Are normies really not bothered by the fact that their girlfriend

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>>37617913
No, because she lost her virginity to me.

>>37617913
Wives maybe, pump and dump gfs not really.

>>37617913
can a boy get some sauce?

>>37617913
Normies don't care.they just accept it like the little sad pathetic cucks that they are.

>>37617913
Never cared.

She tryed cocks, and loved mine.

>>37618018
thats what they all said desu
unoriginal

It's more that most men are simply too thirsty and desperate to have standards. Virtually all straight men want a virgin, but as individuals they know if they tried to keep to that standard they would literally never get their dick wet.

normies have pathetic cuck mentality. they accept a slut because its the social norm now. they dont mind her past because its the "moral" thing now according to the herd. they dont have deep thoughts and feelings anon. they marry a roastie, they fuck around, and then they brake up, do the same thing other normies do when they break up and then repeat the process. they are like animals

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I used to be bothered by this a lot and i still am once i really think about it, even her watching porn or having been cute, making out with someone and in a relationship bothers me
but you need to learn to ignore since it is very unrealistic to expect an 18-22 year old normie to be a virgin.

its not about being the first ever its about being the last ever.

You will probably have sex one day, that being with someone you love or someone you dont and perhaps it doesnt work out till the end, you cant expect your future partner (after the first) to be upset over you not being a virgin and vice-versa.

theres a difference between them giving it to someone they thought was the one and giving it to anyone.

do you think women should be mad at men for them having been with other girls?

>>37618055
Yeah and she says it to every new cock as well

>>37617950
Yep, the little sad pathetic cuck isn't the autistic basement-dwelling manchild virgin NEET.

>>37617913
I reckon its a double standards thing - normies sleep around, for example one night stands are common at uni etc. If they aren't a virgin and have had casual things with other women, then why should they hold their gf to a different standard?

>>37618162
>normalcuck internet defense force is here
enjoy chad's used goods i guess. being is avirgin is a million times better than being a sluts pathetic bf

>>37617913
p sure they're more bothered by the fact that you think you deserve one

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>>37617913
You have far too high expectations of humanity.
>trusting people at all
>actually becoming emotionally invested in other people

why is virginity so desirable?

>>37618292
Why do women find tall men more desirable? It's primal man, don't gotta explain shit.

>>37618292
There's something romantic about being each other's first.

>>37617913
>that's someone's ex or future gf
meid mee tink

>>37617913
The key to accepting that your gf is not a virgin is to not love her or really care about her. I don't think normies really love their slut girlfriends, at best they just sort of like and tolerate them.

Normies do mind, which is why laying out the "roster" is always a big deal in relationships, still to this day. Popular media and modern trends have been trying to change that, but I think you can't really fight with the instincts that are hard-coded into our DNA.

>>37617913
If you have more sex than your girlfriend she's technically still pure. My girlfriend of 9 years has probably had sex over 600 times now. But I've had nearly triple that.

Being mad at a women for having sex at least once, when you're a virgin is the most hilarious thing on earth.

>>37618292
The sex is more meaningful and it enhances bonding. More importantly it ensures paternity.

>>37618361
>I-I chose not to have sex for 30 years! how dare you have sex before me!?

>>37618334
There are a lot of other romantic things that come about in relationships, though. I feel like excluding someone because they've had sex is a pretty dumb thing to do because you'd be missing experiences that would help you grow.

>>37618361
>If you have more sex than your girlfriend she's technically still pure. My girlfriend of 9 years has probably had sex over 600 times now. But I've had nearly triple that.
Sounds to me like you're trying to bargain with yourself, really.

>>37618389
I'm not excluding anyone.
Having sex in LTR is acceptable. I just would never date anyone who openly admits to casual sex.

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>>37618361
Strong copes ITT

>>37618389
People are animals, man. Dismissing somebody for not being a virgin is basically the same tier as dismissing somebody for being ugly.

>>37618424
this comment is wrong on so many levels anon

>>37618391
lmao do you know how long 9 years is? It really isn't that much.

You've probably masturbated more times than I've had sex

I'm gay I think but I would want my bf to have some kind of experience considering I have absolutely none I'd want him to take the lead.

>>37618454
back to your containment board, aids infested faggot.

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>>37618431
Wrong how and on which levels, faggot? People balance them differently, but they're basically both rejections based on a primal revulsion. Morally it's probably worse to reject somebody for being ugly come to think of it, as at least that wasn't their choice.

>>37617913
Are robots really bothered that they're virgins without girlfriends?

females are born to be cumdumps so not really
>>37618361
your gf is 9 yo?

>>37617913
My ex gf was a virgin when I deflowered her but she was and is a crazy bitch that was always horny and insane.

