I have no comprehension of intimate relationships and I am too scared to start learning
>have immense guilt at every mildly negative thing I say in conversation
>shitty weird disturbing female-incompatible sense of humor I can't help but sperg out
>too scared to talk to any females due to the constant pressure of them analyzing me as a potential partner, running the risk of destroying any possible thing going for them
how does anyone succeed at this game?
i have this with platonic male friends to an extent
with women it's simply game over
>>37575041
agreed, i can't even explain how I have the one friend I do now, it just kind of happened out of nowhere. fuck, he even thought i was a gullible faggot when I first met him.
but there isn't a social stigma to "ask" people to be your friend and a trivial acceptance/denial thing that ruins connections, let alone the complex partial incompatibility between males and females
Start drinking before you talk to girls. Liquor always help robots get laid.
>>37575096
the problem is approaching them, it's such a retarded process. how are you supposed to form a bond with people by walking up like a pretentious cock going through a script just trying to get a number unless there's something physically appealing to her in the first place? it just seems counter-intuitive and silly to suddenly shove yourself in someone else's experience
>>37575096
go for a fembot anon. they are real easy to talk to because of they have even lower self esteem than you do. Get a minimum wage paying job and you'll meet a ton of fembots. Even if you got a normie job, just get a part time job on the side.
>>37575230
having lower self esteem might make it easier for you to talk to someone, but it also makes chad an even easier predator.
>>37575018
if youre not first youre last. so if you aint too old get the job done before it becomes a demon that haunts you forever.
>>37575093
how do you do it anon? i don't know how to mediate time spent with a friend, i don't know what is and isn't off limits for discussion, i have no road map. i don't know how close or intimate to get. i cannot bring myself to ask someone to hang out, it seems like too much of an imposition.