Normies call "adulting" saving for a house, having

>>37683059
Would you by chance be me?

>>37683059
Getting your hair cut is worse.

>>37683059
The other day the stupid bank ATM ate about 70 dollars. I thought I could simply call the bank, give them the date, amount, and location and they would find my money. Apparently not. They said I'd have to go in to a branch and "dispute" it.

I did not and now my money is like
>you need to socialise more
>70 dollars isn't worth it!?
I shouldn't have to do this shit. And yeah, it really isn't worth it. I have credit card debt that isn't getting paid off because of shit like this. Whatever desu. I really hate society.

>>37683101
>they try to make conversation with me
>if i don't respoind I will be seen as the autist
usually ends up with me sitting for 20 minutes till theyre done and then paying while sweating and getting out of there

>>37683119
My mom, not money. Christ

>>37683119
>i really hate society

fucking get a hold of yourself man

>fuck this amazing magical machine that lets me securely and cheaply store my life savings and access it from anywhere in the world instantly
>it made a minor mistake once in my whole life and i had to talk to a person so fuck this whole thing i'll go live in the woods

get some perspective

>>37683119
If I were you I would probably go there, start disputing it and give up halfway through because it is too much hassle.

>>37683167
Leave at once, Norman, you do not understand us.

>>37683211

fuck off to /r/incel if you want an echo chamber, this board has no topic

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7 stages of making a phonecall
>Shock: Oh fuck, I'll have to call them
>Denial: Maybe I don't need to call them after all?
>Anger: Why do I have to call them for their fuck-up?
>Bargaining: Maybe an e-mail or SMS is enough
>Depression: What if I stutter or don't understand
>Testing: Maybe I'll have my mom call them, no that's gay, maybe I'll go in person, fuck, the office is in another city. I'll try to call super early in the morning first.
>Acceptance: Okay, I'll just dial them and hope for the best
>They don't fucking pick up
REEEEEEEEEEEEEe

>>37683167
Fuark off

If you use the term "adulting" you're a reddit teir beta nu-male cuck.

>>37683216
Of all the fucking boards here you go here to laugh at us, you normie bastard. Get the hell out.

>>37683167
It's not one mistake. It's the culmination of mistakes that ive made. The biggest mistake, however was me trying to play in this game. There is no outcome I want from it. I live in a continual state of disappointment, both at society and myself.

>>37683252
Not nu-male, only beta cuck, thank you very much. What word would you use?

>>37683271

I'm not here to laugh I'm here to help, think of it as tough love

That fucking post I responded to was some SJW-tier entitlement and I won't let this community degrade in to just another safe space

>>37683300
responsible, mature, proactive, independent,dependable

Actual words and not internet meme words.

>>37683187
I mean, it wouldn't have been hard. Thing is, I put the money in on a Saturday night. I called Monday morning and they told me to come in. I was so mad that I waited. Now it's way too late and I don't even care. If my debt was paid off, I probably would go into the woods and die

>>37683305
The bank could afford to return the money a million times over. Is it entitlement to want your rightfully owned money? It has nothing to do with the technology behind it (because yeah, today it's kinda granted), it's about warrants the bank makes (like having your money secure, which applies even when their own machine malfunctions).

>>37683293

How long is it going to take you to go to the branch and dispute it? I'd bet less than an hour

And in exchange for that you get to continue enjoying all the perks of modern society. There are people living in Myanmar who have literally never seen an ATM in their whole life, they keep their life savings in cash hidden in their homes.

Be grateful for what you have rather than bitter and cynical

>>37683393

The bank would have given him the money 100% if he'd followed their procedure, which he probably agreed to in the TOS attached to his debit card

>>37683354
"adulting" is a shelter term for those, even if it sounds stupid

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>>37683059
>"adulting"
Jesus fuck, I hate this term. It encapsulates everything about this Peter-pan, 90's-nostalgia, developmentally-stunted, fuck-the-future culture we live in. God, I fucking hate it.

And being an adult goes beyond superficial crap like that. Yeah, having resources and being organized is important, but it doesn't make you an adult. You're not "adulting" because you can do basic domestic shit, avoid going into debt, and fulfill a biological function you've been capable of fulfilling since you were fucking 11. There's a bunch of emotional and personal development that goes into it, and there are plenty of people who have jobs and kids who are mentally 6 years old in terms of their emotional development.

>What are some things you find difficult doing due to your autism?
I legitimately have trouble going to crowded or noisy places because of sensory overload. The solution? Earmuffs and a plan.

>>37683413
>Be grateful for what you have rather than bitter and cynical
but discontent drives progress, anon. i can't wait for the machine that cuts my nails while giving me blowjob

>>37683413
Look man, I get where you're coming from, but I don't see the "perks" of living today. My (((money))) can be accessed all over the world?!? Spooky. I can go to the hospital and extend my life unnaturally? Cool. I can download and app and follow attention whores? Wow. These modern times are great if you want them to be great.

