ITT: reasons why the opposite sex does not find you attractive
>aspergers, although i have not actually been diagnosed and i try hard to hide it
>constant alcohol abuse and dependence on weed
>no aspirations or goals
>afraid of commitment
>only appealing hobby is lifting, my other ones are smoking weed and video games
>have a reputation of treating women poorly (something i tend to do after i have been drinking)
who else is hopeless here
>>37943987
>who else is hopeless here
not me
>hideous face
>autism (diagnosed)
>dullness
>severe anxiety
Biggest ones
>fat
>manlet
>no friends
>not rich
Mostly my personality, I come off as bitter and antisocial at uni which is true, but it is so because I don't like most of my classmates and don't care about their lives at all, so they don't care about me either. Which is kind of conflicting, because I want to have friends, but then I look at them and the feeling goes away and I go about my way, but th again, it'd be nice to not be wandering alone in between classes around campus.
I have hobbies, good grades, a job, car, and goals, but females don't find me attractive because I am not popular or a normie. But again, there are no girls I am attracted to at school, so it doesn't bother me that much, until I begin feeling the need for love and a gf again.
>>37943987
>skinny, wristlet
>no confidence
>openly hate
>don't have a car
>>37944111
Same here. I thought moving away would help me change my attitude towards people, but it didn't. My narcissism makes me unable to try to make friends so I just stay in my dorm all day. It's a vicious cycle of wanting to be interacted with and hating people who talk to me. Do people also tell you you're mean to others?
>>37943987
>dont have a social circle
>neet life and asocial
>>37943987
>no money
>alcoholic scumbag
>severe drug abuse
>>37943987
>Ugly motherfucker
>Overweight
>Social anxiety (or maybe i'm an autist, i don't know)
>Paranoid
>Depressive
>No confidence at all
>My taste in most stuff isn't normie friendly
>>37944550
sometimes, but when I talk to them (schoolmates) when they happen to be alone without their group of friends, we usually get along, and they say that I give this vibe of arrogance and superiority, meaning that they think I think I'm too good to hang out with them.
But I just hate normies, and think them stupid.
>high 80s iq
thats why
>make zero effort to be pleasurable
>make zero effort to be presentable
>make zero effort to try and date
>do not have a lot of money
>am overweight
no surprise. I literally just put no effort in.
>>37943987
I just cultivate an air of extreme unapproachability and bitchiness to cover my crippling diagnosed depression and anxiety.
>fat
That's literally it.
>smart
>funny
>sociable
>has lots of male and female friends
>kind
>girls always tell me how nice i am
>still no gf for entire life
Why?
>>37944937
Go exercise, moron.
>mentally ill since childhood
>have been idling in university for a decade now with no degree to show for it because I can't handle work
>financially dependent and very unstable
Those are the only reasons. After years of therapy, a lot of people actually like my personality. I'm intelligent, funny, kind and patient. I may not be exactly beautiful, but I'm not ugly either, and plenty of guys show interest when all they know about me is how I look.
>>37944884
I relate to that. I've been told openly that people think I'm rude to everyone. Whatever, we're not meant to be people I guess.
>>37943987
>ginger (no freckles)
>pale
>voicelet
>wristlet
>anxious when talking to girls I'm interested in
>slight acne
Apparently my personality is decent and I'm funny though, because girls that aren't interested in me/are out of my league and gfs of friends think I'm hilarious. So that's nice I guess.
>>37945141
Forgot to add:
Those are some pretty huge reasons although there aren't many. I'd say I'm hopeless.
>>37943987
>manlet
>lanklet
>wristlet
>acne
>big nose
>sleep-deprived face
>craned neck
>"direct" manners
>dysthymia
>poor
>istp
>"too" honest
>hate children
>sjws hate me
>alt right fedoras hate me
>try not to dress to impress
>already have given up onwhitewomen
>god complex
>inferiority complex
>zero effort in academics
>too passionate
>too shy
>hate myself too much to try
>no friends
>believe nobody would want anything to do with me
I'm a lazy piece of shit with a body straight out of Auschwitz
>long hair
>skinny
>dead, tired eyes
>bitter, cold brickwall
>clog up my feelings
>fear of rejection
>hate myself and want to change but dont love myself enough to bother changing
>probably some mental illness as well
But the thing I dont understand is that there is a girl I am friends with (not in a relationship though, as she is not interested, she said herself when I steered conversation there once) who seems to care about me somewhat.
Maybe she is bit gullible as she is younger than me or its that I can hide real me well enough to not raise suspicion. I have to do this every day at work. I just dont know why she cares.
Or am I just sub-consiously manipulating her or something? Am I sociopath? If I am maybe its best that I stay away from relationships.