Is there even a way to get a girlfriend without having a

There are ways to get in contact with girls, but they likely wont want anything to do with you if you have no friends.

If you somehow got a gf without a social circle, she would break up with you within a week because you have no social circle

look good basically. if you are average i don't think you can make it.
maybe go to geekshit meetings and try to meet woman there

>>37799884

If you are a guy it is not hard to jump into a social circle. Guys tend not to be cliqueish like girls.

You just need to learn how to ease into a group and to get a feel for everyone. Takes time and practice and just basic social skills.

>>37799855

If you are unable to be social and maintain friends you are unlikely to get a girlfriend. If they see you associate with no one then they will likely stay away or drift away because of it.

Why no social circle?

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>>37799907
>>37799911
But ive lost all my friends for falling to the social anxiety meme

Getting? Yep hard but doable.
Keeping it that way, that is trouble.
Most women are annoyingly social. And if you do not have your own group, you'll get dragged into hers. Which is probably full of ex-bfs and orbiters that will hate your guts.

>>37799940
fuck! i didn't know it was just a meme

fucked me up real good over the past decade

>>37799855
btw who is she? pretty

better seduce them celebrities

>>37800033
looks like elsie hewitt

>>37799940

Falling for the social anxiety meme? What do you mean? Use real words to describe a short version of your life and why you think their is no redemption for you.

>>37799855
Yes. I've gone through a string of girls whilst only having 1-2 online friends.

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>>37800033
>wow anon you dont know about me

https://www.instagram.com/olgachocolate/

>>37800089
Wow I thought she was so hot in that picture. She looks like shit in everything else though

>>37799929
Normie shit asking normie questions. Why do you fucks even come here.

>>37800136

So that you decide to leave.

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>>37800089
thanks, but I guess OP already posted the best picture

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>>37800079
>be me
>be in around 6th grade
>school life is kinda bad
>always get bullied by some alpha chad that got developed in his early years so much(around 90kg of muscle already has a beard)
>still manage to make some friends
>make what is supposed to be ''le best friend''
>life continues after middle school
>we see each other alot but he keeps socialising and finding new people while I am scared of everyone
>I keep trying to fit in his new groups but I simply just block out and dont talk
>decide one day to just stop going out with ''friends''
>mfw years pass and im here alone

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>>37800108
>wew you dont think im pretty anon?
>shame il just go with chad

>>37800183

Why were you scared of everyone?

>>37800314
because of the social anxiety meme

are you stupid?

>>37800255
I literally don't give a shit. I'm taken anyway

>>37800321

Yea I don't understand what this means. What is the meme? Are they going to hit you or something?

>>37800480
>the state of r9k

>not origi

>>37800480
Norman, leave this place at once.

>>37800480
wow in a different way that's pretty autistic, how old are you?

>>37800512

You guys are the ones asking for help. "How can I be socially viable if I refuse to be social?"

Have you ever thought that you guys might just be insufferable assholes?

>>37800566
Have you ever thought that your intelligence fails to hit the three digits in IQ?

There is such a thing as a stupid question, and Google's there for you.

>>37800566
No. They never think that. It's always the fault of everyone else.

>>37800588
>he tried to sound smart but ended up looking retarded instead

>>37799929
>>37800079
>>37800314
>>37800480
>>37800563
>>37800566
>ar nine kay, 2017

>>37800566
>>37800613
>samefagging this hard

bruh if nobody agrees with you nobody agrees with you, don't sweat it.

>>37800566
>>37800613
>samefag
>not originalfgoopa

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introducing the social square in the next post

>>37800680
I was gonna post the Tiananmen square pic but that guy had too much courage to integrate into a joke

>>37800613

Yup. They think we are the same guy too. I have a friend I assume him and his brothers would browse here.

The more I get to know him the more I realize he is just a judging stubborn guy with a chip on his shoulder. I'm thinking this is probably what at least 2/3 of this forum is, just assholes that are too stupid to learn they are flawed and to deal with it.

