Girls are not everything in life, but how do you deal with the

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>>37715878

I just want to be touched, cradled, felt, and embraced. Missing out on skin contact brings me mountains of feels.

I "deal" by pretending I don't have these feels or trying to ignore them

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im fine with not being stacies crush. boys are better in every single way.

They do pay attention to me but in the most condescending ways.

>>37715994
>stacy's chad won't ever cream your ass
Why live, honestly?

>>37715878
By doing the other stuff in life.

>>37715914
>I just want to be touched
play sports with the boys

>>37715878
That's not fact, that's conjecture.

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>manlet
>go to gym, work hard, lose some weight
>get a job, start paying for my own things
>find a loving gf who is out of my league

>my fucking face when my depression has given me erectile dysfunction and I can't keep it up
>that feel when everything feels just as bad as it did before
J U S T
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>>37715878
getting girls' attention isn't hard if you're not an obviously desperate autist

that said, getting girls to do sexy stuff with you is harder. I've only had sex with a hooker

but I've done cuddly stuff with plenty of girls, "platonically"

If you want women to pay attention to you, you need to act like you are the shit. Women hate betas who put their head down and act afraid. Confidence nigga, shit.

>>37715878
By complaining about it on 4chan all day

>>37716268
You are SERIOUSLY fucking things up if you're 'doing cuddly stuff with plenty of girls' and still haven't fucked one of them.
How does this even happen?

>>37716736
Lesbians.
Ugly chicks while drunk.
Fucking things up.

>>37716736
Also, girls just like cuddling and shit, even if they're not interested in you romantically. Maybe try not to be so sex-obsessed all the time.
Even my mate's gf will spoon with me 'cause it's fun.

>>37715878
You take a deep breath, take a hard swallow and move on. There is nothing you can do after all.

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>>37715878
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>>37715878
Girls do initially because im not ugly but I scare them away.

>>37716925
>Even my mate's gf will spoon with me 'cause it's fun.

does he know?

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>>37715878
By paying attention to men and those that cosplay as women.

>>37716977
Yeah he'll spoon along sometimes.

>>37716973

You mean roids?

>>37715878
remembering that I can painlessly suicide at any time. all i have to do is visit the nearest gun range

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I remind myself that girls WILL drain you of your money, time and dignity unless you're Chad enough to do it to them instead.

I'm a lower-class, low-quality male. I have nothing, and can offer nothing. I would have to grovel and spend way too much time for too little reward.

Anime girls are sexier, cleaner, and more accessible.

Remember: Money is always more important than girls.

>>37715878
One girl paid attention to me but nobody else seems to like me. Now I'm afraid I'm going to be alone forever

>>37716973
>be blessed with 99.99999th percentile aesthetics
>abuse steroids
>die of heart attack at 22

Why should I do this?
I'm in pretty good shape as it is but looks don't even matter until you're Chad-tier

>>37715878
Don't know anon. 23 here and I've only ever had sex twice both times with prostitutes. I didn't even kiss any of them so I haven't even had my first kiss yet let alone held a girls hand.

What's even the point of life if you live like this? We are missing out on a fundamental part of being human, intimacy and love.

>>37717084
>>37717084
It wasn't steroids that killed him retard, his family had a history of heart conditions, the autopsy revealed a previously undiagnosed congenital heart defect, it was genetic, you're jealous of zyzz success because you're lazy pieces of anime watching garbage to achieve anything of your own, sad!

The most beautiful girl I've ever seen approached me and was genuinely kind, but she must have realized after getting close up that I'm hideous, because I never saw her again.

>>37715878
It's pointless to worry about things you can't change. Also, anyone that can't afford me basic human kindness I have no interest in interacting with anyway.

