How can anyone who has regular sex be unhappy or anxious? They

>>37659679
Grass is always greener anon, normans get bored of regular sex and resort to buying sex toys.

they can't

what they call depression is the feeling of dropping from 99.9% of potential human joy to 99.8% of potential human joy. what they call anxiety is the feeling of fluctuating between those two points.

meanwhile, most people on here are hovering at around 5% on a good day.

>>37659679
yes.

t. got a gf and regular sex.

>>37659679

Believe it or not, sex is not everything in your life. I'm KHV tho, but i'll tell you that i'm sure i would still be sad even with a gf

>I'm a virgin that's why I'm so depressed guise XD

>>37659704
You have no clue about what's going on inside an average person's mind. Though I know what's going on in yours; you're a fucking retard.

>>37659679
Depression is a chemical imbalance. Plus they might just be having sex to fill a deep void left in them, to the point where it actually becomes an unhealthy coping strategy.

I'm a virgin though so wtf do I know

Sex is pleasurable but it doesn't take away your emotional baggage.

>>37659679
Simple. Sex isn't all it's cracked up to be.

It's even worse with the current casual sex culture. In the end sex is as relevant as a handshake...

I met a girl who fucked everybody, literally. She was the most sad, devoid of life looking girl I ever met. Sex isn't everything anon, some people are just broken inside.

>>37659881
Well she's not fucked me yet, why would that be?

>>37659853
Depression isn't a chemical imbalance. Keep drinking the serotonin koolaid...

>>37659679
>This is a serious question.

It's a stupid question.

You've never had sex, so how can you claim having had sex would make anyone happy and not anxious?

I had sex and all it did was make me feel more depressed and empty. It lasts a few minutes then youbare done and you feel like shit afterwards again.

>>37659954
It just doesn't make sense to me. I have had no validation my whole life so it seems weird that someone who has had validation would have anything to worry about. Even if something bad happens, like they lose their job or whatever, at least they know they're a worthwhile person because it has been proven by the fact that someone wants or at least wanted to be with them.

>>37659679
humans get used to whatever situation they are in and it becomes normal.

I used to be a KHHV and I was extremely depressed, I thought if I can just have sex once I'll be happy

Now I've moved to asia and i've had sex with more than 50 girls and I'm more depressed than ever

There's probably some kid in in a 3rd world shit hole thinking " if only I lived in a western country I could be happy. How could those people ever be unhappy?"

>>37659679
It's not about the sex, it's about the loving relationship.

>>37660305
>loving

It's clear you have never had a relationship.

>>37660335
>le "love is a meme" meme

>>37659679
What if you have guaranteed regular sex with a girl you're not attracted to?

There's a girl I can fuck any time I want but she's really fat, and after knowing her for years I'm convinced that she is literally incapable of losing weight. Like her brain is broken and she just can't stop binge eating donuts.

Anyway I feel really depressed because I want a gf I am attracted to but I don't think I could get one because I'm too shy and awkward. I don't want to be intimate with a girl like this, I don't care if I never have sex again. That is an equally horrible fate.

>>37660335
>t. buttmad failure who's never been in a loving relationship

If all your problems go away just because you're having sex, you were never a robot.

>>37659704
Robots don't have special super depression. They have meme "I don't try getting a gf" depression.

>>37660212
What validation do you think regular people are getting?

>>37660411
He thinks casual sex is validation.

>>37660249
Yeah because you only got to fuck 4/10 slant eyes LOL

>lose my virginity a week ago
>don't feel any better

It was great in the moment but then you feel like shit again. Kind of reminds me of drugs

>>37659679

Shitty sex isn't really any better than jerking off


I would know sadly

>>37659679
Sex isn't that big a deal, you just think it is because you can't have it. Having mindless sex with a bunch of whores would be nothing more than baseline physical stimulation and it would not leave you feeling fulfilled.

>>37660446

Made me laugh unreasonably hard

>>37660454
Did you lose it to a virgin? No?

Dumbass

>>37660527
No I didn't. And I don't understand, why am I a dumbass?

>>37660538
Depression is only cured if you have sex with a virgin silly. You're just another notch on the bedpost now.

Why do you think Chad is so happy? He's bedded multiple virgins.

>>37660432
Any type of sex. Please explain how it is not validation.

>>37660586
One of billions of examples: >>37660282

I wonder what emotions loli sex slaves feel. They have those in the Philippines and similar I've heard.

