hhng true love stories anyone?? >be me >9 months ago

My first real crush in highschool initially entertained me then I became super obsessive and made an ass of myself for a month or more.

Afterwards, I made sure to invite girls for dates after some days of conversation so I couldn't build up a crush on air but they all said no.

This is my love life, what did you expect?
Anyway, just go to some public baths to fuck other gay guys.

well op, first you need to ask yourself. you're posting this story on the internet to a bunch of strangers. you could be asking for genuine advice, or you are feeding your ego and telling the story the way you want to hear it to make yourself feel a certain way (not always better). either way, breakups are complicated. it's best to be civilized but to not let your passion die. turn the propane down to simmer, naw mean. when you have a break up, it's best to treat it like taking space away from others for yourself. rediscover what makes you happy and what you take for granted etc etc and hope that it makes you a better person, for yourself, not for them. if this guy is just an asshole you don't want him back. but follow your heart, not telling you to hate him or choose to think about the negatives. clear your mind, listen to your intuition, and if you can't stop being a bitch, that's okay. but you'll only become a broken identity-less loser if you hold on to your short comings and succumb to pain

>>37675720
whatever you gotta say to yourself and others to be satisfied with fucking dudes in the public bath!!!!!

In highschool a girl confessed to me in front of a dozen people and was genuine about it. I don't remember how I reacted. I don't even think I reacted at all. It was only after several times of her trying to flirt with me that I realized I liked her back but I was too chickenshit to tell her so I kept up my cool guy persona. The next few months were nothing but awkward blushing glances across the room.

Suddenly real life gave me a kick in the ass and I had to transfer schools immediately because reasons. I didn't tell her I was leaving and I'm sure I broke her heart when she discovered I suddenly vanished.

I'm 21 now and that was my only meaningful interaction with the opposite sex.

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Large and autistic love story incoming.

>>37675946
that was the most genuinely helpful post I've read in a long time... thanks anon

>>37677143
Also stop being a fag, go to /lgbt/.

You deserve love and support faggot

>>37675617
>awkward girl wearing comfy hoodie
>seems like someone I wouldn't really be attracted to at first
>still really like her for whatever reason
>decide to talk to her
>end up dating

Never really had that feeling of knowing you're gonna care about someone before you speak to them, pretty sure it was a fluke, but I hope not.

>>37676498
Nevermind I pussied out and decided not to tell the story.

>>37675617
>be at same school from 3rd to 9th grade
>we don't become friends until orientation freshmen year
>she thinks I'm annoying and loud and hates me
>for some reason starts to crush on me very obviously
>take her out because she was a cutie petite blonde with braces and a nice bubble butt
>when I ask her out she says yes
>fast forward 8 years to present
She's pretty much my best friend and the only reason I've made it this far. I'm her impenetrable wall and she's the cute little thing that keeps me goin.

>>37677424
What was the context that you talked to her? Was she just some random girl in public? Or was she someone you routinely saw?

yes

>i stalked him
>he knew someone was stalking him but he didn't know it was me
>he also didn't know the extent