What the fuck even is a date? What do people do for dates anymore?

Dinner you dumb fuck

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>romantic dates
>2017
just harass someone and blackmail them until they send nudes jeez

>>37449553
That's what I thought but I was talking to someone about dates and they asked me what I thought dates were and I said going out for dinner and the person rolled their eyes and stopped talking to me and now I'm pissed as fuck

What the fuck are dates

>>37449601
That person is lying to you. However of course you want to pick a great place and pray to God you don't get a Chad waiter who flirts with her. Low chance though because the giybusually pays and he wants a good tip.

A movie is a shit fucking date unless you're literally 14

>>37449523
I would guess something casual like getting coffee. That way if it goes sour no one is obligated to stay. Just drink your coffee and leave.

>>37449675
I like to eat food. If eating food is what constitutes a date, that is good for me. Of course, where the fuck are you that there are waiters? They yell your order and you pick up your doggy bag.

>>37449601
Haha you are roght and you were probabley talking to some vapid cunt who wanted you to say something like "a nice walk on the beach where i take you back to my place for a homemade dinner". Good on you for not giving in, but quit being such a baby

>>37449601

A date can be dinner but not always. Most of the time dinner as a first date is way too formal, you'd want to do something more chill like a casual lunch of going out drinking as a first date.

>>37449712

.....Anon do you think taking someone to a fast food place is a date?

>>37449712
>where the fuck are you that there are waiters?
Wut, you need to pick the most special place you can.

Are you supposed to pay for the date?
I don't want to pay for her. She should pay for what she consumes.

>>37449841

Paying for her is the traditional thing to do but a lot more women are fine paying for their shit now. Makes them think they're empowered or some shit.

>>37449841
>"but hurr durr you're the man you gotta pay hurr durr the man pays at the date"

>>37449841
Yeah if you asked her out wtf

>>37449906

This, whoever asks the other person out pays, but you should ways offer to pay for yourself and only relent if the other person insists

>>37449841
I've been on a few dates and I always ask them to split the bill with me. Hasn't been a problem yet.

>>37449765
Restaurants are the same way. You call up, you order the food, you take the food, you give them money, you sign their papers, then you leave.

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>>37449946
I live in a western european country and when I tell people I know that I'm against paying for dates they look at me like I raped their dog.

>>37449706
This always. That's how I've all my relationships have started

>>37449958
I'm from a European country where the default is everyone paying for their own shit, and you'd still come off like a socially inept asshole here if you said that. It basically gives away that you're one of THOSE guys.

>>37449523
you literally posted a picture of a date
it's just two people having fun together and thinking about how the other person is cute and fuggable

>>37449984

Walking is not a date and if you think it is don't be surprised when she doesn't want to go on anymore dates with you.

>>37449765
my gf likes it and often suggests new places for eating a weird hamburger so yes, I think so. Obviously not every girl is like that.

>>37449523
take em for a walk or something
or back to your place and cook them bacon
just whatever sounds comfy fuck going out for dinner lol

>>37449983
Where are you from if you don't mind me asking?
>one of THOSE guys
What does that mean?
And what are you supposed to do then? Not say shit until comes the time to pay and you surprise her with a "hey let's split the bill"?

>>37449752
>you'd want to do something more chill like a casual lunch
This. A first date should be something you'd be comfortable doing with a friend. It's about feeling a person out and finding out what they're into, so that the second date can be more tailored.

meeting up for coffee and having a chat
but really dating includes a very broad range of things from the formal date to just hanging out together. whatever involves yall being together to discover if yall are interested in each other or not.

>>37449523
All of my dates have involved going out for a meal and/or walking around and talking about random shit. It doesn't need to be a fancy meal, I've had no issues with something cheap and simple because most of the time the girl is too

I don't think people go on dates at all, people just go to each others house and then look at their phones while ignoring each other

>>37449523
Paying for the cost of going out to uncomfortable social places, talking just for the shake of taking and attempted chance of getting into her pants. I find it stupid.

>>37450052
One of those guys who ask far too much shit from a woman, explain all their interpersonal rules, talk about politics and religion, constantly evaluate their date to see if she's worth paying for another date or not, and are looking for a mother to their seed instead of a person to have fun with.
Whether you feel that is the case or not, this kind of person is seen by women as completely detestable.