>>37659874
Exactly this. Cuddling has the same bonding factor as sex, actually more considering most normans and such cant properly into sex, and just have stereotypical behaviours wich involve mechanically repeating a motor schemes with a tendency to generate more problems, that have to be resolved with expressions of affect outside of sex to repair the disaster.

No sex =/= depression, loneliness (subjectively perceived as unvoluntary) in the other hand is a good predictor for it.

>>37660617

>subjectively perceived as unvoluntary

If you're looked down on by 100% of females what else would you call it? I suppose there's rape but that's illegal.

>>37660672
I was refering to loneliness as an absolute, not just sexual relationships. But i see your point, but the depressive factor in that case is not loneliness but rejection, as it has many more negative implications for oneself. Is way worse being disliked that not being liked, i hope the difference between the two is evident as it may seem the same.

>>37660848
>way worse being disliked that not being liked
I strongly disagree. If people dislike me, at least they recognize me as a person and form an opinion, they remember me.

>>37660464
I second this. I've found myself (after 45 mins of mindless pounding) wishing I could just rip the condom off, go home, and boot up my fetish porn and cum in two mins lol

>>37659679
They have no point of reference for true unhappiness. It's like when Stacys complain about being lonely. Lonely for them is 10minutes without a text message

>>37659679
Sex, believe it or not, isn't the meaning of life.

>>37660922
Physical affection, believe it or not, is necessary to a mammal's mental health.

>>37661969
This. There is a reason why almost every guy who goes postal was a khv. I can assure you, if a girl would had a crush on Elliot Rodger as he was alive and would try everything to get in a relationship with him and have Sex with him, 6 people, including Rodger, would be alive today.
Sure, Sex is not the ONLY factor for mental health, but it's besides healthy relationships one of the BIGGEST factors. Sex is the necessary 1% to become a fulfilled person, that's not virgin talk, just look at your environment which guys are virgins and which don't, the guys who aren't virgins are most likely mentally healthy.

>>37661969
Nope. I was a KHV until age 23 and I was fine. Lonely and not happy with my life, sure, but mentally healthy.

>>37662607
>the guys who aren't virgins are most likely mentally healthy
Because they're sane and normal enough to get into relationships.

>>37659679
Because sex isn't the most important thing in the world. An intimate orgasm doesn't turn your life around.

>>37659679
too early to fap ffs

>>37659679
There's more avenues of self fulfillment than just sexual: career, physical, emotional, spiritual(if you're gay like that).

>>37662607
virginity is the symptom, not the cause

>>37664498
It's not as simple as cause and effect.

>>37659704
this guy thinks sex is 99.9 percent of human joy. joy can't be measured as they vary between people u god damn retard.

Non-virgins will never understand. Plus it isn't just virginity, if you're a virgin you're probably KHV, that means never had a gf, a kiss, a hug nothing. Zero validation as a man.

>>37664548
>this guy thinks sex is 99.9 percent of human joy
That's some strong reading comprehension right there, LMAO.

>>37664508
I'm not implying that it is, but I am responding to a poster who mistakenly believes that virginity is the cause, when it's actually just a symptom of the bigger problem, which is mental illness and antisocial tendency.

>>37659853
>Depression is a chemical imbalance

nice try jew pharma shill but no one is buying this horseshit anymore

>>37664858
>antisocial tendency.

I can agree with this, but my anti social habits were built from years of my peers shitting on me. Its like Ive been forced to become this hermit. I have tried numerous times to fix myself, but its too late. I would hang out and go out to bars with my co workers and its just immediately apparent that I am shy and socially stunted, so I dig myself deeper and cut off everyone in my life.

>>37664498

I see your point, but I have also witnessed the transformative effect of sex and relationships on many of my peers. It made them normal.

>>37660922

To say that sex is overhyped is irrelevant. That does not fix the bitterness inside a lot of virgins. Having had sex, one might gain perspective, but you're wasting your time trying to tell virgins that sex is overhyped when an entire culture celebrates it.

Sex is everywhere. Constantly. And it contributes to a massive alienation of virgins. Even ignoring the shaming, loss of respect, awkward questions etc., virgins are vulnerable simply to an endurig feeling of exclusion and rejection. They lose the ability to connect to their peers, missing out on vital life experiences.

Bitterness, exclusion and disconnection are a powerful mixture. It fuels fantasies of revenge and retribution. Then there's all the associated issues of abysmal self esteem, minimal social network etc. that further entrench isolation, frustration and envy.

So after a while, sex represents a lot more than PiV. It's an acceptance into society, as a human being. It is a recognition of their self worth. Normies got this sort of validation early in life, whereas older virgins are missing it.

