Ok robots, I'd like to try something with you all. I would

>lazy
>lack of social intuition
>no goals or ambitions
Idk this is hard. I don't have many positive traits either they're mostly neutral.

>>37257430
>no goals or ambitions
Describe this to me. Where did they go?

>resistant to change
>unhygienic
>fear rejection to the point where I reject everyone before they can reject me
>unorganized
>afraid to have new experiences

>>37257489
You say you fear new expiences. What sort of experiences are you familiar with now? Sometimes all it takes anon, is to start small. Maybe go try a new food, and work up from there, all the way to talking to someone new. You can surprise yourself.

>>37257465
I just wanted to get laid. It was what gave me the motivation to get into a good career, work out and everything. But I can't get hard without viagra and I can't cum during sex. My dick is cursed or some shit.

Since sex sucks, I don't have any motivation to do anything. All my endeavors were focused on finding a partner, but what's the point if I can't even enjoy the company of a woman like I'm supposed to.

>>37257541
You're right, and I've actually been making good progress on that front.
For instance I voice chatted with some robots online today, something I had always feared doing. But it was actually really fun and enjoyable.
I also scheduled an eye exam (been putting that off for 8 years now) and ate inside of a fast food restaurant alone (something I had always feared doing).
Progress is addictive once you start making it.

>aged out of being cute
>nearly a wizwoz
>would rather turtle and endure pain than improve life in any way
>can't see a viable future, no reason to spend effort on it

>>37257620
I know how you feel. In the past, that dominated my thoughts. You just have to look beyond it. Do you have a hobby? I know it was school that really helped snaped me out of it.

>>37257633
See, there ya go. Once you start making progress, you begin to see how much better life can be. Use that to push and motivate you further. I believe in you anon!

>Narcissistic
>Lazy
>Weak/dependent
>Unconfident
>Can be vain
>Know-it-all
>Desire to be more important than I am
>Unapproachable
>No common interests with anyone
>Self-pitiful
>Lack of motivation/ambition
>Scared of the world

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>wants to be above everybody else
>Either gives up or doesn't try hard enough to achieve any goals I set
>Refuses to rise to societies standards
>Genuine lack of empathy for anyone not in my immediate family
>arrogant confidence in my ability to do anything despite doing nothing and having no results or accomplishments

>>37257708
My hobbies aren't productive. I enjoy them but I'm not moving forward. And I fucking hate going to uni. I'd rather laze around all day.
I don't get how you know how I feel. Do you have erectile dysfunction as well? I know I wanna have sex and get a gf, it's all I want, but my sex life is doomed. I might as well play video games until I die.

>>37257749
desu I've been thinking I might be a sociopath

>fear of rejection
>somewhat bipolar
>fear of being left alone/isolated
>clingy
>shy af and don't know how to hold a conversation
>have the look of an angry serial killer
>dunno how to express my feelings

I did this exercise before, I recomment whoever reads this to not do it. The only thing it does is make you feel like absolute shit for days, it's even worse if you do the one where you also write down positive traits and the positive list stays empty

This video really helped change my mindset, maybe it can help some of you fellas as well

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGIU0FtXr9o

>>37257382
This is a retarded idea because no amount of "negative" traits will prevent you from finding a gf/slut to fuck as long a you are charismatic enough. In fact your negative traits will only add to your appeal.

>>37257786
The whole point of writing them down is to CONFRONT them so you DO something about it.
Have a problem? Find a solution.
You can shit on yourself all day long and wallow in misery, or you can recognize what your weaknesses are and try to correct yourself. Steer the ship of your life, dicking around on the lower deck will only end up with you crashing into an iceberg.

>>37257791
>hour long video
Nigga you got some cliff notes?

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I am curious, how many of you live alone or spend most of your time out doing things alone? I have a fear that because I have been sheltered my whole life I will not be able to function once I move out of my mom's house. I'm 19 but any time I'm alone in a public setting I get an overwhelming urge to cry and whine. In all seriousness I don't have any mental disabilities as far as I know. Does this happen to anyone else? pic unrelated

>>37257825
It's worth it, trust me

Most of Jordan Peterson's videos are movie length but they're insightful as fuck and 100% worth watching.