>>37800721
u soggy muffs needa grow mould in a jar then do poses up and down mainstreet stumbling upon state street

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>>37800643
>>37800636
lmao

>>37800728
They're fucking retarded. I think you're exactly right

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>>37800182
although this one is nice too

>>37800680
save up den cinnamon toast crunch boxes then send them to me for info on how to get a girl wthout social square dancing abilities

>>37800752
all you have to do is to clear your history to reset the (you's)

please fuck off now norman

>>37799855
But tell me, why don't you have a social circle?
I would like to hear your response.

>>37800818
not OP, but I don't cuz I cut off my "friends"

>>37799855
If you don't have hobbies it is impossible to get into a social circle if you don't have one by the time you finish highschool/college.
Hobby>WhatsApp group>Meet up>Join social circle>Your friends try to hook you up with their friends or their gf friends.
That is how the normie world work. When they see that you don't get any girls they try to find you something. Specially if they have a gf.

read and implement "Of Human Bondage"

there's this disgusting slob of a bitch who has a social circle of 9 million people

>>37800814
>he thinks anyone is going to go through that amount of effort just to prove him wrong
You definitely have a chip on your shoulder lol

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>>37800818
>>37800847
as I said already I fell for the social anxiety meme...

Also there is a chance to go to uni since i finish high school.

What are the chances that i will find people to be friends with

>>37800907
eat shit big boy

>>37800845

That's basically what he answered. No one rushed over to him and cried out asking him why he stopped coming around.

These faggots put themselves on a pedestal and when no one worships them they believe the world is flawed. It is always everyone else's fault. All they have to do is have some humility and balls and they'd be fine, but they are pussy faggots.

>>37800566
You are an insufferable asshole so how come you have a social circle?

>>37800932
>Also there is a chance to go to uni since i finish high school.
>What are the chances that i will find people to be friends with
Depends on the degree. Just join a """"study""""group. Which is just a code word for small talking group while studying jack shitq

fine, we're like now the r9k social circle "omg-I need to introduce u 2 my fwends"

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>>37800959
Thank you anon, I guess il just try this

>>37799855
where the fuck do you live OP? you can join my social circle.

>>37800943

Follow up.

It is kind of ironic, they talk about chads and stacis but really they are the male version of a washed up staci. Thought they deserve to be treated like a king and when no one does they don't have that moment of self realization that they have to change.

So they retreat into their mom's basement and play video games and wank off and blame the world for their failures.

Yes, I did it. Tinder. She knows I deliberately avoid people and doesn't mind.

She's ugly though, and I'm good looking so she kind of lets me get away with shit for that.

>>37800943
wew dude I never wanted for them to worship me... I always failed at big groups. You're either the autist from earlier or you have some serious mental problems

>>37801021
I deserve to be treated like a king, that's why I cut those (some white) niggers off

>>37800947

Because my friends are assholes too.

And because I can talk to people, and develop hobbies or find stuff enjoyable to do. You can make almost anything a good time with the right attitude. But sulking seems to be the purpose of this forum.

When is the last time you went out with two people that aren't related to you to do something and what was that?

i was once popular, i then became unpopular then semi-popular again but I cut every1 off

You're pretty much fucked other than dumb luck, cold approaching and tinder. If I only knew what I know now, I would have stayed in college as long as possible delaying getting into the real world.

>>37801021
if you read my story from earlier you can see I never wanted anyone to worship you.

I dont understand what you and your norman friend's problem is. You both fail at basic psychology and probably have the lowest possible iq like the other anon said.

If I was you I would just leave. You're an extreme faggot

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>>37801072
>forum
>reddit spacing
really makes you think

>>37800959

He isn't going to succeed. He will be in a group and never talk because of his "meme". Then he will drop out and have debt and blame society more and say "well I tried but I feel for the college meme".

Everything is a meme. Everything is a trick.

Yes. I always have a girlfriend (married now) but never have any real friends of my own.