>>37450052
>Where are you from if you don't mind me asking?
Finland.
>>one of THOSE guys
>What does that mean?
It means you have a lot of shit to learn and it's obvious to people who are further along at growing into decent mature socially skilled individuals and that they may find association with you tedious or even a liability because you don't understand the rules.
>And what are you supposed to do then? Not say shit until comes the time to pay and you surprise her with a "hey let's split the bill"?
If I was a dude dating in a country where the custom is ambiguous I'd just be prepared to pay every time and wait for her to ask for separate checks, then not suggest a second date if she doesn't.

>>37450195
Just to clarify, while "that guy" and a normal guy might both pay evenly, "that guy" will be on the defensive, ask the woman to pay beforehand, or show visible relief when she pays, thus revealing he really cared about this fact (which is seen as petty).
A normal guy would just say "oh you're paying? that's cool" and move on to fun topics.

>>37450195
>and are looking for a mother to their seed instead of a person to have fun with.
god forbid

>>37450195
lol no. That's not what I mean by THOSE guys, and you're one of THOSE guys, too. Although you are correct that
>constantly evaluate their date
does make for a shitty date, and also probably for a detestable person.

>>37450248
Don't throw shit at me, I'm a bystander who decided to try to explain (since you obviously wouldn't).

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>>37450195
So if a guy does what all women do he's THAT guy?

wew....it really made me think

>>37449873
If she makes a fuss about splitting the bill she's not someone worth dating

>>37450347

Money's important, fucko, especially if you're on some pity date to try and convince the local autist that you're not actually compatible for each other

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>>37449523
LE NETBLIX AND FUCK

I honestly don't know. I'd take a woman to Burger King so that I don't break my bank over a roastie.

>>37449601
I like bowling

>>37449523
Netflix and chill LMAO
Girls want to go out but hate going out its a big mind fuck
Just pick what to do, make it meticulous, and you win
Girls just want you to take control and be hoit lmamamamaooooo

>>37451450

Congrats, the only more autistic sport is fucking billiards

>>37449523
Don't go to a movie or something dumb like that. Take her to a state/national park with a nice view and enjoy nature with her. Less distractions when there's no people and no wifi

>>37451567

If your first date idea sounds like a plan to murder someone, you should probably not being dating

>>37451555
bowling is cool. you however

>>37451884
How many girls have you convinced to go bowling?

>>37449576
>tfw no porn of rich prostitute judy neutron begging for your cock

i went to lunch at a cafe with a girl, it was nice

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>>37449523
Take her out for a picnic OP. That's usually a good first date

Hookup culture has ruined the concept of the date. It used to be you'd go hang out or have dinner or something and get to know each other. Now you just go fuck and move on the next morning. There's no intimacy or emotion in it at all.

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>>37452125

Who the fuck is this orange haired bitch

Did everyone just agree she's the sad frog gf design

>tfw a racist green Manlet can get a girl but you can't

>>37452129
The dates are still there if you want them. The only difference is that now people who actually do just want to fuck do that without having to waste the time of people who want to go on dates. Just be open about what you want from the get go and it'll turn out fine.

>>37452156
shes actually a girl(male)

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>>37452304

Are you fucking kidding me m8

>>37452203

The problem there is that there are no women left who want to date. They just want to fuck as many Chads as possible as quickly as possible. They don't have the desire to waste time dating when there are plenty of Chads out there waiting to roast them up.

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>>37449523
Depends on how much you like them and how many dates you have gone on.

Usually it was the boring diner for coffee, etc. This new guy I've been seeing actually puts effort. We went mini golfing twice, bowling, paint night, escape room puzzle, fucked a bunch of times, went to a comedy club, watched the sun set on a lake, and tomorrow we're going to a fair. He also invited me to his fire station's installation dinner, we rented a hotel room and stayed the night. Goodnight/good morning sex is amazing.

Our first date was Valentine's Day, we got crepes. Even though I'm the girl we take turns paying,

>>37452508
> dating an adventurous, interesting, fireman Chad
I hope you realize he's fucking like a dozen Stacies on the side. You're disgusting roastie meatflaps will never be good enough to keep him to yourself.

>>37452382
What? Yes there are. Most women mostly date. Even those who do hookups date far more often than they have casual sex with men they don't know well.

>>37452585
I don't care, we're not in a relationship yet.

Besides I doubt he'd spend this much money for other girls.

a "date" is just two people meeting up at a certain time and a place in hopes of finding out that they like the other person in a romantic sense. There is no real definition. If you're both autistic a date might be you and a girl sitting on a couch with your smartphones out making smalltalk.

>>37452812
>If you're both autistic a date might be you and a girl sitting on a couch with your smartphones out making smalltalk.

