You guys do realize that if you just were yourselves and didn't pretend to be something your not that everything would get better, right?
>>37790129
I am true to myself, and no one likes me still.
I wasn't true to myself, but now that I am I have friends and a girlfriend (female).
>>37790129
I don't know who my true self is
>>37790129
what the fuck does this even mean
stupid robot fuck you
I'm spending my free time on an anonymous image board. If this isn't being myself I don't know what is you fucking woman lover.
If we knew ourselves, we wouldn't be here in the first place...
So you are saying that if I tried to rape and murder people just for the sake of the experience everything would get better?
I don't think so, better continue to be the nerd loser
>>37790129
Wow thanks Anon!
Oregano
>>37790129
Shitty advice, the only way to be better is to change who you are, so you become "youself" but in a better way.
If being your "true self" actually maked things better everyone on this board would have a gf.
>>37790129
>if you just were yourselves and didn't pretend to be something your not that everything would get better, right?
>>37790129
The bigger issue is being yourself doesn't always equal being you best.
You know what a lot of people's brains tell them to do? Run when scared, overindulge when sad, get angry when left wanting and hate when you can't find control over it all. When you tell someone to "be themselves" you are telling them to put that gun to their mouth and pull the trigger, you are telling them to not try at anything, to not work to be anything, that the state of mind they are in now is their "best state" when for most people it is their worst state. You shouldn't be telling them to "be yourself" you should be telling them "to become what you respect", "become what you want to be", "become something greater than you", because that is what a lot of people need to do to get unchained by the vices and fears they poison their lives with. Fuck you monsters in the shadows that tell people to be something they don't have a full understanding of themselves. Fuck you arrogant spoiled pricks that cast such toxic thinking into the well of betterment. Never -Never- be yourself, always strive to be something you would love to be, something that when you look back 30 years down the road you can say to yourself "well done"
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>>37790400
Wow thanks guy, my harvest only took 25 minutes!
Whoops I deleted my post how silly of me
I stopped trying to be someone else and since I'm an oldbot, just decided to say fuck it and be my nasty, bitter old self to everyone like I am on the internet.
I haven't actually spoken to another person outside of work in months, and I'm still repulsive to women but at least I get some laughs from their reactions - most of them are used to guys kowtowing to them in the hopes of getting sex.
They aren't going to fuck me no matter what I do, so, why be nice to them?
>>37790129
LOL be yourself and everything will be better.
do you think life is hollywood made narrative?