Moreover, sex is often a gateway to genuine intimacy, which is provably important to mental health.

>>37664858
I'm convinced that neither is the cause or the effect. I don't want to make this philosophical, but the chicken or egg dilemma sums it up in one term.

>>37664649
This.

Maslows Hierarchy of Needs

You can't be a self actualized person without receiving/giving love and acceptance

because they aren't getting any.

seriously, lots of guys are fucking liars

>>37659679
you're a fucking idiot. lol

People can never be satisfied

>>37664926

Good post. Drinking clean water and eating food for me is extremely easy to me, to a person in africa its a huge deal. Just because it isn't special or important to me, does not mean it isn't a necessity. Technically you can live your whole life as a virgin, but unless you're ultra autistic you will go crazy. Those ISIS bombers? Most are virgin men in their 20s that are dying to get their 72 virgins. Most school shooters and elliot rodger types? Virgins, outcasts, never had gfs.

You need love, you need intimacy, you need sex. And you damn sure need to have it at least ONCE.

>huehuehuuehuehuehue
> I have a social circle
> I have friends
> I have good health
> I am good looking
> I have a gf/bf
> I have a loving family
> I have money
> I have no psychological traumas
> BUT MUH DEPRESSION IS REAL ACKNOWLEDGE IT!!1!1!!1!1!1!

>HEUEHUEHDUEHYUEHEUUE

Fuck off normalfags you can't be depressed like a robot.

>>37660249
Yes, humans get used to whatever situation.

But some situations ARE better than others. I'm happier and not lonely since having a gf

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>>37659679

how does sex cure anxiety?

I have general anxiety/hypochondria mainly related to blood sugar (because anxiety feels similar to low blood sugar symptoms). I even bought a god damn diabetic blood glucose meter.

I have a gf, I have sex with her. It does nothing for my anxiety because I still have to leave my house and feel dizzy all day. And sometimes puke in the morning if I'm too anxious.

Maybe you don't actually have anxiety or depression but just need to bust a nut inside a girl?

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>>37659969
>>37660249
>>37660305
>>37660370
>>37660467
>>37660898
>>37665762

WHERE'S THE FUCKING MODS!!

>>37665923

Fuck off robot. You think you're life is hard because you can't get pussy.

>>37665959
It is. You have someone that allows you to fuck them. Your life CANNOT be difficult. You have everything.

>>37665966
To normal people having sex is like food and water. If you don't have it you care a lot but to people who have it secured it's just a basal need and you can have many higher level problems that cause anxiety or depression.

>>37666230
Sounds like you need to get the fuck off my board normie scum. I hope you die.

>>37659679
Because depression is an actual brain problem and has nothing to do with how your real life is.

>>37666365
This didn't used to be a board for khv faggots. You leave and give us our board back.

>>37659874
>In the end sex is as relevant as a handshake...
guess Elliot was just misguided then. shame you weren't there to save him with this piece of diamond wisdom.

>>37666488
Fuck off normie. Go be miserable with your cumdump gf.

>>37662819
>Because they're sane and normal enough to get into relationships.
that's correct, and 95% of that was due to genetics and the environment they were brought up in. The rest was luck and a bit of personal agency.

>>37659679
God this thread is delusional. It's because all it is is 2 people rubbing their genitals on each other. It's not the meaning to life, or fulfillment or any bullshit like that. The only reason you think it's so great is because you'll never have it.
At best sex is simply another distraction and like all distractions, once you've used I and had time to think you'll realize that that didn't add purpose to your life and nothing will because nothing can add "purpose" to this shitty thing called life.

>>37660399
That's really all you see? There's more underlying problems than that. I can tell you're new though so I'll give you a pass.

>>37666666
Holy fuck check my digits nigga

>>37659679
>implying hookers are happy
>implying that those who used hookers are happy
>implying that when stacy or yoko cucked you with Amesh, you're happy

Many anons seem to have had sex at some point on this board

>>37659852

Explain then, 4chan doctor.

>>37659898
All of life is a bunch of chemicals reactions. You don't need to be a jew from big pharma to know that
>>37660527
People who still believe this need to be anally raped
>>37665966
Any virgin on this board could too if they'd go find an ugly fat chick but they think they hey deserve a super model for doing nothing more with their life than being an annoying shitposting faggot

>>37660399
I have diagnosed Dysthimia, does that count?