>>37801106
I always talk, but i'm not who u were talking about; I wouldn't join a group like that tho i'm open to talking to people

>>37800934
What did he mean by this?

originally42

>>37801106
As long as you are not scary weird normies try to be inclusive

i showed my dad rsdnation
i love daddy

>>37801108
How did you meet her?
You have been original for comment because your 2 was not muted.

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>>37801021
>>37800943
>>37801106
>some guy asks for advice from ''le robots''
>he gets tons of normies trying to shut him down instead


When will people realise that normies are just a bunch of evil people :)

>>37801145
no they don't. maybe i'm scary weird tho
I always thought it was a fantasy of a girl to fuck a guy who had no friends, just appeared in town one day

>>37801072
I'm not here to tell you about my life, I'm not OP nor someone in his situation if that's what you want to know.
I just found it funny how you came here to pass judgement when you're the worst person in this thread

>>37801094

Always IQ. Do you believe that you are mentally superior? Is this some fallback as to why you can't socialize. Muh intelligence makes it hard to be friends.

You are the one bitching about not being able to carry a conversation in real life. That's what being social is. Just fucking talk about something and be interesting about it.

>>37799855
Yeah, ask girls out. Duh.

>>37801190
no but you're trying to giving advice while you dont even understand how social anxiety works.

It's really questionable how an extreme faggot like you even got any friends. hmm

Maybe you don't and thats the obvious reason why your on r9k too?

>>37801204
this is the onry sane idea in the tread

Nah its way easier for a woman to enter a social circle as long as she is bangable, they will accept her. But a random guy? Fuck no, they would be like "who the fook is this guy?" especially if they have all been friends for awhile. This is where good looks can even work against you, guys will not want to include you for obvious reasons. Life is all about social circles and what bubble you live in. A lot of guys are getting laid based on bullshit luck being in a good social circle, while loners like us get fucked.

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>>37801190
>I'm a social retard that doesn't know how to talk to people
>just fucking talk bro lol
Could you be any worse at giving advice?

>>37801229
It's super easy as a guy to make guy friends. Girls are cunts to each other so this is one instance we have it easier.

Also having friends isn't luck. It's choice.

>>37801247
You learn to talk by talking, bro.

>>37801229

social circle is literally everything in this life. Its who you know. It gives you access to jobs you would never been able to get by yourself, it gives you access to drugs, it gives you access to girls. Being a loner in this world is playing life on nightmare mode, you cannot do this shit alone and become successful.

>>37801291
lmao
>original top kek

>>37801297
I disagree, i'm a loner and i'm just pursuing trades & architectural engineering to become architekt

>>37801261

No it isn't especially being 25+. Also I am not talking guy friends, I am talking social circle which is a mix of both.

>>37801291
Nigga that's like if I wanted to learn how to cook eggs and I'm asking for help and you just tell me "to cook" but don't give me the instructions.

>>37800818
I do not want any social circle. I just hate that sort of thing.
Being around people tires me out and makes my mood drop to rock bottom. There is little more repelling then watching all those dynamics within circles, groups and what have you.
Those hidden little jealousies, that pecking order, that urging eachother into behavior toward outsiders never dared alone, the dramas about who banged who. The braggadocio and aggression upon meeting rival groups.

I only ever deal with groups larger than 2 or 3 people when I get paid for putting on a mask and bearing it.

>>37801356
no man can eat eggs

I came up with the GREATEST pickup line, but i'm 2 lazy to go out

>>37801297
So choose to not be a loner. You chose to be one. Change your mind.

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>>37801383
What did he mean by this? Original muted

>>37801417

lol, it doesn't work that way at all my friend. I did not choose to be like this and by now its far too late.

>Do you want to marry me
>Wut? I don't even know you
>Now you have a chance.Here is my number
Try this and hide your autism for a while and some desperate roastie will fall for you

some dude on skout tried to hook me up with a girl
she was texting me but ghosted, but it was good cuz she was trying to get pregnant

>>37801356
>>37801318

Sorry you are afraid of failure, but you learn to talk to people by talking to people.