I'm not gonna spoil it for you

>>37257691
Well tell me about yourself anon. You say you don't see any viable future, but what have you done in the past? Doesn't matter if you're cute or not. That's not what society looks at. Do you have any support?

>>37257749
This too sounds like me, in my first year of uni. I would recommend noting to yourself whenever you're thinking arrogantly, and correct yourself. As far as working for what you get, I would recommend keeping a checklist of things that you think will help you get to where you want to be.

>>37257745
I think you're biggest issue is that you just need to get out there more. Like I said to another anon, start small. Go for a walk in the park. Hang out with a friend in public. Etc. there's nothing wrong with wanting to be more important, you just have to work for it

>>37257760
What did you study in uni? A change in subject to something you're passionate about might help.

>>37257816
If that's your mindset, you've already shown an unwillingness to change and have admitted defeat. There's more to life than sex and women anon.

>>37257864
mkay anon, i'll trust you, but watching this better give me the ability to achieve all the goals I set and get qt.3.14 gf by the end of next year

>>37257970
If you take this video the same way I did, then you just might

>>37257970
You've got good time anon. Watch it tonight and start.

>>37257929
Business management.
I don't dislike the career itself I just hate being surrounded by normies every day and having to study for tests.

>>37258040
Ignore the other students. Think of them as drones. Shells. Whatever. Find a friend in class. Study with them. Makes things so much easier. I can give study tips if you'd like (engineering). I had to take a arts class as an elective last semester. The only thing that kept me sane for that shit was an excellent prof and a friend I met on day1 (unusual for me)

>avoidant
>overthinking
>lazy, no hopes or aspirations

>>37258144
See >>37257430
Seem similar

>>37257382
>lazy
>afraid to be leaved alone

>>37258164
that guy was at least motivated by sex before his dick broke, and he's following through on his education even though he doesn't want to, isn't that motivation too.
my life is completely halted

>>37258205
Tell me more then. You in uni ant any recent point? I'll listen

>>37258144
Watch the video
>>37257791

It definitely made me confront my issues with avoidance

>>37257382
>i just don't care anymore
>i never got emotions
>never learned how to react to situations
>too smart(not claiming to be a genius just that idiots who follow blindly, politically for example, seem happier)
>actively detest people that are blatantly attempting to impose their personal views or ideologies over my life

>>37257382
>meticulous, therefore slow
>insecure
>intolerant of others
>joyless drug addict

>>37258385
Rehab my dude

>crooked teeth
>undeveloped jaw
>crooked teeth
>undeveloped jaw
>crooked teeth
>undeveloped jaw
>crooked teeth
>undeveloped jaw
>crooked teeth
>undeveloped jaw

>>37258446
OP said "internal traits"

>>37257382
No friends
No motivation
Sever social anxiety
Aspie
Low self esteem
I don't feel manly enough
Cynical
Pessimistic
Often rude or blunt
Pathological need for approval
Oversensitive
No body image
Feel socially inept
Feel worthless
Attention seeking
Not flexible or adaptable
Not confident
Can't talk to women well
Worried about everything
Paranoid about most things
Negative thoughts all the time
No direction in life

>>37258357
What did you used to care about? Focus on the good things, the things you liked. There's nothing wrong with the last point you listed, I'm actually the same in that manner.

>>37258467
Try being good to yourself. Whenever you're being pessimistic or cynical, ask yourself if you'd say that to a friend. The first step to becoming a happier person is to appreciate yourself. So what if you're blunt? Be so with a smile, or even try new ways of conversing (if that makes sense).
Worried/paranoid? What about. You'd have to elaborate.
As far as talking to women goes, don't think of them as a woman or a suitor. Think of them as human, or a friend. Don't pressure yourself.

>>37258470
Nothing specifically i just used to care about things in general.
Cold outside? Shit that sucks.
Had a talk with a buddy? Cool i feel better.
Did my dog runaway? Well not i feel like shit.
Just, generally speaking, i cared about life and the things that happened in it.