Really though, not to be a humblebragging dickwad but 95% of it has to just be me pushing people away. Girls smile at me and try to make conversation all the time. I just don't care about generic great value brand whitegirl #92342-34

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>>37717225
>>37716952

>can't change
>There is nothing you can do after all

WAHHHH!!! WHY CAN'T I BE A PIECE OF SHIT WEEB NEET WITH POOR HYGIENE THAT MAKES ABSOLUTELY NO EFFORT ON IMPROVING ON ANY ASPECT OF MY LIFE AND STILL GET A GF!

>pic related
are you worse of than him?, i wanna see the mental gymnastics you'll use to justify not having a gf.

>>37717155
Can you even read bro?

I admire zyzz but there's no fucking way I'll ever look like him (he was roiding). I'm not lazy, I don't watch anime anymore, I'm in good shape.

Fuck off with your ad hominem, I'm not retaliating but I would like to see some proof that you're not what you're accusing me of.

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>>37717308

That guy seems to have a pretty decent face
nice skin
overall aesthetic

he's also dating an asian, which is pretty low on the female tier of desirability.

He's just an abridged alpha, whereas I'm a full-blown beta, maybe a delta.

>>37717308
He's rich and relatively famous, fucktard. He could have testicles for eyes and someone would still fuck him for the money.

>>37717368
You may be in good shape, but still, nothing impressive to make girls turn around, of course getting into zyzz level takes crazy effort, and well maybe some roids, but you still can look much much better, you are already halfway through by being in good shape, why not go all the way through and get into great shape?

>>37717415
>>37717421
he's not rich or famous enough for her to endure literal hell with him
don't you understand that this guy is a grown baby?
he needs help to clean his ass, and who do you think is doing it? his wife
he needs help to eat, drink, and everything else, Jesus even for sex, he can't stick it in, she needs to be a nanny for him all the fucking time,
like i said, he's not rich or famous enough for her to endure it, the real reason is have you seen his energy? his happiness? his positivity? look at his speeches and you'll see why he has a wife.

>>37717505
Thanks for suddenly being reasonable.

>why not go all the way through and get into great shape?
Mostly because of genetic limitations, I'm a 20 year old 6'4 lanky slav. I eat big and work out but I seem to be low test and have difficulty with recovery and muscle gain but am always <10%bf. About 82kg at the moment and like you said it takes a hell of a lot to make girls notice you just by being fit, which was my original point.

>>37717635
i'm not a specialist, but i'm pretty sure there's something wrong with either your diet of workout.
avoid faggy machine isolated exercises, learn to do compound exercises that does several muscles at once, what happens is you body is under much more stress and as a result it releases more testosterone and other hormones,
gyms make you believe you need to use 34 machines to get in shape, when in fact simplicity and efficiency works better.
you'll be surprised by the amount of different exercices you can do only with dumbells and your own weight

>>37716975
this to be honest, I've got that feeling of 'I'm 100% sure if I make a move it will work' but I autismo away and eventually the feeling just fades and I can't tell it does for the girls too

>>37717738
>>37716975
getting girls is like an RPG, you need to level up
you can't slay the dragon by being level one
you start from the bottom and work your way up, every time you fail you learn something, you get better, you get smoother, it's working for me, i still didn't get sex, but i'm getting there, in the beginning i was always left on seen, but now i can actually hold conversations.

>>37717793
I've had an interest for the same girl for years, how do I get that experience to level up if I couldn't give two shits about anyone else?

>>37717715
Thanks but no thanks, I'm a personal trainer in training. I don't have access to faggy machines, just compounds with barbell and dumbbells as well as pushups, pullups.
I do basketball and martial arts as well so my cardio and plyometrics are good.
As for diet, man, I've been eating over 3,000kcal sometimes up to 6 for several years but the fact is I will always gain slowly because of genetics.

If I don't weigh 90kg in two years you can bet I'll hop on the gear.

>>37717870
I was in the same position, this is how you move on
you need to cut all contact with her, you need to delete her from your FB and all other social media, delete her number, don't talk to her ever again.
think of this interest for her as if it was a open wound
every time you stalk her on social media, every time you talk to her, you're poking the wound and that's why it will never close, you need to let it go completely, act like she's dead.

