Please answer seriously, how can I get over my oneitis? It's

Call her.

Uu

>>37796246
I want to get over her though

>>37796271

Yes you get over her by calling and seeing how she's doing.

Dating someone else worked for me. I was single for 6 years, then started a relationship, and within a couple of months I barely remembered my oneitis.

>>37796231

find some other girl to be obsessed over with. you don't like her, you just like the state of liking her. face that fact and change your object of desire.

>>37796382
Idk mate.. I've never met a girl like her. She likes basically every single fucking thing I like, 100% of it. I've met other girls, but it didn't help.

The best way is to find a new oneitis.

Or age until you're 28+, cynical, and don't really believe in the concept of love anymore.

>>37797224

here's the thing mate. people are replaceable whether or not you like to believe it. she is replaceable as well. you probably aren't looking hard enough or you just don't want to conciously look hard enough because you believe she's truly the one.

once you start to realise the fact that the whole dating thing is really a game, and the whole oneitis thing is just a nice plotline in a shitty romance movie, you will be able to move on.

>>37797273
Then how can I meet new girls? Where? I finished high school, it isn't as easy as it used to be.

>>37798478

it's difficult when you are not in an environment whereby you can easily meet and talk to new people without coming off as weirdly out of the context, and those times are usually in places like colleges/unis.. i guess a workplace works.

other than that i don't know how to help man.. i'm in the same situation right now. i'm in college but CS is a guy dominated field so i hardly have chances to talk to girls.

>>37798756
Well, good luck mate