i realized today that i have no charisma charisma is just knowing

>charisma is just knowing when and how to lie to people in order to get them to like you better
You seem to have charisma mixed up with sociopathy.
>i tell them flat out if there's a thing i think they are doing is wrong or don't tell them at all if i think it's not constructive.
Maybe you need to practice giving constructive criticism and compliments.

The ladies love getting compliments, Anon. You should practice giving compliments Anonymously until you're good at it.

>>37616806
>charisma is just knowing when and how to lie to people in order to get them to like you better
No, it's legitimately liking yourself enough to visibly express it in order to get them to like you better.

That's why you don't have charisma.

>>37616806
>playing with the cursor keys

who the fuck she think she is?

>>37616935
A woman.

>>37616925
>No, it's legitimately liking yourself enough to visibly express it in order to get them to like you better.
That sounds a lot like narcissism though.

Charisma is some mystical force that you're either born with or not, and people naturally gravitate towards charismatic people. If you don't have charisma then you're shit outta luck, never even had a chance anyways.

>>37617903
You can learn charisma. Case in point: Hitler. He was lonely and unpopular with women in his youth.

well, it's very simple. You just have to level up and give more points to charisma.

>>37616935
i wonder what she has bound as "use"

>>37616880
>You seem to have charisma mixed up with sociopathy.

This. Charisma isn't what you say and do, it's how you say and do it.

OP just has to respec his attributes into charisma

Can an ugly person have charisma?

>>37619475
Of course they can, it's all about being confident. Which is easier said than done.

>>37616806
>ENTP
>light of the room
>more people likes me than hates me
>helped many people during my time in college, and received many thank (you's)
>always read situation to prevent social collapse by intuitively changing topics, making jokes to liven things up, lying sometimes for the sake of relevance or discussing something I know that others who've been left out can relate into to pull them in the zone
>charismatic aura wherever I go
Sometimes being honest isn't the best choice.
The best choice is the best outcome.