how does a fembot meet guys in real life? i mean for a good long-term

>>37274396
look cute in the library or coffee shoppe

>>37274416
does this actually work? in libraries everyone is quiet, and in coffee shops people seem too busy

maybe im just not cute enough

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Translation: how do I hook my claws into a beta schlub while I cuckold him with Chad behind his back

Nice try roastie.

>>37274396
Coffee shops, Maybe bars???, library, Museums, uhhh can't think of anywhere else since you're only looking for irl and not online local

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>>37274396
I'VE NEVER APPROACHED A WOMAN IN REAL LIFE WHY ARE YOU ASKING ME

Or just walk up to a guy and say hi

>>37274455
do guys even use online dating for more than hookups nw

>>37274396
Become a cosplayer
Become and instagram model
Become anything where you're advertising yourself to a mostly male audience.

How do you need help with this? Either you're the stupidest roastie or a good LARPer

>>37274485
i dont have interest in any o those things though...

>>37274475
The guys that can get girls use it for hookups, but there are tons of hopeless romantics there too

>>37274475
Most guys are looking for a short-term or something to dick online. There are the minority that do look for long term.
If you do try online ask them questions that suggest towards long term dating.

>>37274506
>anything where you're advertising yourself to a mostly male audience
There has to be something right?

>>37274396
hell if i know how to start things with other people. When I go out in public I keep to myself or the people who went out in public with me. I meet new people by sending them messages on the internet.

If you get past stage one and have a guy in your sights, then be honest about what you want and what you expect. Give clear positive feedback on the things he does that you like. Don't try too hard to change him and don't be afraid of dumping him just because you want a relationship. Also, wait six months before letting him pull his penis out in front of you and be clear that it's your rule.

>>37274530
no, what you're suggesting sounds degenerate

>>37274550
it is degenerate, and it's offputting to guys who want a good woman and a cozy, private life.

>>37274550
Judging by that response I hope what I suggested works out.
>>37274523
>>37274455

>>37274396
Ok but how big is your dick?

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I've never understood these "how do I look for people" threads. Doesn't whatever you do on a daily basis put you in contact with people anyway? College, work, etc.?

>>37274550
You don't have to slut yourself out, just join some male-dominated interest group and don't make it a secret that you're available

>>37274396
They're fucking everywhere retard just ask one.

>>37274684
but do they want relationships?

>>37274649
Everyone at my office is a male like me, and I work long hours, so no.

I work weekends at my family farm most of the time, and the general public stops by all the time to check the place out and buy stuff, but I feel weird hitting on cute girls who drive to my property to do their shopping. If I come off as creepy then it might mess up the 5.0 average rating on google.

>>37274649
unlike >>37274707 i only seem to be surrounded by girls or guys with girlfriends

>>37274396
The same way any other female does. OKC did good for me.

>>37274707
Your father wants grandchildren more than a perfect review score lmao

>>37274649
The people I interact with I have buisiness relationships with and It would be inappropriate to make advances to them

Of course the main problem is that they probably don't like me in the first place

>>37274694
Some of them do yeah.

How should a creepy autist approach girls? I look much better in person than in pictures so tinder isn't an option. But I'm too autistic to talk to people right or hold a conversation.

>>37274733
My father has grandchildren because my sister is married to a nice pollack. Plus, I'm only 24 so I have lots of time to mate, and if the farm does well through my gradual inheritance of the responsibility of running it, then I will easily be able to find a nice woman.

>>37274744
only dumbfucks try to hook up with coworkers
never shit where you eat

>>37274416
^ This, Chad's and normies will try to hit on cute / hot women anywhere they can

>>37274890
how many chads does a girl have to fuck before one sticks around?

>>37274396
Are you a fembot? I need a new gf and I've grown out of my fuccboi phase and want a real gf

>>37274908
Depends on how cute/nice you are

>>37274396
Look pretty and go places. Just don't fidget or talk yourself thats weird and scares people off. Any public place will do and guys will eventually hit on you. Don't use dating sites or apps. Most people are looking for fucks and those that aren't had to resort to a dating site for a reason.
If you're asking what i personally do i pick from this quarters crop of interns as chances are i'll never see them again or that they'll never be above me and fuck with the power dynamic.

