>meet girl on r9k >talk for six months >she ghosts me

I seriously doubt you're the best you can be when almost nobody is at any point of their life.

>>37483344
I'll admit that you're right given your digits and being the first post.

I'm just frustrated that I work hard trying to self actualize and it's still not good enough

>>37483362
It's a process that never ends, making it a habit is what matters. As long as you're making steps there's no reason to feel bad at the end of the day.

As far as people online go, being able to simply disappear is one of the best benefits. You have to mesh a LOT better than you would in-person to keep someone around. Not worth the work in my opinion, aside from the rare times it's effortless.

>>37483328
You rely too much on others to validate yourself. Learn how to be happy when you are alone. Watch some anime, drink some juice, cook some food, anything. Stop focusing on females. They're not going to come to us so it's time to get real and figure out what to do with your time now.

>>37483445
I am happy when I'm alone, the problem is that I'm never alone. How do I feel okay if I'm surrounded by people who remind me I'm not good enough?

>>37483501
By knowing they have no bearing on your progress unless you're letting them drag you down.

There will be a point you have none of that in your ear if that's what you want, because you're making steps toward improvement. They aren't you, so their involvement is as important as you allow it to be.

>>37483328
Name of girl in your picture?

>>37483328
Just think you could have put all that time and effort into a girl you would have had a real chance in fucking

>meet girl on /soc/
>talk for 4 years
>still hasn't ghosted me

what do guys?

>>37483716
>having a real chance at fucking any girl
You overestimate my abilities