Don't ever give people the benefit of the doubt.
They are hopeless. Don't feel hope for them. Don't feel like you can change them or show them the light.
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Are you referring to people who actually hurt you?
Or those you assume will hurt you?
It took me years to realise that if I'd given the people in the latter group the benefit of the doubt when I had a chance, I'd be in a much better situation now.