Become a right-wing youtuber and find a fan that lives near you

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nj0b3d06pok&

>>37274908
They don't, why would they stick around?
Let's assume that 90% of the opposite sex will moisten their panties at the mere sight of you and want to fuck you, now what would it take for you to become monogamous and settle down?
I don't see any real reason for them to want to settle down with anyone until they are really old and even then they will probably date someone much younger than them
Sexual liberation actually fucked over anyone wanting to settle down with Chad, sure everyone gets a piece of Chad but in the end no one bags the hottie until he is way past his prime

Your best bet is to look for normies and give them a flirty smile or something and watch them gather their courage to come talk to you, after that all you need to do is laugh at every shitty joke they make and smile a lot

Fembots, are you even trying

>>37274981
what if this doesn't work

>>37274947
nah

>>37274908
Well, how long is a piece of string?

>>37275021
a good way to meet people is through people you know. If you have girlfriends or coworkers, casually ask them to keep an eye out for guys with whom you would get along.

how fucking retarded are you? it is NOT hard to be a woman. just doll up, get on online dating, and if you become super desperate then approach a guy in public (they wont find it weird if they are single).. then pick your best option and feel it out with your cunt-fish feeling super-powers. if it feels right go with it. if not, on to the next best-fit douche bag.

>>37275021
Wait i'm lost.

Are you a fembot looking for a guy, a fembot looking for a girl, or a guy looking for a guy? There seems to be a few different people crossing wires and conversations here.

Start a programming thread

>>37275085
she's saying nah to >>37274947 in particular

>>37275073
Dating sites suck. You'll only ever get hookup types or those that had to resort to dating sites.

>>37275106
>she's
This isn't helping.
I'm trying to figure out who they're hunting.
Because if op's a chick guys will come to her under the right circumstances but if op's hunting the same sex they usually follow different dynamics and you'll have to go to them.

>>37275139
reading comprehension bruh
>how does a fembot meet guys in real life

OP is a girl, and she's not looking for a 4chan boyfriend.

>>37275111
that's bullshit. if you use tindr then sure, it's a hookup type. if you use other platforms then it's less hookup oriented. dating sites are a way to meet other eligible interested people. shutting that option out is going to limit your chances significantly. gotta go through the no's to get to the yes'es

>>37275180
I'm tired and ESL cut me some slack. There was someone talking about hitting up chicks at a farm so i got confused.
>>37275021
Anyway, if its not working try doing something different with yourself. Maybe you need a different makeup setup or outfit or haircut etc. basically try on different styles until you find one that makes you cuter than the others or gets you more attention.

>>37275222
Trust me i've tried. You only ever find guys who want hookups but will say they don't or guys who had to resort to dating sites to get a date.

>>37275265
>guys who had to resort to dating sites to get a date.

>Says the fembot who can't get a date IRL

>>37274396
First online then meet up in person.

>>37275286
I'm not that fembot who can't get a date i've just tried dating sites to, well, try dating sites.

>>37274506
If you want to meet me then go to the Ralph's in corona, ca on sundays since that's when I do my groceries and we might bump into each other. You'll know it's me cuz of the duster

>>37274396
Long term stuff? Honestly in a video game, at grocery store, at a activity like fishing on a boat or paintballing where its mostly men and its social. Sports events/bars are awful cause chances are they are drunk and just wanna get laid.

>>37274475
I use it to look for relationships, and generally steer conversations with my matches toward dates, but would not be averse to a hookup if a girl was forward about it. I imagine this is how many guys use it.

>>37274649
>tfw telecommute

>>37274396
I have no idea. Personally, I live in a terrible place, even the most beta guys are insanely normies and want above average gfs, have zero personality, and are degenerated. I'm a neet so the only places I could and tried to meet guys my age were online dating websites. I messaged two or three chubby nerds and even them have already had gfs and casual sex. I gave up on online dating after two days and that's pretty much it.

>>37275908
What sites were you trying that had chubby men looking for casual sex?

>>37275908
Where you from anon? Any luck since

>>37275908
is a guy having had past sexual experience a dealbreaker for you?

>>37275933
They weren't looking for casual sex, but they had already had some and I'm not interested in dating menwhores.

I was on okcupid and on a website called tastebuds.

>>37275908
this is my experience too. they all want 7+/10 gfs

>>37275962
From hell on Earth
>>37275970
Yeah
>>37275976
Exactly, also robots are the same way

>>37275971
Ohhhh okay, I thought you were talking about them wanting to fuck only.
Might want to save up and move somewhere else if that's the case.

>>37275976
>>37275997
You both feel like you're less than 7/10?

