>starved for affection
>someone is nice to you
>instantly develop feelings
Help me /r9k/ how can i stop this feels
>>37807714
Take a step back and look at yourself. Are you someone this person would like? Like, really, if they knew exactly what you were. Are you even an interesting person, would you know how to satisfy and meet them intellectually? Do you think they deserve someone like you?
>>37807768
What if that did not help, it's not like i am a moron that is going to confess those feels. I just want to sto feelinh them
Be a pessimist.
No, really. Have the MOST NEGATIVE VIEW on everything. Not negative as in hatred towards that one person, but convincing yourself that that person actually thinks of you as pathetic and just shows affection because thats what a normal person would do in that case
>>37807887
Feels come and go. Nothing different here. Realize that you are not in love with them and if you think you are, listen buddanon, you're really not. The only other thing you can do is wait for the feels to go. I recommend putting your feels energy into bettering yourself as a person.
>>37807981
Thanks, that actually helped a bit