>women interested in me because of my looks
>once they get to know me they realize (my looks =/= my personality)
>they lose interest
Does this happen to anyone else?
This is why I don't approach girls. Because I know I won't meet their qualifications and they'll drop me like a sack of potatoes.
Pic related, what I want to do at this point
>>37337299
B-But looks are everything! Creepy is just a buzzword for ugly!
>>37337331
Trust me my friend, personality does matter. Looks only get your foot in the door.
>>37337370
I know. I was just making fun of some retard here that actually tried to tell me "creepy" is just a buzzword for attractiveness.
I'm shallow enough that I hope he reads this post and I hope he realizes what a fucking retard he is.
>>37337299
describe your personality
>>37337410
Hopefully he sees this as well.
>>37337299
That happens to me too. I go to Omegle and Chatroulette to try and build up some kind of "game" or whatever you wanna call it, but I can't hold a conversation whatever I try.
>>37337480
I get nervous around new people so I think it's the nervousness and awkwardness that turns them off. I don't blame them. My female "friends" even tell me I'm weird and don't take me seriously. Another reason I don't talk to people.
I asked a girl out to lunch, I haven't seen in forever, she ghosted on me. Happens often.
I just don't wanna be on this earth to be honest. I'm having a consultation with my university counselor on Tuesday. Hopefully I'll see results. I won't take this failure lying down.
>>37337537
I can't either. I want to work on my irl game though.
>>37337299
Literally me senpai. I have even had them say that I looked chill but wasn't. Guess they were expecting more of a bad boy and I just wasn't exciting enough.
>>37338054
It takes time for me to "warm up" and be myself. Do you have anxiety?
>>37337299
Yea, me. I'm attractive. Girls constantly approach me in clubs and start grinding on me, always crushing on me when they first meet me, but I have an extremely boring personality. Most of the time I just state into space and give one word answers to people. I have no real interests and basically no ego. Any criticisms or compliments don't affect me at all. I basically have no desire for a relationship and am content with just masturbating, but apparently this isn't okay. Family and friends always try to push me to find a girlfriend but I just don't care. How can I honestly subject another person to being with me when I'm indifferent to myself. I could fake and get laid I guess but I just don't have the energy. I don't really enjoy life actually.