>>37275997
I'm from there dude wanna go get icecream next week?

>>37274396
That picture isn't very Christian, OP, I am disappointed :l

>>37276020
I'm a neet and struggling with anxiety to go back to college, which I'll do next year. If I graduate and get decent job I definitely will.

>>37276026
I know I am less than 7/10 and I have no problem with that but it bothers me when I realize my personality doesn't matter to them

>>37276030
Sure, it's pretty hot here

>>37276026
yes im average, like a 5. unlike >>37276103 not a neet though. i'm a normie.

>>37276103
I wish you the best of luck on college.
What degree are you going for?

>>37276126
Hopefully finish biomedical engineering w/ minors on neuroscience

>>37276103
Describe personality?
>>37276119
A 5 is just fine. Especially as a normie.

>>37276119
I'd enthusiastically date a 5 if i thought she was interesting or really sweet or easy for me to talk to. I think lots of dudes would too, so best of luck finding your dude.

>>37276148
Oooooo, you're definitely going to get it.

just remember to keep on no matter how tough it gets.

>>37276148
It's probable that your personality isn't good enough either.

>>37276103
Great I'll pick you up at the Burning City of Dis at 2 on Monday.

>>37276119
"on average I'm like a five"
Don't be degrading yourself faggot

>>37276150
I'm very shy but as I get to know people better I like to joke often and show them I care about them, I'm quiet, conservative, polite.

>>37276174
I hope so. I had to quit because I couldn't stand living with people I didn't know much and dealing with strangers all the time.

>>37276190
According to normie standards my personality sucks, I'm aware of that.

>>37276235
Sure m8

>>37276304
>I'm very shy but as I get to know people better I like to joke often and show them I care about them, I'm quiet, conservative, polite.
>According to normie standards my personality sucks

>tfw normies actually dislike that
>tfw normies dislike me

>>37276358
They do.
>show them I care about them
They see that as clingy
>quiet
aka weird
>conservative
not an easy fuck

>>37276385
Why the hell do they think that way?
It doesn't make sense

>>37276304
>I'm quiet, conservative, polite.
where do i find women like this that are into spergs?

>>37276385
Sounds like somebody just needs to put the time in with you. You sound like a nice pleasant person.

>>37276385
Well, I'm talking about the normies I've talked to from the place I live in.

>>37276420
Are they all druggies or what

>>37276403
I was on tastebuds and okcupid, maybe you could find similar girls there, who knows.

>>37276415
it's really hard to find good people nowadays though

>>37276442
sort of

>>37276470
maybe if you didn't have a prejudice against non-virgins, you'd have more options. The older you get, the more pathological the virgins in your dating age range get.

>>37276470
The place you live sounds terrible.
Now I'm really pushing all of my hopes on you for that degree.

>>37276470
Would you be willing to add an anon on dcord or exchange emails?

>>37276470
>>37276513
Actually yeah, why are you against guys who have had some experience

>>37274396
fuck off hazel

>>37276575
Because they're normalfags shitting up our board

>>37276513
I'm not that old. I could deal with a non virgin guy who only had sex in a committed relationship but casual sex is the real deal breaker

>>37276518
kek thanks dude, I hope I'll be able to deal with my anxiety better this time

>>37276528
I guess. Give me yours.

>>37276575
I'm against degeneracy in general for multiple reasons, but as I said here I'd be ok with non virgin who had sex with a gf. But I prefer a khhv guy because I'm khhv and I'd like to share first experiences with someone. Would be special and romantic.

>>37276620
hazel, seriously fuck off

>>37276626
I'm not hazel.

>>37276620
My email femanon
[email protected]

>>37276613
Chuckled.
>>37276620
If you find someone who has already had sex with an ex-gf, just make sure they see the significance and "special" in taking your v card

>>37276620
>I could deal with a non virgin guy who only had sex in a committed relationship but casual sex is the real deal breaker
This is how you know the thread is a full of shit LARP. Women are instinctively repulsed by virgins. This faggot is just trying to push the "waaaaah robots look how hypocritical you are" angle.

I'm only into fat girls. /r9k/ how do I find a fat fembot gf to play warhammer with?

>>37276815
Local model store probably runs tabletop games go crash them.

Then pick a girl and feed her pizza and icecream.

