>friend confesses a few months ago that he's in love with me
>I'm gay, but only like him as a friend
>not good at saying no to people
>evade the subject, give vague answers
>he brings it up a few more times
>always dance around the subject
>he doesn't mention it for a while
>I hope it's all over
>he brings it up again today
>give another ambiguous reply
>now I'm fucked
>even if I give him an honest answer, I'm going to be the asshole and the bad guy for stringing him along for months instead of just turning him down
Fucking hell i'm a bad person just kill me i'm trash
>>37781278
Just explain you're bad at saying no lol, worst case scenario he takes that as his cue to flip you over and pound your boipussi win/win
>>37781278
sucks to be you. just stop being gay and you won't have such problems lmao
>>37781278
say that you being gay was a phase and you are over it
then get a Chad bf and parade him around your friend
>>37781366
>>37781371
>>37781389
You guys aren't taking me seriously.
>>37781278
I've been in your friend's position before, and trust me, It's a million times better to just tell him you only see him as a friend. The longer you string him along the more you are going to hurt him, so it's best to just tell him as soon as possible that you just want to be friends.
>>37781452
I'm taking you seriously, youre just making it more complicated than it has to be, just tell the truth
>>37781278
Hook him up with someone else, that or just put out.
>>37781545
W-why should I put out?
>>37781563
You're probably a horny slut anyways
>>37781278
anon the longer you string him along, the more hurt he's gonna be. Tell him now to save him from even more pain
>>37781584
but it feels like I've already taken things too far
He was really, really intense whenever he confessed his feelings
I couldn't have turned him down even when he first confessed without breaking his heart, but now after these past few months, I... it's even worse
It might be too late to defuse the situation
I feel so overwhelmed and sad and guilty
>>37781584
>>37781612
I want to put it off forever because I'm scared
He loves me so much, but I don't love him, and it feels like I'm an evil person who's betraying someone I'm special to
I want to love you
I WANT TO LOVE YOU
But I can't
I never will
>>37781659
Sorry for that embarrassing little meltdown. I'm cool now.
>>37782093
Isn't that really why you made the thread anyways
>>37781659
OP he would be happy to be your emotional boyfriend if you need someone a bit more rougher and dominant to help with other needs