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I kinda need some help
I feel like my partner doesn't love me
So I've been dating my partner for a month, he is 19 I'm 18. When we first met we talked about our pasts and had a really personal convo about his mothers death, my abuse ect ect. We met up and fell in love and we started dating about 3 days later. Now my trouble is I feel like he doesn't love me and is using me. I'm a virgin and he is my first for everything ( kissing and sexual things) I feel like he's using me because like he said maybe for me to go back to his house and he didn't call me last night because his dad was pressuring him to study since he was out the whole weekend. Anyway he does things to show he loves me like he says that he wants to live with me and he said he doesn't want to do 'stuff' yet and that he wants to make me feel good. He also helps me when I feel depressed and goes out of his way to talk to me but still I feel like he doesn't love me... What do I do??
I met his dad aswell and he has met my mum, and he says he wants to introduce me to his friends aswell, I also asked him to cut his hair and he did it. He constantly calls me sexy, beautiful and cute but i don't know does he
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Honestly, probably not. Men are shitty. I'd know because i am one, and most of the people i know are men.
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>>37673738
You sound really needy. Give the guy a fucking break.
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>>37673738
>he didn't call me last night because his dad was pressuring him to study
You said he goes out of his way to console you, and compliments you often. He hasn't refrained from all sexual activities.
He's a human with needs, and one of his needs is studying so he doesn't get in a situation where he's too backed up with work to do anything with you at all.
It's odd that you met and started dating at three days. Though, my grandfather asked my grandmother to marry him on their first or second date, and she said 'yes'. They lived together the rest of their lives in full faith, love, and devotion, until my grandfather's ultimate death. 60, almost 70-something years of marriage, I think. Maybe more.
You're relying too much on him to hold you up, to the point that even the tiniest thing will put you off. Examine your behavior and thoughts when you start feeling like this to realize this all more closely.
Be grateful you have this opportunity. Don't let your insecurity fuck it up.
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