>>37276703
yeah I know, but I hope I will just find someone as inexperienced as I am
>>37276772
I'm not going to try to convince you I'm a girl but many women aren't repulsed by virgins desu that's a bit of a meme

>>37276815
Unironically post in the ideal gf/bf threads. It can't take that long. Have discord handy

>>37276470
where the fuck are the girls with a drop of self awareness on those sites
I'm down with 5/10's but literally everyone is a fucking normie.

>>37276833
I'm done that and found actual great girls (without dicks) that find me attractive and I enjoy talking too but I always get ghosted for being a turbo autist.

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>>37274426
be my ugly gf pls pls pls i'll pay you

>>37276703
>Chuckled.
Fuck off normalfag

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>>37274908
>Chad
>sticking around

>>37276931
Seems like you're partway there tho

>>37277007
I can't even blame my appearance or lifestyle choices it's 100% my personality.
I will fall in love with them with them in less than a week and can't stop thinking about them.
I can't even masturbate to any other girl.
Then I start becoming super clingy and putting them on a pedestal and everything goes to shit.

I've never heard anyone say this but Oneitis is one of the most unattractive traits a man can have from my experience.

>>37277161
So I know this seems like it would be difficult, but can you not actively think about restricting yourself from being clingy? You don't even need to convince yourself in your head, just put a censor on. Gradually decreased censor as time/relationship progresses.
But tf do I know, I'm here too. I just have different issues

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>I also have a question.

If I'm not attractive, how can I get attention from men? Not fuckbois. Men that want a serious relationship.

>>37277213
Well, I'll give you attention.
I want a serious relationship and I don't care what you look like AT ALL.

>>37277213
Have a (You) for some attention

>>37277213
Just be friendly and have common interests.

>>37277213
Make yourself noticeable. Aka: let him know you're interested on him

>>37277213
Fuckboys only exist if you're a slut.

>>37275265
Girls can easily find a guy to hook up with, but it's harder to find someone that wants a relationship. This applies to both online and irl. Guys are just scared of getting gfs and getting cucked thanks to slutty stacies

>>37277329
People in general are afraid of LTR because some partners have an extreme lack of maturity or spine, and cant even decide for themselves, nevertheless to have backbone or the balls to take responsability and say they want to leave. Instead they make more stupidity.

>>37277207
I fucked it up with a perfect fembot and told myself I would just keep it chill but then I met an even more perfect fembot and did the same exact shit but even more intense because I bottled it up.

What are your issues btw? I'm curious to see what other people's hangups are.

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everything about me screams RED FLAG.
Also I am quite ugly to my country standarts. I feel like my only chance of having a man at least looking at me would be becoming a cum dumpster. But now I am too old for that too.

I hope I get room enough for my future 30 cats.

>>37277382
Not sure where to take it from there. Maybe like some sort of outlet that doesn't get to the girl. Like draw something about how you're feeling but don't show it/send it. Kinda faggy but maybe it would help.
I get fucked over by mood swings (not sure what to call it). I'm a little autistic spectrum when it comes to being doing something I want to be doing and somebody asks for my attention. I flip out and it causes fights. It's just that I can't do anything without uninterrupted focus and that is hard to get

>>37276575
for the same reason why guys prefer virgins.
no STDs, sharing that first experience together, and they are likely to be more loyal.
i dont understand why r9k thinks this only applies to female virgins, i personally find nonvirgins less appealing and kinda gross

>>37277421
Come on dont say that, how old are u? I'm 27

>>37277473
I fully understand it being a _preference_, but full-out excluding somebody who might have had someone but it all fell apart is just limiting your options unreasonably.
Given 2 identical people one with virginity the other not, I'd pick the pure girl. But real-world pickings are slim so idk why I'd limit myself.

>>37274649
>Doesn't whatever you do on a daily basis put you in contact with people anyway? College, work, etc.?
Only with other socially awkward men basically.

Some of them make for decent conversation but it's hard to meet women, and it's not like I'll meet any women through them. Been thinking of picking up hobbies that I'm not really into just to increase my opportunities.

>>37277421
Which country fem anon? What would you say the average /10 is there?

>>37274908
They dont chads are huge manwhores and they have a sex addiction problem. Good luck not getting cheated on and replaced after he is done toying with you.

>>37277465
I wrote this girl a 2 piece sonata, an indie folk song, and an emocore ballad to try to blow off some feels but I still ended up writing her a 2 paragraph essay about why she is the most perfect girl I've ever met and how I wanted to hug her and never let go. This was all in the span of 3 days. I'm just too intense of a person and never run out of energy.

