope alone and in misery!

I never suggested that as a better alternative. Also it's rather depressing that you equate not being alone with not being miserable. You can be independent.
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>>37993192

Assumptions are not the same as facts, anon and it's always better to try than to assume the worst and do nothing at all.

That is your fatal flaw. In any situation, from the get go, you assume the worst possible outcome and you convince yourself it is going to happen without a doubt, then you give shit to the normies for trying to help you. Say whatever you want about normies and use all the mental gymnastics you can to justify not listening to normie advice by telling yourself they could never understand or that nobody is actually trying to help you out of a selfless desire and it's all about the normie ego, but you should be fucking thankful some people are trying to help you instead of laughing in your face. Because normies are not the actual problem here, the problem is you. You will never succeed in anything you set your mind to accomplish if all you visualize from the beginning is failure. It doesn't matter if you've been rejected 1000001 times and you just can't take it anymore, it doesn't matter if you've had a tragic childhood, shitty parents, a mental illness or much bullying, it doesn't matter if failure has turned you into a jaded fuck. It might be understandable, but it doesn't fucking matter. The actual problem is tgmhat you've let your repetitive lack of success nourish the attitude of someone who is always going to lose and normies are not to blame for this, you are, because no matter who you are in life, whether you were born in the slums or with a silver spoon, regardless of if you have it easier or harder, you WILL face adversity, people are going to get in your way to prevent your success because men are competitive by nature and if you find it too hard or that you reject the notion of competition, it's a life's fact. No matter who you are, people will shit on you, so you either give up and respectfully weep in silence or you think like a winner regardless of circumstances and you try and try and try.
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>>37992026
>Not being a dog on tinder

You people are doing it wrong
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>>37992489
>>>>>>>>>>>>love life cosplayers on tinder
ewww
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>>37992026
>he didn't think it through and let Tinder ruin the leftovers of his confidence and hope

I hope you learnt anon, you just don't do anything, if there is a risk of failure involved at all.
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>>37992193
that's a pretty good video
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>>37992052
>>37992026
I feel you
Oroegaha
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>>37992026
>No girl swiped right, I'm ugly like you guys

Fuck off normie.
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>>37994194
>cosplaying Kotori
even worse
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>>37993188
>"Modeling"
Aka she's sorta famous on instagram and whores herself out for Saudi oil Sheikhs
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>>37992622
What's up, I'm in Hamilton too. Down town?
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>>37992388
>>37992410

From his ass most likely, or /soc/'s. They always post shit like that in Tinder threads and yet absolutely cream their pants over a guys profile that consists of about 5 pictures of them on their own in different locations just because they're handsome.

That's the only real definitive, fool proof way of getting matches: be good looking.

Everything else is a crap shoot.
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i have never used tinder because i have no interest in sluts but i am okcupid and a few other sites and get a few likes/messages every day.

i usually ignore 90% of them because of deal breakers like children or mental disorders like 'progressive liberalism'.

i never ever message girls first, that is a waste of time. they all get spammed all day long.

advertise yourself right and they will come after you after they get bored sifitng thru all the 'hi', 'hey', 'u r cute' messages they delete from randoms

physically i am a 4/10, 6/10 at best, but my sense of humor and short list of interests are attractive to a lot of women
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>>37995636
Having a good picture is more important. A good-looking guy can look ugly with a bad pic. An average guy can look good with a good pic.

Also, never listen to robots on Tinder advice, since they have never successfully created a profile.
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>>37992698
your phone is talking shit
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>he's a non-chad on tindr

Why are you wasting your effort? Only genetically superior males get laid on tindr
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>>37996873
If by genetically superior you mean, someone not in the bottom 1% trash of genetics, then you are correct.
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>>37992026
Post bio OP. It could be what you have written there that's deterring them.
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>>37997128
His picture was shit. He said that he only used selfies taken on his phone.
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>>37997100
I've gotten laid without the use of social media apps and whatever crazy shit your kids use these days but I never match with anyone on tinder
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>>37992026
i cant believe that men have to take professional photos of themselves, make money, do interesting things, work out, drive a nice car, and be chad/10 all for the chance to maybe sleep with a 2/10 applebees waitress
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>>37997443

You think that's bad? Many men are entering college for 8+ year degrees. This is all in the hopes of attracting some Roastie when they get out.

