>Be me
>This week
>been highly functioning and made some bonds with people
>get invited to a guy's house
>"sure, see ya tonight!"
I haven't been to a friend's house in like 5 years
>realize what I did
>anxiety kicks in
>autism kicks in
>tell him I'll se him tomorrow
I'm supposed to see him tomorrow. How can I deal with my anxiety? It's like a fucking voice in my head that tells me: "DONT GO! DONT GO!" I feel like shit. Why is dealing with people so exhausting?
>>37710133
Just doing things can be so easy, but it's often unreasonably hard. The problem is loneliness.
The days I don't speak with anyone I am 10 times less proactive and decisive.
I feell you. Interacting with most other people drains me of me energy it feels like..
Being alone in my room isn't great but "good enough is good enough" I suppose.
>>37710133
Opposite for me; I can't make friends no matter how hard I try. But I had one and they invited me somewhere like their house I'd have zero anxiety.
You already passed the most difficult hurdle, so now you're at the just do it/just man up part.
Also I haven't been to a friend's house in like 20+ years.
At least you socialize man, just try your hardest to go and if you fail just make up a reason to leave. At least you went outside of your boundries and tested yourself.
I have crippling social anxiety, it's so bad that I don't even have friends online. I've been trying to talk to people on discord but my heart starts racing when they talk to me and I end up leaving every server because i'm so stressed out.
But, i'm trying every day to get better and go outside of my comfort zone and I can attest to the fact that it does help, just take baby steps my man, sooner or later you'll be hanging out with friends every week and won't feel stressed about going. It takes time and effort. Good luck, hopefully you achieve what you set out to achieve.
Just stop being a pussy anon. You have already spoken to them. If you can do it once you can do it again and cut the muh anxiety meme that shit is not real
>>37710658
t. chad
originalw
>>37710658
>anxiety is not real
fuck you cnut
>>37710692
its bait just ignore it
>>37710235
I'm in kind of a similar situation. I have no problem making "friends" it's just all my friends are school friends, and I have nobody to hang out with.
just go, you will be sorry if you don't