I totally understand except I just won't communicate rather than getting angry. I won't leave my room, sleep, or eat for 2 days to focus on a project.

I think I just need to learn to chill.

>>37277623
Your powerlevel scared her

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>>37277623
t-this is s-so sweet....
>tfw no sweet obsessive bf

>>37277623
>>37277669
Connect!
>>37277623
Just keep focusing on that "learn to chill". That is a crazy amount of energy though man. Do you have hobbies you could divert some of that energy to?

>>37277572
This is so stupid. It's not only Chad, I had a chubby normie bf once and he still cheated on me. I think Chad would make a better bf because he knows what girls want and how to keep them happy. He wouldn't be loyal to ugly girls but to Stacy, yes. Girls don't want him just for looks. He knows what he's doing.

>>37277697
this connect pls

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>>37277520
Im 27 too.
>>37277562
At least in my "social circle" (university) pic related is 7/10 and how most girls tend to look.
And I look like a potato and have no money to fix my endless flaws.

>>37277623
I did this with the girl I loved.

Sadly I found out she cheated on me and after that happened it turns out she went into severe depression.

>>37277779
THATS a 7/10? Looks more like a 4/10. I don't know if it's just me but she's not very attractive.
Post your photo and we can help you, sometimes all you need is a better haircut, bit of makeup and change in wardrobe. You can blur your eyes. Also 27 is not old, it is not young either but I wouldn't stop looking until you're 32.

>>37277779
you're brazilian
pls add me somewhere I'm a girl too

>>37277812
Oh my god. Anon, just thinking about that is making me want to break down. I'm so sorry.

>>37277726
Well just avoid men with a sex addiction problem and men who lack empathy for you. If you want to avoid getting cheated on.

>>37277844
>don't know if it's just me but she's not very attractive.
It's just you.

>>37277779
>>37277844
I agree with this anon. I'm sure that with a minor amount of touch up you would be comparable. Share whatever you're comfortable with.
Don't mistake the photo of that other girl you posted. She is a 4/10 as the other anon said. A little makeup does magic

>>37277871
really? cool! pls pass some contact, can be e-mail, discord, anything.
Lets be friends!

>>37277916
It's fine. I went into shock which caused me to numb my feelings.
She tried to continue to be my friend but every her and I talked it hurt my heart so I had to cut it with her.

>>37278015
every time her and I*
God damn I need to proofread what I type

>>37277779
Only thing I see wrong in this is the blue eye shadow.
I think brown, black, anything really dark and not too vibrant would make pic related a 8/10

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also people saying this girl is a 4/10.

Well then I should use a burqa or something. That explains a lot actually. I thought I was ugly, but it happens that Im probably a Chernobyl leftover.
Thanks everyone.

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>>37277669
>>37277697
so sweet has become the number one red flag to me that a women is following their heart and not using their head

also I'm wishing with all my heart that the girl in the text will come back to me and I would just be using her to fill the void

I know she's never coming back but that it still isn't right

>>37278093
Just because she looked ugly doesn't mean you are. She looks better here. It was mostly her makeup that was poorly done. Here she is a 6/10 imo.

Cheer up femanon, I'm sure you're qt.

>>37278062
just emailed you friend!

origri

>>37278145
Curious that you are red flagging
>>37277669
Despite the appearance that you're following your own so much.
Your honesty is good though.

>>37278203
>>37278145
Red flagging following her heart*

>>37278015
I know this feel far too well.
I just to finish these songs and send it to her for some sense of closure

>>37278230
Were those texts this may 20th?

>>37278203
It's more of a red flag to my red flag.
For an average person it probably is a good thing.

>>37278093
people here spend a lot of time online and not outside so they see a lot of models, actresses, pornstars, etc. and they forget what most people look like.

>>37278280
Yes it was.
Why do you ask?

>>37278524
I was just asking.

Damn, so you're at the early stages my man.
Not going to lie to you. It sorta gets better over time but it lingers.

>>37277213

How about going for what you want? Jeez roastie. You only live once and you're young for even less. You don't get a second chance at this life anon.

>>37278539
What do you even do to stop thinking about it?

All the art I work on becomes about her. All the things I used to like doing seem pointless without her.

Their is a voice in the back of my head telling me to get with as many girls as I possibly can to forget about her. But then I would be worse than Chad. I'd be a manipulative beta.

>>37278607
The only thing that helped was talking to friends and playing vidyas together.
It helped out so much but I still think about her.