I personally would rather have to survive, than to thrive. At least when surviving, I wouldn't have time to think about a meaning of life. Or I would die. either is fine

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>>37683101

I just give myself a buzz cut

>>37683427
>I am so developed and mature while everyone else is retarded
fuck off

>>37683059
Getting along with my parents

Ordering kebab without looking like a retarded incel while arab strongmen shout across the room in arabic

Having some fucking ambition

life


shooting my self

>>37683514
I never said I was more mature or developed than anybody here. I just hate the term "adulting" and don't think it even encapsulates what being an adult actually is in my mind. I apologize if I came across as condescending or douchy in any way.

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>>37683059
i can't even order pizza on the phone
im 24

>>37683484

yes but only if you take it the right way. if you take the approach that anon did, which is fuck this i'm out then the blowjob machine doesn't get built

>>37683498

if you really hate it then leave, nobody is forcing you to stay. go live on a hippy commune or build a yurt in the mountains.

society is more than apps and ATMs, it's varied and healthy food, clean water, heat, physical safety, sports, hobbies, arts, culture, cars, trains, massages, ice cream, pastry, festivals, friends, sex, drugs, medical care the list goes on and on

and most of all it's a privilege to be a part of, not an obligation. you make a choice to stay here every day because you know it's way fucking better to thrive than it is struggling to survive, so stop being so edgy and enjoy yourself

>>37683609
I always order it online so I minimise having to talk to people.

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Fostering any sort of relationship. It's like my mind races to find flaws in absolutely everything and everyone, and practically everything annoys me. I worry that I'm going to wear down anyone close to me with my constant state of being annoyed and complaints.

send help

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>>37683501
I just stressed myself bald.

>>37683609
i can manage that,its harmless anon,push that boundary a little

>>37683634
Well, I do plan on leaving as soon as I pay off my debt. If i leave before that, they'll either hunt me down and arrest me or pin it on my family.

So yeah, I get nothing from all those "benefits" only the negatives. There is no point in me being around

>>37683730

bullshit excuse man, declare bankruptcy right now and it's gone forever, clean slate

>>37683634
>friends, sex,

t0pkek

>>37683764
And then what? Get a minimum wage job and continue to live with my mom, unable to afford anything? I already have everything I need, and most things I want.

It's all excuses with you normies. Never could it be that someone actually wants a different lifestyle

>>37683785

you said you wanted to leave society, why would you get a job?

you don't need money to struggle to survive in the wilderness right? I thought that's what you wanted?

>>37683815
Oh you're saying go into bankruptcy then leave. My bad. Yeah, that's an option I'm going to look into. Thanks man.

It's funny how normalfags think they have the answer for everything even if they don't know shit about the person they are talking to.

Shove your society up your ass, nigger

Normies btfo AGAIN. Why can't they just go away?

>>37683233
I can relate so much to this. Having to make a phonecall always makes me think suicide is worth it after all.

>having an haircut
>speaking on the phone with someone
>meeting new people
>going out at night
>sending resume/applying for a job
>going to job interviews

And probably more. These situations make me feel terribly anxious and uneasy.
I remember as young as my infancy having this phobias.


What made me like this?

>>37684222
bad experiences during childhood and teen years.

>>37684222
You have a fear of disapproval/failure. It happens when you're away from society for too long. The worst thing is it gets worse the more you avoid it, so keep that in mind.

>>37684238

I could say my parents divorce could have hurt me.

But then again I remember being a kid (9 or 10yo and before divorce) and not wanting to go to some friends birthday party because there would be people I didn't know.

Maybe we are just born with it...

But surely the divorce made it worse. I am always fighting with my mom and wish I closer to my father but our relation is awkward

>>37684267
I sure do. But the thing is whenever I try to break out of it I fail harder.

I'm 24 never had a job. I have a degree in buisness and a masters in MIS. But my autism makes me fail the HR interviews everytime.

>>37684341
like most things its probably a mix of nature and nurture. little things that you dont even remember anymore could have a big influence on you if they happened during that very impressionable age, and things like the divorce probably made you feel exposed and vulnerable which leads to the development of various automatic emotional responses. its a clusterfuck.

>>37683059
>I call "adulting" mustering up the courage to call to a doctor to make an appointment.
THAT WHAT THEY CALL ADULTING TOO YOU BRAINLET!

Don't normies call very basic stuff like cooking, paying the bills etc. "adulting"?

>>37683101
Tell me about it
>not sure what kind of haircut is normie approved
>don't want to get a buzzcut since I could just cut one at home myself
>can't even describe haircuts that well
Protip to all the robots: get your haircuts at middle eastern barbershops.

>>37683609
nigga it's 2017. you can order online from your computer or use their app for your phone. Only communication you need is with the delivery guy.

>>37683354
>internet meme words

Like beta nu male cuck?

You fucking retard

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>>37683634
>healthy food
>sports
>"arts"
>"culture"
>massages
>friends
>sex
>drugs

Okay I've had enough. This is NOT a safe space for you normies anymore. I've fucking HAD it.

Why the fuck do you come here and put this inane shit on blast claiming how great life is and how it's a privilege to live it? You know nothing, I mean absolutely NOTHING in terms of how it feels to live as a robot.