>>37717883
seriously, don't over eat, be patient, do it gradually, because you're 20 still, after 30 my friend, you'll see how fast you will gain weight, my dad used to be crazy thin, now he has the typical fat dad body

>>37715878
I've been trying to solve this conundrum for a while now. Once I figure it out you'll be the first to know, /r9k/

>>37717025
He's a cuck. You know it. I know it. Everybody knows it.

>>37717308
You're confused, I explicitly said I wasn't complaining and that it was basically my fault

I don't have a gf because I push everyone away for varying levels of legitimacy. Mostly women are just miraculously boring and I don't want a girlfriend for the sake of having a girlfriend

>>37717870

You have oneitis.

Make a move. If she shuts you down or says yes: you have your answer.

If you are are shut down then ghost her and move on with your life. Don't invest time, emotion, and energy into people who don't care to reciprocate back.

>>37718086
women are not boring, a lot of robots think that because they basically want a guy with pussy, they want her to have male interests like gaming, let men be men and let women be women, once you understand that women are different from us and will never be like us you'll realize they're not boring, they just have different interests and that's fine.

>>37717956
I need to over eat mate. I don't enjoy it, I would prefer to photosynthesize, believe me if I could gain weight without eating that would be tops.

Define 'pay attention' pls

I have some examples ready

>>37718342
you have an extremely healthy view on women, you should reconsider being here to begin with.

>>37715878
I feel nothing, because I don't know what it's like to be paid attention to in the first place.

>>37718342
No really I appreciate that, they're just completely devoid of any interests, opinions or aspirations.

I got a girl to talk to me for 2 hours straight over Skype and not once during that time did she say anything memorable or something I would consider valuable.

They don't know about things, they don't know if they want to, they don't know how to figure out if they want to, they don't know what they're trying to accomplish right now, they don't know what they're going to do in 10 minutes when this is over.

They're peabrained simpletons. They drift in and out of life based on their circumstances they were placed in and if they don't like it they vocalize it and act like a bitch to everyone else and if they do like it they just smile and giggle like morons

The average normie pedestrian is pretty one-track-minded but even the dumbest Chads I can have a somewhat engaging conversation with

>>37718490
No he doesn't, he has an ambiguous platitude that offends nobody because it says nothing of value directed at any one party and insinuates that the only reason someone has anything bad to say about women is virgin neckbeard fedora yada yada yada insult against their masculinity.

>>37718490
I only come here if Im bored and can't sleep. Always visit this board as the others are fucking shit

>>37718342
>they just have different interests
like what, for example? talking shit about others? watching paint dry?

>>37718629
>>37718629
women were never meant to have deep thoughts, they were never meant to work, study, or get into politics, women were made to take care of us, and have our babies, nothing more
stop masculinizing women, you want a guy with pussy and you're not getting it.
accept women for what they are, they are inferior and will always be, you have an egalitarian view that women can achieve intelectual knowledge about things that matter and they can't.

>>37719017
I don't want a guy with a pussy, I want a woman with some kind of interests or aspirations

I'll take someone that draws in their spare time

>>37718766
they like fashion, romantic movies, and also sex, women talk about sex a lot, just look at any womens magazine, they also enjoy singers like Lana del rey and tay tay, and what not, not really surprising, tell me again what's the problem with this?

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>>37719107
>I don't want a guy with a pussy, I want a woman with some kind of interests or aspirations
>aspirations

you're basically a male feminist, you want a strong womyn with career and shit
nigger, stop embarassing yourself, women were made for you to stick your dick in it, cum inside and have a baby, nothing more
you want good conversations? that's why you have male friends for.

>>37719125
>they like fashion
Going about as deep as "this shirt is cute", meaning it looks good on me and I can stroke my narcissism more.

If "fashion" were some kind of aspiration or it spoke to them on a personal level I'd be on board.

