What is the one thing you feel is holding you back from getting a girlfriend?
http://www.strawpoll.me/13215020
Please answer honestly.
I think if we come together as one, maybe we can sort out what our problem is and work on fixing it.
>>37776617
I look anorexic and I'm pale as fuck
come on guys, we need more votes to get a general consensus
I picked small social circle because I never leave my room.
>>37777257
I picked height because I'm 5'6
someone kill me plox
Interesting, so far half the votes are poor social skills.
I thought it would be more looks based.
Small social circle
I live in the middle of nowhere, I don't go to college and I don't have an in-person job. I think I'm pretty handsome and I'm getting /fit/ but it doesn't matter if I have no place to meet women.
>>37776617
Nothing. If I wanted a girlfriend so badly, I'd go out and abandon all fear to get one instead of complaining about everyone who does have a girlfriend like the self loathing cuck ya are.
>>37776617
I don't think I'd be the type of person that would do well in a relationship, it'd be better for both parties if that didn't happen.
Why we can't choose multiple options?
>>37777697
>What is the one thing
>>37777791
But i have multiple things that are holding me back from getting a gf
>>37777894
Me too but what is the overwhelming one anon?
Bumping for more votes with a slim titty big girl
>>37776617
Why is there no balding option?
None of the above.
For me, it's the constant cycle of self-defeating thoughts, anxiety, and doubt. I see the path before me, but I find ways to convince myself to stray from it.
>>37778236
shit i forgot it. maybe i'll make another one with that eventually.
>>37778255
confidence?
>>37776617
i picked minority because grills only want white cock.
I'm a 5'3" manlet with a bigger than average dick that will never be used by a woman I care about.
A lot more than one thing
>>37776617
I'm fat so there is absolutely no chance, I don't score well at any other category either
>>37776617
>be male
>have mental illness
>no girl bothers investing in me because they have fags lining up to invest in them
Feelsmalepriviligeman
>>37776617
Combination of lack of social skills and being oriental in the US
>>37779554
Same dude, up until around last year, I didn't really blame my race, just my social skills. But I looked at all the other Asians I know and all of them are having major issues with getting girls, even the more attractive, chaddy ones. Someone should have sat me down during high school and told me it was going to be hard so don't turn down any chances. I had one or two chances in HS and turned them down because I didn't find them attractive.
>>37777257
this desu
seconds, because your comment was
>>37779528
>no reply to my reply
Feelsbadman
Anybody maybe want to talk about this myth, and bring up their male privileges with me?
Also how do I write privilige
All of them except height and lack of penis size. I chose lack of social circle though.
>>37776617
>no skelly option
Such is life my friends
my small and ugly dick has made me back out of potential sex like 7 times so yeah...
anyone here who picks small dick is a moron.
>>37776617
I feel depressed a lot of the time, and I have OCD. I don't try to get a gf because I know it won't solve my problems, and it won't make me truly happy. I'll still be me, I'll still hate myself for my failures and weaknesses, and I would be embarrassed if someone else knew about them, which is why I can't be intimate with anyone.
>>37780260
small dick is rough. but not determinant for attracting
>poor social skills
you dont really believe that right?
>>37776617
I'm a boring person with avoidant personality. I cannot establish meaningful connection even with friends therefore i lose them rather quickly. I think that i'm depressed individual with deeply rooted anger issues.On top of that i'm fat (270 lbs 6'4), ugly (chinlet with cystic acne) and spergy individual
>>37777950
Good point, I guess for me it would be mostly being fat, although even when I was thin, being piss poor with no friends and probably qualifying for a personality disorder meant also being alone.
a more detailed analysis would be this.
Wouldn't even want one at this point, at 27 you're expected to have a certain amount of sexual experience and competence, the jig would be up as soon as we fucked and she realized I was shit in bed. I'd be just as alone as before but now everyone would be talking about how shit I am.
>>37776617
Never trying is the one thing
>all these "small social circle" responses
The normalfags are actually right with you people. If that's really the only thing holding you back then you just need to go outside and do things more often
Nothing is holding me back, I have a gf
If you guys didn't make such a big deal out of romantic interest, you'd probably get yourself oneUnironically just be yourself
>>37780777
Easier said than done. I live in a small town there is nothing to do, and I also work so I do not have much time.
You don't just "meet" people when you're 26
>>37776617
Im unable to make myself vulnerable enough to share feelings with a partner, I've been hurt a lot before in the past so Im just very afraid to open up.
I guess i'll put that under social skills
>>37776617
>lack of confidence isn't an option
What kind of retard...
>>37776658
>>37777257
These two.
Plus I live in Los Angeles and to be pale, skinny and lack a group of friends around here immediately puts you in the supreme outcast zone
>>37776617
no options for "my hand is better, I don't want a gf"
>>37780399
that's not too bad, you have potential to burn that and gain muscle. Some people are just skellies like me which makes it nearly impossible to gain fat or muscle. grass isn't always greener to be cliche
>>37776617
idk if this is ur original art but im stealing it i like it
>>37781339
>you have potential to burn that and gain muscle.
Too bad the rest of face and personality is atrocious.
>>37781396
my older bro has a horrible face, acne and horrible wide set eyes but a chad bod. took him some time but he finally got a pretty good gf at 30.
Idk, I think a great bod can give you enough confidence to use that. You'd have to dress in a way to show off the bod. Face, idk get advice from a barber or dermatologist depending on the problem. I have a fat face for a skelly naturally so I do jaw exercises, maybe look that up too.