Half of those things you've listed robots have to toil 200% harder than you've had to work for. And the other half, even though being gratis for normies, are hidden and restricted from robots unconsciously by the rest of society. Do you really think it's a privilege for a masseuse to rub a hairy robot's back?

GTFO. You shitstains think life is so great because it's only been good to you. You're probably 19 and a non-virgin who just finished high school and in love with his future. I hope you get hit by a bus tomorrow. You know nothing of actual pain, just the disappointment of your favorite sports team losing. I can't begin to articulate how much I hate you.

kill yourself please, I can't stand to hear the words coming out of your stupid normie mouth.

>>37684799
Why middle eastern?

>>37685083
They are very good at cutting hair and if you're in yurop they are cheap as well. They also have great service

>>37684799
im not going to support those invaders

>>37685162
Its not refugees who run the barbershops. Its usually turkish immigrants who have tens of years of experience with cutting hair. They pay taxes to the government. They are the good immigrants

>>37684238
Ive been like this since i was 4.
I barely talked to my mother because i didnt want her to be mad at me. What i did was write on a paper and then give it to her. And even then i was nervous of her reaction.

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>>37683059
Figuring out why I don't want relationship. I honestly see no point in it but I also know it childish, I guess. Still, relationships doesn't make sense.

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>>37683694
>being stressed about having 0 responsibilities

>>37683059
>What are some things you find difficult doing due to your autism?
Not killing myself

>>37683059
I worked at McDonald's for a summer job. I went back to uni which was in a different town. But I worked up until I left. As a result I didn't get my last two paychecks which would totally like $400-500. I still haven't gotten them because I'm afraid to go up there and ask for them. They also haven't mailed them to me either even though they have my address. Should I sue them since they haven't payed me?

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>>37683059
>calling anything "adulting"
Back to you-know-where.
Making me sick.

>>37683059
Haven't had a shower in over three months, possibly more.
I do not remember the last time I had a hair cut, it goes down to my shoulders.
I can not leave the house on my own, only with somebody I have known for years on end.

>>37683233
>have to make important phone call for a surgery so they can mail me my pre-surgery meds on time
>had the phone nightmare the night before
>you know the one where you really have to call your mom but you can't dial the number right no matter how many times you try
>wake up early
>pace around debating on whether or not I should call them
>sit in my car for an hour with the phone number dialed just waiting to push the call button
>push the call button after an hour and get a rush of adrenaline
>start sweating and panicking
>stutter throughout the whole phone call
>hang up after it's over
>feel like a piece of shit for the rest of the day

I'm like you and I'm going to college to live by myself next semester. what have I done

>>37683119
Dude, it's your word against the bank's. And the bank gets to make the decision about whether you get your money back. That's a hopeless situation for you. Your $70 is gone.

The only exception would be if you had hard evidence that a lawyer would agree is sufficient to threaten the bank with credible legal action. For example, if you had photographic evidence of the entire ATM transaction. You don't have that, so you have nothing.

How does your mom not know that? It's basic, universal adult knowledge that little guys don't win fights against huge, rich corporations. Or if they do, then it's a 1 in a million freak outcome.

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>>37683059
>>37683059
>mfw can communicate perfectly well formally with both genders because I know people can't judge me (debate team captain/spokeperson for a local NGO in uni/several national TV interviews)
>mfw can't talk with people (women) informally and intimately because I can fall a victum to subjective ad homineming at any point like "you're virgin loser"
Fear of rejection was a mistake.

>>37687031
You're not a robot. Get out. Now. Asshole.

>>37687081
>not a robot
>3/10 obese KHHV
ok

>>37687256
Yeah buddy you're not a robot.

The one normie thing about me is that I have a gf. However, if she asks me to meet any of her friends or family, I get extremely nervous and secretly drink vodka beforehand.
The worst fuck up in my life directly caused by my social anxiety was actually while I was still in university. I had restrictions against signing up for my own classes online, so I had to make and appointment with an advisor. My advisor was extremely hard to get ahold of, I even went in one time and he wasn't there. The semester started like the next week, so I just said fuck it, I'm dropping out, and I haven't went back since. I'm pretty sure normal people wouldn't make such a major life decision like this simply due to the fact that they are too scared to make the meeting with their advisor happen no matter what.

>>37687395
Nah you're a normal shit.

>>37683140
>tfw I'm so awkward they don''t even try to talk to me

>>37683101
I love getting my hair cut. Tell them to give me a 3 on the sides and trim the top up, then sit back and relax. It's weird, but that like the feel of the clippers on my skin.

>keeping a bf
That's literally it. I don't even have any other dreams anymore.

i think these issues all come from fearing committing to something for whatever reason.

i still have the appointment problem, kind of, like it depends.
when it comes to my money, all of it goes away. like i had people stealing money from my account by card swiping and i was instantly on the phone with the bank.
i also was having problems with the gym i was signed up to and i would be on the phone with them a lot.

but when it comes to scheduling an appointment i fucking get anxiety, it's weird.

>>37683609
>Hi, I'd like to place a delivery order for a large pepperoni pizza, address in 123 anon way
How is that difficult?

>>37687395
just because you're a dumb fuck doesn't make you a robot