Meanwhile, Chad is scoring with prime females with 0 effort.
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>>37992208

How about you leave then you stacy-fucking normalshit
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>>37997443
What cuck fantasy world do you live in where that happens? I see 2/10 men with Stacies all the time.
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>>37997513
You think that's bad? Men have to be 8 feet tall, blonde, have 3 PhDs, and make 7 figures to hope to be able to land even a 1/10 landwhale.

Meanwhile Chad is sitting in the basement all day long and Stacies are lining up to ride his cock.
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>>37992026
Protip: swiping right on everyone puts you in a loser bin. The algorithm realizes you're fucking desperate so it shitcans you with bots and other desperate, unlovable people.

Also, my coworkers sifted through my selfies and rearranged my Tinder profile. I don't like the pics they chose but they have good reasoning for it and they told me to "give it a couple days". They aren't fucking losers like I am (at least they don't show it as much) so I'll see where it goes.
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>>37997598

One day I hope to meet his mysterious, 2/10 retarded midget which scores through his beautiful personality. Apparently every normalfag knows this guy but I've never met him.
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>>37997443
I slept with a 6/10 applebees waitress from tinder and I'm hardly 6/10 myself. Just go out and take some solid photos one day and you'll get matches.
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>>37997705
"take solid photos, groom yourself, get lifts" and if those dont work you better work on your personality. just fuckin lol buddy boyo
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>got gf through tinder in february
>she left me last week
>back on tinder, trying to find a new girl
>made new account with better/more social pictures, in addition to old one
>getting almost no matches
why is this happening? I thought I was at least average looking, I have pretty decent pictures and a bio that doesn't scream autism
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>>37992400
>Never with a girl
Why?
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>>37997623
Not even close to bad. Nowadays, men need to be 28 stories tall and earn figures equivalent to the GDP of Lithuania to even land a .5/10 fat pride activist.
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>>37997785
10% of men get 90% of women. you're ugly and need plastic surgery, maybe you have a shitty frame, or you need to be taller
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>>37997845
When I first started on tinder back in january I got a decent amount of matches though
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>>37997761
You just ironically gave yourself the advice that I followed. Took literally 8 months of lifting, new haircut, and one day of taking pictures. Now I get 6+ matches a day.
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>>37997666
That's because you spend all your time at home, Satan.
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>>37997845

>10% of men get 90% of women

now you're just pulling numbers out of your ass. what happened to the 80/20 rule?
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>>37997845
90% of men get 10% of women. Those 10% are sluts who put out for everyone. The other 90% will be more or less monogamous.
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>>37997927
no you dont you nigger. you dont need to lie to us here on the internet

>>37998025
its now the 90/10 rule
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>>37998059
You're right. I don't. So why would I?
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Op, link your bio so we can tell u what you fucked up on
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>>37998087
maybe you're mentally ill. I dont know why you're telling these lies to everyone
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>>37998059

>its now the 90/10 rule

any particular reason or just the fact that's it's more excuse to REEE?
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>>37998223
just walk upstairs, open up your door and walk outside
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400+ match crew reporting in. Step your pics game up OP. I'm not even chad.
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>>37998223
I think you mean the 99/1 rule
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>>37998310

No but unless it took you years to get those 400+ matches you have to be at least 7+/10 with a profile that shows you have a respectable place in society and aren't some robot outcast.... which obviously can't be said of most of r9k.

Now stop humblebragging faggot
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>>37998310
>all ridiculously cute girls
why would I even bother joining tinder if this is who I'd be stacked against? I'd rather be alone than embarrassed like this.
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>>37998541

Well this week i've gotten tons of fatties. It's strange how it works, sometimes i get a slew of qts and then nothing but landwhales for a week.

Gonna take a break soon and eventually reset my account, my matches have been too far away, i think i swiped everyone around me.

And if i only have 400 matches out of swiping probably 30,000, that means i'm not very goodlooking either.
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Honestly mate, just fuck tinder and simply go out and live your life mate. Get a fitness-membership to meet gymbunnys. Get Hobbies that actually involve you meeting new people, like go to a classical dance course in a respectable danceschool and not a senior-meetup. Or book a fucking holiday that will put you with others if you want to or not. I can vouche for winterholiday-trips with a tourbus. If you're near the coast, learn wind-/surfing or kiteing and just hang with the crowd at the surfshops.

Honestly, people are just to lazy these days. You can't meet interesting people you'de actually would like to spend your days with online, espescially not on tinder, where the goal is to get someone down to fuck, have some fun and move on.

Also, Eat lentils!
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