That's like saying "men like beer"

>romantic movies
Inane projections of their sexual desires with no other redeeming qualities

>and also sex, women talk about sex a lot, just look at any womens magazine
Yeah human beings like fucking

>they also enjoy singers like Lana del rey and tay tay
One immediately sold her soul to become rich and famous and dropped the little outstanding character she had and the other is a hack that rips off every musical icon from the 60s and 70s and believes what made them interesting was being boring

But that's an opinion. One that I have. Women don't think that far ahead, they operate totally on instinct and their instinct is "Taylor Swift is a pretty girl and I want to be pretty and she sings about relationships and I like relationships" or something. Who cares.

>>37715878
I stick to such a routine life that breaking it gives me anxiety and I trick myself into thinking that having a woman in there would throw it all off and cause me to kill myself

>>37719180
Haha yeah bro feelings are gay. And being gay is for faggots

Not everyone is as boring as you. I couldn't be in a relationship with a peabrained simpleton that thinks watching Netflix is a hobby if I tried

>>37719280
women can be very disappointing if you look at it intellectually, but seriously, when she hugs you tight and says
>you're the best thing in my life anon

everything else goes away, for a moment you are fulfilled, you are whole, you are complete.

>>37719396
If you're happy I'm happy for you but I just can't do that

>>37719357
real life isn't an anime, accept the fact most people are average, you are megalomaniacal, you can't accept a normal life
NOOOOO you have to be the supreme intelectual, this is how you sound like.

>NETFLIX?? THAT'S FOR UNINTELLIGENT PEASANTS! I AM THE GREAT MIND OF THIS CENTURY, I CAN NOT LOWER MYSELF TO SUCH LEVELS OF IDIOCY

seriously, get your feet back on the ground, be more humble, be more realistic and you will achieve happiness.

Who cares about stupid women, just fuck hookers, ive fucked over 30 by now, 5 threesomes too

>>37715878
I don't mind because I hate women and think they are disgusting, manipulative, self-concerned abominations of nature.

I find solace in the fact that I will never have to deal with their bullshit like normies.

>>37719396
how is being told you're the best thing in her life by an idiot supposed to make anyone feel better

>>37715878
I don't care. I haven't felt any romantic emotions towards a girl since I lfet High School(that was 10 years ago). I just jack off when I feel my sex drive getting bigger.

>>37715878
honestly I never realized how depressed I was until I got through my first year of college without anything changing. Up until the end of high school I didn't really mind it because I believed I just "fucked up my reputation as a beta" in HS and once I put myself out there in college things would get better. But when I got there, I began to realize that people can just tell I'm a beta the second they meet me, like there is just something "off" about me that automatically designates me as the "awkward" guy to anyone I meet. And keep in mind I'm 6ft, not fat, white. Yet with all these advantages I still am completely invisible any every single girl I meet. It wasn't really until I found r9k though did I realize that, holy shit, my life has literally been eventless and bland compared to the lives of my chad peers that I tried to hard to hang around with. Now I'm finished with my second year of university and the sadness just gets greater day by day. If I don't get rich or something or figure out how to change my life within the next 5 years I am going to an hero for sure

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>>37716166
Same thing happened to me buddy except I did manage to fuck her with a soft dick and even get fully hard a couple times. Now I'm thinking about how she's enjoying the summer partying with her normal friends while I lead an all male squad of irredeemables and school shooter candidates. I shouldn't have ghosted her when we broke up because now I have no female friends again, I just figured hanging around her still if we're not banging would be too cucked. Regretting that shit more and more every day.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=TxksQCyQV1Q

>>37719822
nice blog post fagg

>>37715878
I deal with the fact that I only have to make income for myself and can get off without the drama and party life girls my age thrive on (25)

>>37715878
You make a lot of money then you just pay for whatever you want including women.

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>tfw it's been years since you've been held
>tfw you hug all your friends
>tfw worried you might be holding on too long cause you don't want to stop

>>37715878
>How do you deal with the fact that no girl will ever pay attention to you?

It's easy, just stop thinking about girls completely and immerse yourself in your hobbies and/or career