Let's hear your crushed hopes on getting gfs anons, I'll

>>37260696
>Having hopes
How young are you?

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>be 22 girl was 19
>talk to girl online
>I work she's in college
>lives like 3 hours away
>finally classes are over
>she plans to stay with me for a week
>first day comes
>pick her up
>she's hesitant the entire day
>can tell she's not into me
>tell her something came up with work and I will be busy all week
>offer to buy her a ticket back home and apologize
>she leaves after like 4 hours of hanging out
>she instantly stops talking to me as much as she did before we met
>we slowly drift apart
>be 6 months of no talking
>finally decide to just say hey
>be friends again
>had the courage to ask what went wrong with us meeting
>she said nothing was wrong and that she was just very shy
>turns out she was a virgin and never even kissed a guy before
>now she's done got into partying and drinking over the Summer and has slept with 12 guys
>wants to visit me again

>>37260706
Was a poor choice of words but 20

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>>37260743
Why did you pay for a ticket and how much money you burn on it

>Go to a pub
>Girl approaches me
>Seems to REALLY want to talk to me
>This might go somewhere, so I engage her in conversation
>Somehow the conversation flows between us without me stuttering
>Somehow I don't spurg out and reveal my power level
>She's very flirty and seems to enjoy minor physical contact
>Start to think that if I buy this girl a drink, I might have a chance
>Suddenly she brings up something that makes her cry
>Do my best to comfort her
>She stops crying, thanks me for being a shoulder to cry on and goes home with her friends

Things I have heard from these:
>A friend died recently and "partying" was their hobby, so this is for them
>Messy break-up and tonight was supposed to get their mind off it
>I just don't know why I'm so sad!

>be me not so long ago
>meet qt on Tinder
>talk a little, after a few days I try to make my move and ask her out
>she says ok, but when the time comes, she comes up with some last minute bullshit excuse about why she can't make it
>this happens a few times
>eventually we happen to go to the same party
>see her that night, talk to her and eventually kiss her
>confidence boost
>after that night try to arrange dates again, but get the same usual bs excuses
>kept seeing her at parties, buying her drinks but nothing happens this time
>eventually she tells me "there is someone else". Was not mad because I kinda saw this caming regarding all the bs excuses she was making up
>tfw the guy she's interested in is one of my friends, who she also knew from tinder
>tfw he is a tall chad who stole girls from me before
>tfw when that chad friend told me they made out
>later this girl tells me she was never interested in me
>"but we can still stay friends anon ;)"

Why are girls like this man. I can respect that you're not interested in me, but to expect i should be cool with that after all i tried is beyond fucked up.

>>37260696
Use it for what it is. Enjoy the moments and know that it helps you get used to being around and being touched by women. Female friends are great. She might even introduce you to other potential friends or even girlfriends in the future.

The bike intimacy and the good feels are real and there right now. Don't let the longing for something else you desire ruin that experience for what it is and how it can help you and your life grow.

>>37261294
Yeah anon I understand, spoke to a girl for months and supported her though tons of shit. She later tells me that she doesn't want a bf for the foreseeable future because her last one use to abuse her and shit. Stops talking to me out of no where and like a month later messages me, ask her if she wants go to a football game. "I'll have to see with my bf first if that okay". Wtf is going on there

>>37261335
Yeah nah I get what you mean it's just frustrating, everyone I've spoken to in my uni class that's a grill has a bf or something. Feels shithouse, it's not like I'm an ugly dude too, I try to do that confidence thing but every time I've tried it ends the same way all the time. We'll just have to see.

>>37260743
I may be mistaking but this sounds like a big lie.

>fall for nerd girl who became really attractive senior year

Here are some highlights of my painfully gradual descent into robotdom, courtesy of our nerd-turned-Stacie (and my own unattractiveness, of course):
>fifth wheeled her and her friend's pre-prom dates
>the two chads cancelled on them for prom
>stacie wants me to take her
>i do it like a fucking idiot, make the braclet with mom, nice suit, etc
>she didnt put on the fucking braclet we made and avoided pictures of just us

>hinted at thinking I was gay ("when you find a wife/husband? anon,")
>fucked chad who was the kinda guy who retweets random twitter lewds
>chad now has gf, it was just a quick fuck, apparently
>always telling me about guys she finds cute

Stupid bitch wouldn't leave me alone after all this. I decided to ghost her, which was a lengthy and somber process (I guess I was funny/witty enough to be her favorite beta orbiter...).

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>>37260696
Haha just keep trying dudes haha

>>37261818
Ty

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>>37260696
Is there an actual guy with this godlike physique? Holy shit

>get close to girl for 3 years
>realize I actually love her
>ask her out
>nervous.jpg
>No, anon, im afraid itd ruin our friendship
>love crushed, go nearly emotionless
>find memes
>she moved away last summer

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>>37260743
Jesus that's fucking tragic man i'm sorry. Have a cuppa

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>>37260696
not me but I was sitting next to a guy&girl in the lab and overhead this conversation. The guy was a hopeless nerd.

>I'm sorry if I was leading you on or anything..."
>"oh no, not at all, I just"
>"I'm usually not very confident talking to other people but I was feeling particularly good about myself and thought I'd give it a shot..."
>"well, I'm sorry"
>"it's no problem haha, it's not like I'm going to stay up at night thinking about it haha"

he then proceeded to talk about Star Wars and fighter jets for the next couple hours while making heavy-handed attempts to flirt with her.

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>girl i knew in highschool starts talking to me out of nowhere
>she takes me out and pays for everything
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First time we hung out i got pretty high and i called her boring. And she looked really upset, but despite it all she ended up buying me The Whitcher 3.
>have amazing time with her
>tell friends
>"anon, you should ask her out"
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>she asks me to be her valentine this year
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>finally get the courage to tell her how i feel
>"Anon, i like you too but i dont think we would work out"
Havent hung out with her since
I miss her...
I shouldnt have said anything
Everything changed

>>37262870
the absolute mad man

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>>37262870
Holy shit:

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>>37262894
Stupid women need to be more clear about what they want. You did nothing wrong anon. If she asks you to be her valentine, it is only logical to tell her how you feel. If you pussed out and didn't tell her how you felt, you would probably feel even worse. At least now you can move on.