>>37278641
The thing that is killing me is the tiny false sense of hope that she will have a revelation and come back into my arms. I should just delete all contact but I just don't have the will power.

>>37278728
When you can delete her contact info that's when you know you're on the right step.

I truly wish you the best of luck, anon.

Don't think that she will look at your the way you look at her. It's not going to happen.

>>37278756
You are truly a strong man.
Thank you for everything.

>>37278574
>Jeez roastie
topkek

>>37278782
No, thank you for trusting us enough to tell us what's going on with your life.

Live long and live strong my man.

>>37278817
>trusting us
this is anonymous dude.

>>37278844
Telling people irl things makes it easier for people to know who you are. especially if someone talks to one of the other party and hears the same story.

>>37276815
do you play smite

>>37274506
Go volunteer at something perhaps?

>>37274475
I look at some sites hoping to see someone who I can connect with who has compatible expectations to mine.
>Its never happened yet.

I want a wife but not kids. This isn't normal for most women and rightly so but that is how it is.

>>37276620
I'm a girl looking for the same type of guy as you and I'm pretty similar personality wise. Looks like you're a hopeless romantic too, I hope we both find what we're looking for.
I tried dating a robot but the moment he got confident enough he dropped me and I know I'm above average too so you're right about looking for people IRL instead.

>>37277161
My precious robot boyfriend was like that too. Loved him to death until he said he fell on love with another girl and ghosted.

>>37279884
>>37279856
Different femanon here. I have had similar experiences and would prefer to date IRL now. Robots are either too sexually frustrated and once they have sex they want to go fuck as many women as possible, or they get so confident they don't care about you anymore. It's sad desu. I love the robot personality, but I prefer to admire from afar now.

I met my bf from r9k we lost birginities to each other. AMA.

>>37274396
You know how I know you're not a girl?

If you were, you'd know it's the easiest thing ever and guys are abundant. Also if you're a good person, they don't want you as a hookup but respect you as wifey.

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>>37279884
>>37280199
Fucking insane for trying to date robots. I feel sorry for you, honestly.

Please stop LARPing and for those who think it's difficult to be around a boy let alone meet one, I feel sorry for you. It's not about low tier boys either; when you're the cream of the crop, those like you and above will be everywhere. You don't need to do anything. They'll be at your feet and hounding you all the time. Also your circle naturally draws those types, so choices are limitless.

Good luck and have fun.

>>37280241
>Fucking insane for trying to date robots. I feel sorry for you, honestly.
I wanted to give them a chance since no other girls would. They could have been good bfs that never got the chance. Never again though.

>>37280241
That's what I'd like to believe too and honestly I'm cute from what people tell me, I'm a future doctor so definitely not some NEET with no goal in life but I'm just not social at all? Even when I try I just kind of sperg out or I just feel like there are only degenerate normies everywhere and that's not the kind of relationship I'm looking for.
It takes a long time for me to open up to anyone IRL and I don't like going to social gatherings like clubs/parties and I don't think I'd like to meet/date someone who does. My ideal date would be staying comfy at home and cooking for my SO.

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>>37280352

>i will never meet a future doctor
gets rougher and rougher coming here everyday

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>>37274396
will any fembot be my gf?
im really loving and kind and honest and not bad looking or fat or anything
maybe a little autistic though
please respond!

>>37280457
A robot from here had a chance and still decided to dump me for some NEET girl. You robots are just too far gone

>>37274396
Creatures of fantasy can never meet real people, I'm sorry.

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>>37280532
>will any fembot be my gf?
>will any fembot be my practice gf I can later dump?
Fixed.

>>37280625
all i want is someone to be with
for me to dump someone we would never have even got together

>>37280625
This. I don't believe in robots anymore, even when you're obviously too good for them once they get confident they still dump you.

>>37280724
id only leave if we just just didnt get along at all

>>37274396
>>37274416
That but make yourself approachable.

Not surrounded by Chad friends
Not surrounded by female friends
Relaxed composure
Smile if a guy you are interested in looks at you... Vaguely looking his way is NOT enough

>>37274426
People busy in coffee shop? They act busy to keep composure most of the time.

>>37280589
If you're as you described I find that hard to believe.

What did he give as a reason?

>>37274455
As a guy I see women in bars as hook up at best. I avoid them drunk like plague too.

