how do you deal with a woman who is already taken but that keeps talking with you ? I want to bury my feelings and at the same time I don't want to be a whiny bitch and ghost her
>>37870414
She's keeping you around for a rebound ( which is what you don't want ) cut off contact and gtfo unless you just want her as a friend
>>37870445
she's engaged so I don't think I'm rebound, and I can't cut off contact since she's a coworker I see daily.
>>37870616
Engaged means absolutely nothing, she could be realizing she's making a huge mistake before the wedding even happens
And yes you can, it's pretty easy. Steadily say less and less to her day by day and she'll ultimately lose interest
>>37870668
well that's what I've been doing but not strictly enough I guess. I would like to be her friend and I think it would benefit my social skills but it's too tiresome
>>37870866
That's okay just keep at it and keep your eyes open, contrary to what most people think going to a public place will not harm you because most of the time people are too busy with their own shit to even care if you lose your spaghetti. You have a job and transportation, that's enough to start hauling some chicks, now go out there and get some numbers champ
>>37870972
alright thanks for the advices
>>37871105
You got it dude, enjoy yourself!