Considering this is 90% of what normies call dates, not sure where you get off thinking it's autistic

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I had the weirdest date recently
>match with grill on tinder
>she wants to play video games and eat pizza
>go to her place
>give her a hug since /r9k/ told me to
>order pizza
>play video games and chit chat
>pizza arrives
>eat pizza, play video games
>she wants to watch a movie
>watch a movie and make chit chat
>she walks with me to the bus stop
>chit chat while waiting for my bus
I'm fairly sure she was on the spectrum tb.h. and in hindsight she might have wanted for me to make some moves on her (or not, who knows). Texted her a day after the date and tried to set up a second one. She said she was busy on the weekend.

Weird shit, but I don't care since Its not like I get overly attached to people or anything.

>>37452382
yeah, I would wish it was like that

>>37453034
>tinder match
>didn't fuck

Are you fucking retarded?

Tinder is for bootycalls, not dates, you fucking autist

>>37449523
Chad doesn't do dates and you can only ever get them if you are a literal 9/10 or more Chad, ever seen an girl with an ugly bf? thought not the game is FUCKING rigged from the start this is not a hard concept to learn and you need to grow a fucking brain if you do not fucking understand just how simple this concept is, I know it is bullshit but honestly what the fuck can we even do at this point we have gone too far and now not even some Chads can get gfs due to betas putting pussy on such a pedestal this is truly despicable of women, you do not need them

>>37453034
it seems like you spaghettied all over a bit.if you wanted something serious than consider it a test that came back as negative... i think she wanted a hookup... if thats what you want too, than just go for it next time - if a girl invites you up to her apartment for watching tv or anything like that, than thats usually your sign

>>37453198
>If a girl invites you up to her apartment for watching tv or anything like that, than thats usually your sign

This is how rape happens, people telling others what "the sign" is

>>37449601
Man just ask her to go for a walk with you somewhere. Somewhere thats nice. Later you can maybe sit in a nice comfy park or something and chat some more. Maybe even a bit of cuddling and kissing.
Or you can go to the zoo or some shit. This is for normal girls, which are rare nowadays. And for girls who are interested in more than just getting fucked in the ass.
Dont ask her out to the movies on your first date, because you wont be talking much. Somewhere where you guys can converse in peace and quiet is perfect.
My girlfrined asked ME to go for a walk with her as our first "date" (first time getting together outside of college). I asked her to go out with me and she proposed a walk. We were walking for 3hours after which we went to a park and we talked and sat there with her legs in my lap as i caressed her and it was really comfy and nice.

>>37453198
Her place was full of video game accessories, anime plushies etc. and she said it was her first tinder date. She seemed to be quite autistic. Its not like I can turn back time, it was nice enough for a KV to have a girl hang out with me. I guess putting my arm around her shoulder during the movie couldn't have hurt

>>37453257

>legs in lap
>on the first date

She's a slut

>>37453214
no-no-no, idiot. I didn't say force your cock inside her. Move your head an inch closer to her fucking head and if she leans away, say sorry, it was an honest mistake, and thats it.

>>37453329

Remember, you're talking to literal autists, people who have been medically diagnosed with autism

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>>37449523
Really depends on the girl.

When something is a date is also vauge. Usually anything where its just the two of you.
This is also why some people will bring a third wheel, to remove the 'date' feel a bit.

I've had times where I went to a guys house just to play some Civ, and he intepreted it as a date, while I didn't.
I felt bad afterwards so I gave him a proper chance.

Usually the goal of a date is getting to know someone better, yet some people still insist on doing stuff where you don't talk together (Like the movies).

If you want to date someone, you can usually estimate what they want to do.
For me a good date is honestly just frozen pizza, and watching eachothers favorite movies till we pass out.
But some girls will say that's not a proper date.

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Fucking reply to my post you cucks my post was this
>>37453183

by the fucking way

The person above this post is a really pathetic person

>>37453183
Very redpillled bruhh

>>37453511

What the fuck you want me to say?

The fact that I've seen countless couples where the man was not a chad disproves your theory

>>37453552
You are obviously lying because you are a in denial normie scum

>>37453562
Your father is a chad?

>>37449752
Yeah - coffe, walk, or a lunch.

Dinners can be for second dates. Like it or not, some girls expect you to pay, and you don't want to splurge on a first date dinner and then sit awkwardly and stare into your food as you realize you have nothing in common.

As for "when is it OK to ask someone out", as soon as fucking possible. If you think someone looks good, or you want to fuck them, or you get the butterflies - just ask them out.

Very few people in relationships I know about waited a long time. For a girl, it has to go fast. It sucks but it's the way of the world. They think a 1 month relationship is "a long time". I can go 1 month just mulling over if I should ask someone out or not.