>>37801433
You 100% chose to be like that, and you can change back. If you want.

>>37801320
You're just making excuses at this point.

>>37801489
you learn how to talk by putting a rubber hose to your mouth and your business booms

can people post pics of hot chicks so i have motivation to go out and try my pickup line?

Pretty much impossible. Unless you are really good looking.

>>37801510
I'm not even sure what you're trying to say here, but I suspect that's the point you're trying to make.

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>>37801553
yes! post more olga

>>37801489
>you want those eggs right? Just cook them.
>I want to but I need instructions or a guide
>Lmao so you're afraid of failure
Almonds. For the record I'm playing devils advocate and you're missing the point so talking shit about my social skills isn't relevant. I'm saying you're shit at advice and you pretty objectively are.

>>37801575
do you unironically hate everyone? it seems like so

>>37801356

Oh shit the eggs are over done. I guess next time I'll cook them less. Oops now they are runny, ok so I'll wait till they are white, but the yolk is still a rich yellowish orange.

Oh wow. I learned how to cook or get better at cooking by trying and failing. Color me shocked!

>>37801588
You learn social skills by talking to people. Not from a book you weirdo.

>>37801609
Offering constructive criticism isn't hate bro.

>>37801635
social skills aren't developable

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>>37801624
>>37801635
>talking with anyone of this 2

>>37801663
Yes they are. That's why they're called SKILLS.

>>37801356

1) Crack open egg
2) apply heat
3) eat

Not that hard bro.

>>37801704
>tries to give advice again
>forgets about the butter

is this the most extreme bait?

>>37801736
You don't have non stick pans? Wow.

>>37801790
yes forgot to buy one since your advices are terrible and dont work :(

>>37801635
You could've told him about thinks you should look for/avoid in conversation. Conversation starters, how to keep the flow, etc. Just saying "talk bro lol" is useless to people that don't have any idea how to do that.

>>37801668
Yeah faggot call me a brick wall because his advice was shit

>>37801624
You could just go in cold and try to find things on the spot to talk about but it's better if you have some direction and the other anon didn't offer that. Why cook the eggs when before you do someone who knows how to cook them could give suggestions to make the process easier:

>>37801676

They won't get it. They'd rather wallow in self pity and regret and blame everyone else. They are terrified of failure. They expect the world to be something they can read about in a book and master, when in fact they just have to experience it and learn from it.

Honestly the greatest real life super power as a guy would be to not be afraid or embarrassed about rejection.

>>37801808
So you really don't think you learn to have conversations by having conversations? You'd rather be lazy and blame everyone else because you don't have some step by step guide? This is something 6 year olds have no problems learning.

>>37801832
nah I dont think I would just cook the eggs without anything else

>>37801832
Do you even understand the audience? None of these people even have friends how the fuck would they know how to talk to people

>>37801736

Shit. he's right, my eggs keep sticking to the pan. Hmm looks like there are non-stick pans or I can use something like coconut oil or butter to avoid sticking and burning them.

I'll try that next time.

Holy shit I just got even better at making eggs! How do I keep failing and keep getting better?!?!?!?

>>37801894
Eggs are absolutely fucking disgusting but when I used to eat them I never had to oil the pan.

>How do I keep failing and keep getting better?!?!?!?
This is something a lot of the autists here don't understand. You can fail and still learn and get better.

>>37801894
well what if you actualy gave the poor robots your experience instead of ''just cook bro'' You would make their life easier. Oh why would you do that when you just hate everyone

>>37802013

Because the knowledge isn't the most important part. It is the experience, the personality of saying "I screwed that up, oh well I will do better next time."

>>37801959
Oil is weird. I just know that a lot of weirdos are using that coconut butter/oil or other weird shit now.

>>37802114
You fail to understand some people are really afraid of making mistakes like that, for whatever reason. Good advice may help them avoid some of them.