Honestly I think they're blissfully "dumb". In the same way they just brush off bad encounters and rude people and things like that, I think the thought doesn't bother them nearly as much and that they're able to avoid thinking about it.

I think robots are more aware and more sensitive, so much so that it is a detriment.

>>37618130
>it is very unrealistic to expect an 18-22 year old normie to be a virgin.
Why do you say that? My parents were virgins till they got married in their late 20's and early 30's. Just because the 18-22 year old women you've encountered weren't virgins, doesn't mean they don't exist.

>its not about being the first ever its about being the last ever.
Some people are the first and last ever. Everyone should aim to be this. While I might have sex with a non-Virgin, I could also pursue a relationship with a virgin and lose our virginity together. I prefer the latter, and I will never have sex with someone I don't love and wish to be with for the rest of my life.

>do you think women should be mad at men for them having been with other girls?
If only they were.

>>37619437
>My parents were virgins till they got married

Those were different times anon.

I lost my virginity to a slut and she fell in love with me
[Spoiler]she also has cuckqean fantasies and has been trying to get me to fuck her best friend[/spoiler]

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>>37617913
How can someone cum that much? Fuck that's making me so hard.

>>37619553
Do you love her anon kind? You should, cuckqueens sound hot.

>>37618292
Because of the jealous and territorial nature of men as a result of evolutionary benifits. Men who are not territorial are simply pathetic cucks with no sense of self worth.

>>37619570
I do love her we've been in a 5 year relationship now but i dont know about this cuck stuff i dont really know her friend all that well

A lot of people here are operating on the idea that its virgin men marrying women with multiple partners and not men who have had multiple partners marrying women who have had multiple partners which is the overwhelming majority.

>>37618346
>not a virgin = slut
good one

>>37618389
Robots don't want to grow. They want to rot in mommy's basement while feeling superior.

>>37618467
>literally says he's a virgin
>hurr aids infested
dumb

>>37619612
Wouldn't you prefer that she wasn't a slut, and that you were the only man she had sex with?

>>37619612
Take it slowly then, get to know the girl and when you're comfortable, go balls deep in her. Sounds like you have a good thing going anon.

>>37618389

Romantic things are by definition unique and new.

>>37619827

Lmao some used up goods got triggered!

>>37619723

Chad prefers lower partner count women for marriage and doesn't care about it for a pump-n-dump. Its just a fact.

The only people who get shit for this preference are guys who don't make womens brains go to mush and their vaginas flood as they think of draining Chad's cum from his balls. It ENRAGES women that they dare to have preferences that might disadvantage them in any way.

>>37619437
not everyone shares the same values as you, these are different times where literally women think they cant be ashamed of fucking 1000 guys

>>37619827
Losing your virginity to a whore is more settling for garbage than proving a point by not settling at all.

Even better when dumb sluts get into abusive relationships with psychotics.

>>37619611
>no really guys, all those dudes getting laid are pathetic and have no sense of self worth, while I, the loser virgin, reign supreme!!

>>37619930
Nah, I'm a guy. I just think you're a joke.

>>37619963
>anyone who's had sex is a whore
>being a miserable, lonely virgin your entire life is 'proving a point'
how dumb are you

>>37619864
Shes the sweetest most gentle soul ive ever met i wouldnt change a thing about her plus She can succ the soul out of me and does it frequently so i can thank chad for that
>>37619907
Thankfully she isnt being pushy about it but she gets crazy horny when we talk about it. The whole thing feel sureal to me

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>>37618431
>acting incredulous as an argument

>>37619963
Proving the point that you are a pathetic virgin who will die alone.

>>37617913
whose daughter is this? someone please come get her

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>>37620043
>unironically virgin shaming on /r9k/
lol wtf

>>37620043
I would rather die a virgin than become a cuckold and enable a whore.

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>Her
>Lost virginity at 18
>Has had sex with 7 guys including myself
>I know who they all are and have met them in person, though I am not friends with any of them

>Me
>Lost virginity at 20
>Had sex with 3 girls including her, blowjob with a 4th
>She knows who they are, one is her former best friend, and the other one shares a few classes with her and works in the same office together

We've been in an intense, easily the most romantic, relationship either of us has ever had, and we''re just a couple years into it

It's funny, I used to be this cynical, poorly dressed loner with fucked up acne and she used to be an edgy, cringey, weeaboo. Luckily we're both pretty smart and self-improved dramatically just before we met in college -I want from a 5/10 to an 8/10, and she was always an 8/10 or 9/10 but stopped with the obnoxious hair-colors and hot-topic fashion and now acts and dresses like a beautifully grown woman.

We get along so well because we both have a fucked up internet-bred sense of humor and like to smoke pot. We're both pretty funny and have unique talents so we're never not interested in each other.

