What should i do man. i really like her but, last night she got angry and said some really hurtful things. should i stay her or should i leave to save myself the pain later. the only girl ive ever cared about
i didnt do anything wrong
fuck this gay ass orignal shit
the one time i actually start to trust someone again and they just treat me like dirt
help me please, i need advice
>>37927972
>>37927972
Who is she? gf?
>>37927972
>>37927978
>>37927995
Get her some meds for that Borderline Personality Disorder t b h
>>37927972
lol fucking fag gtfo
she's obviously right though, she's expressing how upset she is and you go on a board whining about yourself and how it's all about you. why not try and talk about it and make mutual changes to make the both of you happier instead of just trying to ignore it so you can still have a comfy completely one sided relationship. this is truly autism
>>37927995
> just treat me like dirt
lol shes not being mean, shes just upset because youre still making it about you
>>37928253
gf
originaln
>>37928296
>>37928319
No this isn't the full discussion, she admitted that she was over reacting. She was only saying those things to be hurtful. I'm asking advice on if i should leave her or not you fucking idiots
>>37928347
she didn't even fucking overreact, she probably just feels bad because you're still being a mopey bitch and making everything about you so then she feels guilty and has to comfort you again. why not say sorry and try to work on shit. if anyone should be leaving, it's her. stay with her and get YOUR shit together
>>37928368
gonna screen cap entire discussion now hold on
>>37928368
She wasn't just writing that to be hurtful, she just expressed her feelings which made you feel bad because you know she's right.
>>37928347
Anon, you're clearly whipped, and you're going to r9k to ask for advice on your seemingly bitch ass girlfriend. The fact that you're giving thought to this insecurity of yours, should show you how fruitful your relationship is.
>tldr
>stop being a bitch
>your bitch is going to keep acting this way whenever she's pissed
>dont like your bitch?
>get a new one
>stop making life a teenage drama
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Wooooooooh who the fuck cares about this stupid teenage drama. Go and take it to tumblr or something jesus. SAGE
>>37928527
shut up you goddamn faggot
You both sound annoying and whiney desu
>>37928524
Not even the best virgins of r9k can help you with your relationship, fix it yourself dude
Yeah, after reading that, maybe you're the one with BPD. It feels like there's too much backstory here we don't know to have an educated opinion. You seem to have a close relationship, though, so I hope everything turns out okay.
>>37928542
How did you make that comment original, i swear i've seen it 100000000000 times before
>>37928496
Man, this is so me..
How'd you meet her?
>>37928583
she messaged me first on interpals, I have my snapchat on there and she said told me she added me. she's the only girl who's ever thought i looked attractive or said they love me.
You both seem immature and co-dependent. Is this your first relationship (both of you)?
>>37928618
it's my first one
>>37927972
Fuck off normie, you and your roastie and gtfo of my board
lmao you're literally fucking autistic.
>now u know how i feel
she said that because you were overreacting to her just listening to music and not talking to you instead, she even said it wasn't intentional and you still got huffy about it. and it's clear that she's right because you acted like an immature child throughout the entire fucking thing.
and then you literally bring up that you're suicidal out of NOWHERE, obviously to make her feel guilty. that's text book abusive dumbass
>>37927972
She sounds good.
You on the other hand do not.
You're disgusting obviously trying to manipulate her feelings or lack thereof for you.
>>37928659
you're right, i cant deny the truth any longer
She's upset because you are not listening to her and are trying to invalidate her feelings by arguing
I've been in this kind of argument before senpai
>>37928527
I know most these knuckle draggers cannot spell basic words.
>>37928696
i told her i didnt want to argue
>>37928723
reads very passive-aggressive desu
>>37928683
>>37928659
but admitted to overreacting in the situation. we were on the phone and she just started blasting music and ignoring me and she actively encourages me to be emotionally dependent on her, she tells me to message her all the time. she said she wants me to give her my full attention and when i do and actually start to place my trust in her she always does this
>>37928723
it's just dismissive. you can't just tell her not to be upset, why not just be decent and try to communicate
>>37928741
it's hard to actually get emotion across in a text, that's why i dont like arguing through text or arguing at all in a any manner
>>37928765
i was trying to communicate before but she just starting ignoring me. as soon as i showed that i was annoyed with her ignoring me she started doing this
>>37928583
why are normie males so pathetic? get a hold of yourself and stop being a whiney desperate bitch.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qUUc4Cq5NJc
>>37928798
its not pussy whipped if ive never met her
>>37928936
kek
KEK
you're right though, you're just bitch-made
>>37928936
you can absolutely be whipped without meeting her. just look at all the orbiters surrounding females online buying them gifts and shit.
>>37928512
literally kys. it's not fair to bitch about how suicidal you are when she's upset. you're making her feel guilty for YOU being an uncontrollable little bitch. how the fuck did you even get a gf in the first place? holy shit i would leave you and let you kill yourself just for saying that.
>>37928978
>>37928798
>>37929006
you guys are right. i guess i just gotta man up
>>37928506
>me canse
are you both chicanos?
am more appalled by your weak demeanor and bringing up your suicidal tendencies to anyone.
stop being a fucking limp wristed bitch.
the relationship is gonna end regardless eitherway, since you're both fucked.
>>37931350
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Take this relationship as a learning experience to not be a doormat to crazy pussy.
Holy fuck are you an aspy.
She needs to talk about her problems, and from experience here (normie going cyborg/robot) you need to fucking listen to her vent and try giving her help in any way, be it just listening or actively trying to find answers to her problems. I know people say about how girls go on and on about their trivial dogshit, but I for one really don't care and would listen anyways and try to fix whatever's wrong, and you would too if you truly loved her. A fucking important point would be not to make yourself a fucking victim when she's the one who felt bad. You fucking brought up your suicidal tendencies and her making you go through emotional pain and dumb shit at a time when she wanted to be important. I have done similar things, but it wouldn't ever be when I'm not in the spotlight. I would stay with her, but if you really are that pussy whipped then fuck off and be a beta virgin to lurk in this shithole.
Okay dude. Listen up. Firstly, stop being such a cuck. Man up. Watch tony robbin's advices on relationships. He won't teach you pickup, but you'll learn how to man up.
Secondly, ask her questions. If she tells you she's sad, ask her why. When she tells you why, ask questions about that scenerio. Also, imo, you should tell her that you want to change, and that you want her to help you. She seems like she'll agree.
PS, don't post conversations in 4chan. Last time I told a story about something that happend to me irl, it ended up in /r/4chan, and it got me in alot of trouble when people I know found out about it.
I always change some details in my stories ever since.