>>37802199
>Good advice may help them avoid some of them.
Get over your dumb phobia. There, it's advice that is applicable to everything they do instead of needing their hand held through everything.

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>tfw 27
>getting fit
>people complement weight loss/muscle gains
>try to talk to people but something blocks me, feels like that feeling you get before you go on a roller coaster or look over a really tall bridge
>don't talk to them just mumble shit
>Get flash backs from being bullied 4th grade-12th
>paranoid of people, think they're out to get me when they're not
>surprised when someone treats you like a adult

>>37802199

And what they have to understand is nobody is perfect, but learning how to make mistakes and recover is paramount.

I got a buddy who would fit in to a degree here. Sucks at conversation. When he was trying to date chicks he would write down a list of topics to bring up. The problem is that he never talks and when he does it is forced and not organic. Also just listening and watching conversations is a way to learn.

Fuck. Go buy Larry King's "How to Talk to Anyone, Anytime, Anywhere". It is basic advice but it covers the basics that your parents should have taught you or that you should have learned as a kid.

Hi Stacy, nice to meet you. So what do you do? You work in a veterinarian's office? Oh cool, you must love animals then, do you have any pets? 2 dogs and a cat? What type?

(Bitch starts talking about things she likes. All of a sudden she is talking about stuff she enjoys. Things she enjoys with you. She enjoys talking to you.)

Oh yea, daschunds are full of energy but super cute. We had a corgi and a border collie growing up, though I always wanted a beagle, but I heard they can get quite loud. Well you work at a vet's, what would you say is your favorite right now?

(Queue some story of her talking about a funny/cute animal at work)


Now you fags will bitch and say they you didn't have dogs growing up or what if she works X job? The trick is to learn how to carry a conversation and get people to talk about themselves. When there is a lull you inject some story or experience or thought of your own to keep it going. You will fail, and later you will think "oh shoot I should have said Y". Well that is how you get better.

>>37802410

Alcohol. Just a shot or two to loosen up. It is social lubricant.

>>37802515
doesn't it kill gains? is there like a herb or vitimin like st John's wart that will do the trick?

Honestly the thing I need is practice.

>>37802555

Don't drink to excess. But to get you started on a social night, some liquid courage usually helps stiff people become more open.

The next day you may not be able to lift as much as normal, but you have recovery days right? Don't take a fucking shot in your coffee before work. I'm talking about just Friday or Saturday night. Shot or two and then sip beer and shoot the shit with friends/people.

>>37802468
Alright, now we're getting somewhere. The problem is that some are inept at socializing simply because they were not taught this (including stuff you wrote) by their parents/relatives/whoever; everyone comes from different backgrounds. How can they learn if they don't even know the very basics?

>>37801094
This is why Normans need to get the fuck out. They think their so holier than thou and have all the answers but all they have is the same recycled horseshit your counsellors told you

>>37802743

If you aren't a pity party go read Larry kings book. Real basic and basically conversation 101.

Don't talk about sex, religion or politics. Only very close friends can you talk about that after you are pretty sure you know where they stand and they know where you stand.

The art is the pivot. Bring up something that gets them talking and gives you time to think or find options. But sometimes there are no options, or the person is just dull, nothing wrong with just shrugging it off and moving on.

Oh man this weather is awful. Hot and humid. I guess growing up here I should be used to it but I guess you never do, you just complain less about it. Where are you from? Dang up in Maine? This must be the closest to hell you'll ever get. Oh you've been to X? How was that? Etc etc.

>>37803194
Whenever I try to small talk women most leave about half way through my first sentence. Some are nice and stay until they have an excuse to leave. "Oh hey, my friend is over there" "I have to use the bathroom" etc.

>surprised when someone treats you like a adult
That hit way to close home. I'm even suprised when kids treat me like an adult. I mean for fuck sake,one i said to an 8 year old looking kid the english equivalent of "good day sir" when he said hi to me....i'm always neverous as fuck if someone i don't know talks to me...

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