>>37666761

No one "deserves" anything you fucking retard. I hate that word. We're all animals and might makes right, no matter how much you cowardly empaths gloss over it

>>37666761
>they think they hey deserve a super model for doing nothing more with their life than being an annoying shitposting faggot

>implying /r9k/ is a single person

Some of us just want to be happy. Some of us just wish they could fit in despite what they have that puts them back. Some of just want some qt pie

>>37659679
You get desensitised to something good if you have it too much.

Does a burger taste as good the 9th night in a row?

>>37666761
>ugly fat chick
They don't exist.
Plus I want a gf not a casual fuck. Now fuck off normie.

>How can anyone who has regular sex be unhappy or anxious?

They could be poor. They could be abused. They could have cancer. They could work a high-stress job. Your problems are not the worst problems in the world.

>>37659898
So when you take too much md and become depressed by the lack of serotonin that isn't evidence it's a chemical imbalance?

>>37666761
Oh hey, it's the hole that's been shitting up the woman hate thread.

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>>37660399

Holy shit >>37666666 absolutely wrecked you! You should leave this board immediately, shameful display

>>37660399
I can't speak for other bots but i can't get a GF because of my depression. There's a ton of mental blocks in my mind that just prevent me from even trying to get involved in another person's life or telling them anything about mine. It's such several self hatred that I feel bad for any girl I develop even the slightest interest in. It's only slightly less with the few friends I have. I've known them for years and they still don't know key things about me because I always steer conversation away from me.

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>>37666620
Here you strawman a huge part of a humans fulfillment to just "rubbing genitals on each other", like it's just a small and insignificant physical act that has little meaning, completely stripped from its environmental and emotional subtext. It's like saying that laughing is just "coughing while making a stupid face", when in reality, a genuine laugh is a joyous and unrestrained expression of ones happy state of being.

It's a typical normie fallacy that is used against the most base and unfulfilled desires that a robot usually has, like a desire for love, for friendship and for belonging.

>>37666666
The prophecy has been fulfilled. He who receives 6 consecutive 6s is the hero that will save 4chan and bring it back to its former glory.

>>37662607
I have absolutely no healthy relationships nor have I ever had any. I'd never even dream of going postal, if anything I'm the opposite, I fantasize about being a superhero, saving people and shit. KHV is more likely because of the mental issues.

>>37659704
>5%
>civilized country
>computer and internet access


Trylike 60% robrat

Never had sex or a gf but I'm generally happy, would be nice but there are plenty of other things that I enjoy in life so its not an issue. So I'm sure people who do can be unhappy.

>>37667529
most 3rd world people live in better conditions than our western ancestors did 100 years ago. besides, you can be happy and poor at the same time aslong as your basic human needs are fulfilled. it's not like we as a species only now started becoming happy because of videogames and air conditioning.

>>37667529
BRRRRRRRRAPPPPPPPPPPP


oreganogarlic

>>37659679
Sex really isn't that great anon

Sex won't cure what ails you. Trust me on this, anon.

>>37659679
Sex is a fleeting dopamine rush just like everything else in life anon and you're a retard for not realizing it

>>37667982
>>37668002
>>37668047
it's not just the sex you fucking morons.

>>37659679
because unhappiness isn't caused by feeling worthwhile, I had a gf whom I liked a lot and she loved me kinda excessively and all it made me feel was more anxious, other than feeling less lonely it did very little for my attitude towards life and the world, I still wanted to die and wished I hadn't been born

>>37668120
But that's literally the OP. Just sex. It is you who is the moron.

>>37664873
most people aren't nazis who think everything is a jewish conspiracy

>>37666489
Elliot was a fucking retard

>>37668254
no, you fucking tool. if a woman is willing to have sex with a man then that says a lot of things about him, like that he has the looks and social skills necessary to convince a woman to lay with him.
having sex is a validation of your looks, personality and the way you carry yourself. it is one of the most important milestones of a mans life. if he's well into his 20s and still hasn't had sex, then that a lot of negative things about him.

yes, the actual process of sex may not be the most enjoyable or rewarding experience in life, but a man who cannot get sex is very different from a man who can. this is a board filled with young men like me who cannot get laid or get friends. you can tell me that sex is just like masturbation but worse, or that a conversation is just talking to yourself but with someone else, but i know what i'm lacking and why i'm unhappy, you dumb fucking normie.

>>37668790
>young men like me who cannot get laid or get friends
correction: choose not to

>>37659679

Yes. For 5 years I lived with a woman. I could have had sex every night if I had wanted. Usually just 3 times a week or so.

It made me happy to live with someone, and sex felt peaceful.

But you can definitely get anxiety. I find it's much lessened when you're not alone.