>>37453562
yeah, i don't know what are you talking about either. i will say this simply, so you understand: there are many kind of males on this planet: good, bad, ugly, handsome, fat, skinny, buffed, smart, dumb, rich, poor, etc... most of them DO find a girlfriend, some find 20-30, some just one.

sadly some men can not. and they separate themselves from the others and from that far away everyone looks the same. like disguisting little ants who don't know anything.

>>37453685

>most

Let's not overestimate humans, my dude

>>37453903
what do you mean? if what you are saying would be true, the human race would have already been extinct.

>>37453511
STOP GIVING ME FALSE (you)'S YOU FUCKING NIGGER!

>>37454164
In nature most animals of a pack only breed with alpha male.
Humans are tribe animals and did (do this)
Animals are not extinct
Humans are not extinct

hmmmmm

>>37454230
let me explain. pussy is not a finite source. just because Tom smashed a lot, doesn't mean there is nothing left for you. grow up

and humans are NOT doing this. sadly. monogamy is one of the common human traits that is found in every human culture in some form.

>>37451520
lammamamamamaoooooooooooo

>>37454300
>Just be a cuck bro and take used goods xd
>It's only as bad as putting your dick in a once tight now loose tube that had plenty of other dicks in it

>>37454328
whaaat? are you for real dude? :D you are going for virgins? well, let me rephrase than everything i said... yeah, if you have expectations like that, than thats going to be hard. i mean you basically looking for girls that never had a semi-serious relationship. thats rare over the legal age.

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>>37452312
To make things a bit clearer; an artist bassed the gf on a creepy Japanese mascot with a boner.

>>37454499
>bassed
DOUBLE DUBS WASTED
FORGIVE MEEEEEE

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>>37454499

>tfw so fucking deprived of human touch that I'm not sure I'd automatically turn away a girl (male) if she came onto me

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>>37454694
To be fair, this one looks like a catch. The only drawback is boypuss.

>>37454849
NO WHAT IS SHE DOING TO PEPE

>>37454887
Corrupting him with degeneracy

>>37454887
loving and taking care of him

>>37449601
starbucks or movie

>>37449523
A date (when its just getting to know someone) is getting tea or coffee where I'm from

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Are we posting pepe's cute gf?

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>>37455102
maybe
a very oriigiiiiinal maaaaaaaaybe

>>37449523

>dates

lol what fucking year do you think this is? there is no such thing as "dates" anymore, it literally all hookup culture. Taking girls to movies, shops, dinner just makes you look like a provider.

This best you're gonna get in 2017 is meeting up to hang out in some mutual place, likely around other people. any romantic formality has been cast away and buried under a metric fuckton of hookup apps(tinder) and social climates that perpetrate perpetual narcissism(instagram, facebook etc).

Any idiot that tries to tries to take some girl on a traditional date is instantly putting themselves for failure and looking like a faggot. If you're not immediately letting the girl know your intentions of fucking her you're just setting yourself up to get burned and hurt.

Romance is dead, dating is dead, even fucking breakups are dead, people just move on to the next person. Forget what you think you know, it's a game of who loves least nowadays.

>>37455353
Nice my dude

Need more

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>>37455746
very originally posting an image as a reply

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>>37455746
another super original reply with an image of frogs

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>>37455746
another original reply with an image of the same frogs, but one is scared shitless this time

does starbucks count?

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>>37455746
more original replying
but with FROGS

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>>37455746
okay, this is everything i have. originally

guys please tell me, does starbucks count as a date? :(

>>37456110
some places count getting coffee as a date
that's a reason why it was used as a euphemism for sex in the past

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>>37449523
>dates
Do you even /his/ nigguh?

>>37453183
>ever seen a girl with an ugly bf?

Yes. Many times. It's what I live for.

>>37450004
Situational really, best examples are among the 3%, the rest is pretty much shit.

>>37449576
Is that the episode where Jimmy's parents had sex?

>>37456188
Do people even say that anymore?
What's the modern equivalent to 'getting coffee'?

>>37457443

Netflix and chill nigga you live under a rock?

>>37457552
under a tree, actually.
it's a tall one

>>37457368

>the 3%

Fucking what?

>>37457433
No thats the episode where he time travelled to the past to convince his dad to lend money to a friend for a business idea

>>37457665

Get out of it and go Netflix and chill senpai

I don't even get the point of dates. Just befriend, talk a bit, play a game, then fuck if you find each other hot. None of this spending money bullshit that no one likes and ends up costing everyone fuck loads.