>Close friend gets mad because I never say much and he has to carry the conversation
>I think of things to say
>I say a thing that I thought was kinda interesting
>"Uh... ok? I don't really get why you're telling me that? like what am I supposed to say to that....?"
>mute my mic because I start to tear up because of how much of a loser I am
nice
>>37904462
I know these feels sadly, its just hard sometimes to talk about stuff when nothings happening
Well what did you say anon
Because normies want you to talk about sports and tv shows
>>37904462
It's okay OP, I'd be your friend and listen to anything you had to say.
>>37904462
You're not a loser, don't be so hard on yourself. What is confusing to one person would be a perfectly good conversation starter to other, your friend's opinions aren't ultimate judgements.
I hope he starts treating you better but if not you will eventually find someone who's a better fit and with whom such problems don't arise.
>>37904462
>>37904628
I forgot to say similar shit used to happen to me a lot.
>>37904674
Hahahaha what a bitch faggot kys yourself
>>37904462
Watch a spots gaem and talk about it
Like
Player x is a fucking retard
The ref was paid
Etc
>>37904462
You're not a loser you just suck at making conversation.
I hate when people try to force a conversation when none of you have nothing to say. How do people sit for hours and hours listening to each other breathe in voicechat? Nigger I'd rather listen to music, or the sound of a game or hell do anything else.
This is basically what made me realize that I not only am unable of making new friends, but I don't want any at all. Initiating conversation is fucking hard and pretending to care or give meaningful responses when they vent to you is a massive chore. Cutting off all internet friends I already had and going full /schizoidpd/ was the best decision I've made in my life and I don't see why other robots don't do the same more often
>>37904462
anyone htat has to complain about forcing a conversation is a retard
idiot needs to learn to kick back and shut up
>>37905145
This.
Totally common thing that a lot of people on this board see as some sort of "I must be retarded, better an hero" thing.
Think of it as stage-fright on a smaller scale and realize it's a minor thing. Let yourself relax and talk about what you think, whatever you think, filtering only insane stuff.
By "insane stuff" I mean "I love big japanese titties" in most situations, anime discussion around normans, talk of inane things around you, etc.
"Hey there's a bird over there" is inane as fuck. "Holy shit that bird is mauling a child" is not.
When in doubt, remember the golden rule: "it is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt"
>>37904462
I have the same problem sometimes. It makes me feel like a fucking idiot. Here's some stuff I like to bring up if I'm running out of things to talk about.
>videogames
>tv shows
>books
>pretty much any type of interest
I also talk alot about mental health shit with my one best friend but that's just him & I've known him for 6+ years so I don't think that'd be something to bring up in casual conversation.
>>37904462
>I say a thing that I thought was kinda interesting
you sound like a girl
>>37904462
DONT TEAR UP! WALK RIGHT IN THERE WITH YOUR AUTISM! USE YOUR AUTISM! MAKE THEM TEAR UP! WITH LAUGHS! BE LOUD! POST IN CAPS!
t. shutin
>>37904462
This is why you have to jus b urself, op. If you make a friend that's as autistic as you about something then you can actually talk to each other.