Now if somebody insults me or i find extra cash hiding somewhere or i have to put down a pet or i'm acing my finals or this or that its just a constant steady "I couldn't care less" feeling because i just don't see the point anymore.

>>37258420
It's just weed, thanks tho senpai. I was probably better off without it.

>>37258559
How active are you? I know a lack of activity, whether mental or physical, can lead to this sort of grey feeling.

>>37258583
Well there's nothing wrong with being meticulous. Just shows you care a lot about what you're doing.
As far as intolerance yo self and others go, as I've told another anon, ask yourself if you'd say what you're thinking to a friend or loved one. Try to brighten up mate.

>>37258460
these "external traits" caused me to have to deal with almost all of the interal traits in this thread

>>37258011
>Be proactive and face life head on no matter how much it scares you
Thats what I got out of it

>>37258703
That's good message though. Sometimes it just has to be said the right way to take effect

>>37258543
Thanks bro. You are doing gods work. I needed to hear that

As for the paranoia, it's the kind of feelings of being watched, or being judged, and that kind of stuff in public.

I'll try the advice on women that you gave me out as well

Btw, are you nick, that psych anon?

>envious
>to the point where i fly into an angry rage seeing rich people that have it all
>highly insecure
>have many times decided to not go outside because i feared being looked at

>>37258760
Good to hear I'm helping anon. I'm just an engineering student who doesn't want to see anyone else go through this sort of low.

>>37258632
I'm lifting, have a cardio routine, and a proper healthy diet.

>>37258796
You see that they're better off, but why not use that as motivation to achieve more than what you are now. Envy, while not too great when it's all you feel, can be an excellent motivator.

Why do you fear being looked at? I highly doubt you're a Quasimodo.

>>37258843
were you offering studying tips earlier? I could use those, studying actuarial mathematics

>>37258874
Try interacting with people. Whether it be just talking about the weather, or having a deep conversation. You really sound like you need to put yourself out there more and take life by the reins.

>try too hard to be friendly, gets even more rejected
>lazy
>insecure
>very timid
>pathetic
>wants to live another live, with another face, another parents, another friends.End up dissociating reality.
>Lives more in a virtual reality than in the real one
>bad at everysport but voleyball, in which I am average
>no ambition, to many
disappointments, sucess wouldn't make a difference.
>feel like life is meaning less and everything I do is meaningless.

>>37257791
>all that awkward laughing

kill it with fire

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>>37258914
Read the pic. Won't let me post it

>>37259158
thanks bud, will add this on top of my current strategy

>>37258995
Don't know if you're still here, but:

Don't tell yourself that success won't make a difference. Use past disappointments as motivation for future success.
You've got to get outside the computer sometimes too. Start small. Go for semi daily jogs/walks when the weather is nice. You imply you have family and friends in your life. Get together with them. See a movie. Do SOMETHING. You're only defeated when you admit you are.

>>37258956
I have a small but tight knit group of friends. We usually do stuff wednesdays and friday/saturdays.

Unconfident about myself and the decision that i make because of low self esteem
Compare myself to everybody, no matter who they may be, both intectually and physically
Desperate need of approval
Unstable, im ok for one week and then out of nowhere feel like shit
Delay things, procrastination
I want to have a gf but at the same time dont, i dont even try it.
Im my fucking worst enemy

>perfectionist
>too negative
>no confidence
>paranoid
>avoidant
>fear of abandonment
>fear of judgment
>emotionless or too emotional
>sensitive

I think the self-loathing part is what drives people away the most, but everything just hurts so much.

>Lazy
>Unmotivated and have no aspirations
>Have intense fear of failure
>Unhygienic
>Anxious/paranoid about everything
>Willfully ignorant of everything that's shit about my life
>Extremely judging of myself and other people on the inside (but don't show it externally)

>>37257382
>love science, maths, technology, etc but too stupid to get a job in them
>lazy
>constantly tired
>crippling anxiety that has ruined my life
>depressed
>unhygienic
>constantly breaking down when the slightest negative thing happens
>wish I was someone else

The smartest choice for someone like myself would be to kill myself, but I can't even do that.

This isn't fair, I miss my childhood. why

>>37257749
thank you i'm not alone