Women at a cafe, in a light summer dress, not smoking, smiling my way that's another story but so rare. Usually they are in street wear, yoga pants, with all their entourage, having a light beer, smoking, eyes riveted to their phone

>>37274396

THERE ARE NO FUCKING FEMBOTS FUCK YOU!!!!!

>>37274396
I forgot. Forget your phone exists don't look at it! Period.

>>37280753

Smiling isn't enough. Initiate a conversation.

You have no idea how much easier this would make it

>>37274396
You're having a fucking laugh surely, women have like infinite platforms to meet men.
>be a girl
>do literally anything
That's it. That's all. Just be grateful for fuck's sake.
>be man
>blow loads of time, cash and energy on even one woman
>get turned down for reasons

>>37280818
Said he fell in love with her while playing vydia. Didn't give me another reason before blocking and ghosting me.

>>37274506
Good you don't have interest in Instagram, cosine playing and such. Nothing says "attention whore" like social media...

>>37274519
Romantic guy here. I honestly tried the hook up thing. It is actually very boring to me. The thrill is the chase but the sex is mediocre.

>>37280352
>I'm cute from what people tell me
Bless your heart sweetie

I wish these cunts would leave. /r9k/ has become where the absolute worst trash of the female gender come to fish for attention.

>>37280853
Seems like a weak guy anyway, will probably leave the new girl quickly as well.

Oh well, I'm trying to lose my negative robot personality traits through weekly therapy sessions, and hoping being 6'4 wirth an attractive enough face can carry me to a doctor wife.

>>37280589
I would literally give anything for a second chance with my fembot gf.

Sounds like you have low self-esteem and just picked an asshole

>>37280921
>I would literally give anything for a second chance with my fembot gf.
same here
too bad cancer does not give 2nd chances

>>37274396
fembots don't actually exist so they obviously cant interact with the real world
faggot

>>37280920
That's what I told myself. I really loved him though, would've married him. But now I know it would have never worked out. We were in a LDR but it wasn't an issue for me.
It's nice to know you're working on bettering yourself though, what do you do at these therapy sessions?

>>37280921
I'm probably a bit insecure but I'm just a hopeless romantic.
He honestly wasn't an asshole. Maybe a coward at best?

>>37280980
want to marry me instead anon?

>>37274981
I sing to myself, does that scare people off? Usually I get scared when someone approaches and start unblinkingly stare at them until they back off.

>>37280980
Why do you want a robot and not a Chad? What is wrong with you?

>>37280980

Try to work on undoing the defensive mechanisms I have built over the first 20 years of my life. Self esteem issues and learning how to express emotions properly instead of disassociating and avoiding basically. It's like an attachment disorder caused by extremely emotionally distant parents

>>37274786
Same problem here.

I do smile at women looking my way when I notice them if I like them... They never return the smile though and just keep looking. Sometimes they suddenly look at me disapprovingly and storm off.

Sorry bitch, you should have returned my smile if you were interested I would have moved then... For all I know you were looking at me like one would look at a car wreck.

>>37280886
I couldn't agree anymore. Sex + love is a necessary combination. Can't get that with FWB.

>>37281030
Well do you want to date and marry a Stacy? Chads are normies and I'm not one. I might be working and studying but acting like a normie is draining me. I don't trust them on being loyal lovers, if anything they scream degenerate to me. Then again I might be wrong but they just don't appeal to me.
As I said, I might be a hopeless romantic but what I want is more than a partner or a lover, it's a soulmate and I doubt I could understand a Chad and vice versa.

>>37281039
Care to tell me more about how you go about practicing that?

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>>37280352
It wasn't at all necessary to reply with a paragraph about yourself. It's sickening how women cannot shut the fuck up about themselves. Literally no one asked or cares. Get the fuck out of my board you flapping roastie slut.

>>37274396
I am only attracted to introverted women. Promiscuous women have become so repulsive to me I can't even watch porn.

/soc/ girls and girls on dating websites are either complete normies or degenerates that lack self awareness

/r9k/ has the highest density of reserved shy women I've ever found but they will also ghost you for their various mental hangups

>>37280199
I've had my share of casual sex... Apparently that means I cannot be a robot... Still the longing to be truly loved and valued by a woman is there...
Sex in itself is actually boring as fuck... Sex with someone you connect with is very special. And this is what makes me REESE at the general hook up trend... They missing out on a crucial aspect of sex: actually connecting with someone...