My first girlfriend was a virgin and it was frustrating and shitty -my current gf, from her past experience, can work my dick like a champion and fuck me 'til the cows come home, she's still incredibly tight too.

After forcing myself to play the field, and enough embarassing fuckups later, I started to form genuine relationships - which to my surprise dispelled all the sex/women-related myths and advice I was informed of from age 14 on via 4chan - myths and clueless assumptions that this site still perpetuates

>>37617913
So she swallows cum like a slut but can't even tan topless?

>>37620203
How do you get over the fact that she had a boyfriend before? Especially if it was long-term?

>>37620203
leave this board

You have been muted for 2 seconds, because your comment was not original

>Find her diary
>Read what she really thinks of you and if you're really the best she's had

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>>37620225
By treating her like no other guy ever has, and by learning to be such a man (though I look cute and boy-ish) that if we were to ever part ways she'd feel like something is missing for the rest of her life.

It's not easy, but a few things that work for me that took a few years of self-assessment and discipline to achieve, such as:
-never letting your emotions get the better of you when she's being a petty child/cunt
-knowing when to be brutally honest and when to hold back your criticisms
-knowing when to put your foot down and standing up for yourself, because most women are insatiably needy and will harp on you for never doing enough even when you're giving it your all
-Being independent and in control of your life helps

People tell me often, girls especially, that I have a way with words - on the flip side I'm absurd, quick-witted, and have no inhibitions when it comes to saying and doing what I want, so I kind of have an unfair advantage with that one. She just says I'm cute and risky, but that's one way of putting it.

Not intentionally trying to inflate my ego-balloon, I could go on and on about all the cool shit I can do and have done, but those are a couple of the broad basics that work for me.

Just to reiterate, I wasted all of my young-love years, age 12 to 19, being an ugly hunchy robot that binged videogames & 4chan and hating everyone because I felt different and didn't know how to own it.

>>37617922
anon...

You have been muted for 32 seconds, because your comment was not original.

>>37620203
>I want from a 5/10 to an 8/10
absolute lol

>>37620437
I feel like I'm sort of like you anon. I hope I can make it too.

>>37620569
The first step is to stop swallowing the 'redpill' bullshit they feed you on this board; the second step is to work on improving yourself.

>>37618090
>Virtually all straight men want a virgin
Not even remotely true.

>>37620594
Yeah I'm improving pretty gradually rn and I know that redpill stuff is bullshit, although it's honestly kind of alluring sometimes.
And recently I've been ghosted by a few women from /soc/, idk if that means anything tho.

>>37619437
>Everyone should aim to be this.
Why?

>>37620622
Yes it is, virginity is a desirable trait to all but a marginal percentage of men. This is actually such common sense I'm surprised you feel the need to disagree with it, are you just being contrary?

>>37620622
Yes. Very true

Unless you're talking about the Hypergamic "alpha" who dedicates his life to fucking slags. Nobody wants to dip their sausage in a frequently used cup of pussy sauce.

No.

Body.

I knew someone who did and he ended up contracting simplex 2 herpes from a bitch. Women diseased as hell when they fuck too much.

>>37618292
Why would you rather have a new pair of briefs than second hand?

>>37620659
Can you cite some kind of research for this? Because it's not my experience at all. If you seriously think this is so obvious one of us must live in a bubble.

>>37620710
What's your experience?

Clubs?

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>>37620710
No, I don't have research to tell me something that's manifestly fucking obvious. Do you honestly find the idea that female virginity is desirable to be contentious? It's basically the entire impetus behind the religious idea of purity in women.

>>37619556
its cum mixed with spit anon

>>37618121
The success rate for first marriages is 70% in the US

>>37620834
>Do you honestly find the idea that female virginity is desirable to be contentious?
Yes. 100% serious here. I've never encountered that kind of attitudes in my real life environment. I'm not American though, so maybe that's the reason.
>It's basically the entire impetus behind the religious idea of purity in women.
Sure, but like other religious ideas, it's been going out of style for the last century and isn't really relevant among educated people in the west.

>>37620926
You're a troll ass nigga

>>37620926
If a man got to choose between two women who were in all ways identical except one took 5 dicks and one was a virgin, he'd choose the latter.
You don't encounter that as an attitude simply because it's no longer considered a realistic expectation as women slut about more than ever.
That does not mean it's not generally considered a desirable trait where it exists. It's still manifest in how men prefer women to have few partners, and women tend to underplay their partner count. Don't tell you haven't noticed this attitude either.

>>37621143
Typical bitter virgin fantasy scenario. You are not going to find girls who are identical except having had 0 or 5 dicks. There is a reason why the girl with 0 dicks has had 0.