>tfw first girlfriend at 25yo >she made clear she wants

>>37196138
Ur letting doubt control you. Porn didn't do shit. You control ur rjaculation. Now move on and fuck her and learn from the experience instead of being a pussy.

>>37196138
jerk off before fucking her
worst case scenario you won't cum at all
you can always blame her for that
it's still better then jizzing your underwear before you drop pants

Just get it over with, regardless of disappointment.

>>37196154
Fuck you.

>>37196138
If you finish quickly just keep going, you may not be fully hard the whole time but it'll work

>>37196138
>tfw girls can't make me cum

>>37196138
No, don't take any 'jerk off before advice'
Stop watching porn right now, takes me 10 days and I'm back to normal, every day after that is more vigor.
Condom lube numbs your dick, also vagina is not as good as your hand.
If you do cum too fast, blame it on something
>Faster than usual, do I get a medal :^) Nah, lets go again after we do X
Its all about controlling the situation with a series of scripts. Normies call this 'experience'. But I just consider it scripts you learn so scary future events can be controlled.
You are the writer, she is the actor, write the correct script and she will play the role.

>>37196241
That second half is probably the most sociopathic thing I've ever read on this board

it is good advice though

>>37196154
This is correct. I watch porn everyday, and did just fine. Good stretch.

One part of a porn addiction is not having the ability to get an erection without porn. There is more than one way to satisfy a person. But not sharing in that satisfaction = :( just don't be selfish.

try not to fuck her hard or slow, it makes everything worse, use condoms to make the feeling less intense, if you are about to cum change positions or something, jerk off before actually having sex it delays your next load

>>37196154
yeah i watch porn with my girlfriend and we both regularly masterbste

>>37196138
Take your time and switch off your head. If negative thoughts come up, push them away with good thoughts about your gf's body or how you want to fuck her next. If your dick gets limp or you come too early, just go back to fooling around until you're ready to go again. Early on in realtionships, you rarely fuck less than 2 or 3 times in a row anyway.

>>37196138
>premature ejaculation

had the opposite problem. couldn't get it up for some reason when i had sex the first few times.

Then i had sex with some random grill after a party in a motel room and nutted in less then 20 min. felt so good, have no idea why. since then, can come in a condom even, not sure what happened in my brain.

>>37196977
I don't understand how this is remotely possible.
Not getting hard because "too nervous" sounds like a troll to me all the time.


I get hard just by having a girl I like get tight close to me.

>>37196754
She is just going to get frustrated, once I'm inside and I keep stopping every second for whatever reason.

>>37196241
I'm not addicted to porn anymore.
I had months worth of nofap and still came fast(in a few seconds).

>>37196138
Just fuck her and deal with it you massive pussy.
Nobody cares how fast you cum. Finish her off with your hands/mouth and explain yourself after. If it's a dealbreaker for her she'd be doing you a favor by leaving.

>>37196138
viagra, a rubber and a drink. works like a charm. also: doggie from the start

>>37196138
Easy. Jack off before you fuck her. Easy game easy life.

>>37198108
yeah but you don't have a strong erection if you do that

Get on anti depressant i quit them and now i cum in like 2 minutes feelsbad

>>37198168
yeah i was on the same thing a few years ago, when i was on them i cound;t get it up or finish when needed and afterwards premature. but time fixes it