>>37281102

Basically the doctor and I talk for an hour every week, and she tries to get to the bottom of the issues, or least tries to help me recognise what the issue actually is. I often don't recognise a lot of the thought patterns I'm actually fall in to, so she gives me a completely new perspective on things.

She will usually give me some sort of homework to work on. Latest example would be to try to actually engage people in conversations, instead of thinking they wouldn't be interested in what I have to say. Which is what I'm doing right now. There is a bunch of other stuff as well though

>>37280842
Yes if they actually made the first move it would be ideal. But most women are actually worse than betas

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>>37280936
I remember you. I'm so sorry anon.
>>37280921
>second chance
Why did she leave?

>>37281208
>I'm so sorry anon.
me 2

>>37281130
INTP guy here I am naturally more attracted to introverted women. They trigger my imagination "maybe just maybe this one isn't a dumb tumblrina and actually cares about something else than being fucked (validated) by Chad (daddy)"

>>37281102
robots arent loyal either

>>37281192
I see. I have a similar background. Taking up meditation actually helped me in admitting things I was actually trying to avoid thinking about and it has helped me in several aspects of my life.

If it's alright, is there any way I could contact you? I'm pretty interested in knowing more about the homeworks she gives you. I often refrain from engaging in conversations for the same reasons too thought that mostly happens IRL

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>>37281171
>casual sex
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE NORMIE GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT

>>37281286
Yeah I learned that the hard way. I'll be more careful from now on before rushing headlong into a relationship.

>>37281307
Relax, sex isn't all that... If anything casual sex can be a fucking chore

I want a GF AAAAAH

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>>37281321
Good luck femanon. You're lovely. Have a (you) AND a hug!

>>37274444

sad how hard this board has fallen when no one even checks these quads, let alone tells the bitch OP to fuck off. fembots are a myth, tits or gtfo

>>37281289
Sure, you email?

Since social media (and possibly easy access to porn) dating went from

"<Shy smile>I like you anon, sure I'll go out with you, we can cuddle and talk about things we enjoy"

To

"<Retarded moaning/whining>IDGAF about what you really want, shut up, and fuck my (boi)pucci and validate me hard daddy"

>get in contact with a fembot
>we talk on the phone for absurd lengths of time
>feels completely natural, like I've known her for a long time
>she stops responding one day
>panic for a week because obsessive
>now ready to try and find a IRL gf
>realize that you're just gonna try and find another girl like her if they even exist
>realize you can't even talk to girls face-to-face
>realize the only contact you have with girls IRL are store clerks and work, both of which are inappropriate to pursue

So now what? Do I use a dating app? My main hobby is vidya, should I start going to my local arcade in hopes of finding a single qt?

>>37281375
>>37281289

forgot my email:

[email protected]

>>37281450
Arcades still exist????

Like 80s/90s arcades?

Those were great for vidya lovers to chill for the eve with friends and/or meet new people

>>37281480
The one I go to is pretty awesome, it's got a ton of classic arcade cabs, and some pretty obscure ones as well. Stuff like Bucky O' Hare and the original Battletoads. They even have Neogeo cab loaded up with a ton of different games. It also has a used game section and you can play any game you want from it. Pretty good prices too. Fuck I don't know why I don't go more often.

>>37281545
Sounds like vidya paradise... In which country is that? Do they stay open late?

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>>37281330
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE GET OUT YOU'RE NOT FUCKING WELCOME YOU FUCKING PIECE OFSHIT REEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>37274649
I try not to leave the house.
But in general, you can find people to talk to but those people arent necessarily compatible with you for dating or friendships. It is hard to find non normies in my surrounding environment.

Where do I meet rich/successful men in NYC?

>>37281565
http://www.arcadelegacyohio.com/

It's in the USA. There are plenty of places like this scattered around, though a lot of them go out of business after a few years. This place has maintained it's popularity for years and they even opened a barcade.
10 bucks and you can play vidya until they close at midnight, it's a good deal for the selection they have.

>>37281457
Mailed you!

>>37274416
>look cute in the library or coffee shoppe

I looked everywhere but no such 'cute' was seen.

>>37281643
Awesome! I'm in France sadly all arcades seem to have vanished

>>37281868
Frenchie here too, can confirm. There are some good ones in Paris though

>>37281868
TFW I used to live in Cincinnati and regularly went to that mall before moving back to France....

>>37281911
Uh, you're not my cousin Jessica are you?

>>37281924
No I'm a robot...

>>37281953
Ok sorry I'm just really high and into wild speculation if I notice a pattern