Well r9k, I finally met a girl after 27 years of being a kissless

>>37179283
>attempt four
>I know she's gonna leave me
I wanna go out on a limb and say she won't, at least not anytime soon. If she's still around now, she's in for the long haul, a keeper.

Stressing it won't help you, just have fun together.

>>37179283
You're still a normal fag, gtfo

>>37179350
Not true. She may stay but my ex left me not because I couldn't keep my erection but because I couldn't cum at all. Her pussy was nice and tight but there just wasn't enough friction compared to my hand to get me over the edge

>>37179396
Op here. I kind of think it might be because of friction. I fap in that weird laying down on your stomach position without any lubricants. My fapping habits might have actually ruined me.

>>37179396
There's a huge social stigma for girls that can't get a guy off. Most porn centers around the moneyshot, the male orgasm. Men are known to have no problems reaching orgasm, so it's a hundred times more embarrassing for a girl not to be able to give a guy an orgasm than the other way around.

>>37179465
I hope you've already stopped fapping completely.
Don't let this get you down. Maybe experiment with other forms of sex.

>>37179563
I haven't masturbated since we started dating. This is gonna sound so stupid but I wish I could have a healthy relationship with her minus the sex. I honestly feel better fapping than I do actually having sex, and all this humiliation completely ruined the entire act.

>>37179676
I'm thinking about doing nofap for 30 days and from then on using my left hand and lube for fapping. I have to get used to pussy over my hand

>>37179676
Again, if she's still around after four (!!!) failed attempts, you're gonna be fine. If she was gonna leave you over this, she'd be long gone. Assuming she's not much younger than you, she's probably mature enough to be patient and not put too much pressure on you. Have you talked to her about this or do you just call it quits, roll over and leave?

Sex kind of sucks, you have to do so much work I'd rather just get high and beat off to pornhub into a pile of tissues. All these positions and maneuvering and movements just to nut is a huge hassle.

>you have to do so much work
>>37179676
Have you tried her on top so you can focus on groping and keeping your erection?

>>37179880
All types of positions, she's even tried to reinvigorate me by giving me oral in after I go impotent. And sadly, wasted efforts.
>>37179785
She's actually a year older than me, and it sucks because she thinks it's her fault that I'm just fucking useless down there.

I had this problem too when I got my gf finally, I think it was because I was way too nervous. I'd finger her lots to make sure she was enjoying everything first, then moved onto fucking and just focused on enjoying myself, instead of worrying if I was 'doing it right'.

Once I got used to sex I started to cum too quick, so I had to start fapping again and practice not going too fast and shit. It took me over a month and more than 10 'sexual sessions' to finally get it all down.

Sex is honestly a lot of work to start with, if you missed out on the training during your teenage years it's torture. I'm sure this happens with even normies though, but they're too insecure to talk about it to anyone.

Have you considered Viagra or something similar?

>>37180015
>she thinks it's her fault
Even more reason to keep calm about it.
Be confident that you'll work this out together. And tell her it's more important for you to be with her.

I have to go guys. Thanks for listen to me complain and helping me feel better. I appreciate it deeply because there is absolutely no one you can discuss this to anyone in real life.

>>37180328
Godspeed, and don't come back once you get the hang of fucking.

>>37180355
You too, god speed you glorious faggots.

>>37180106
>Viagra
read the thread? he got no ED with fapping.
shit's purely psychological.

>>37180392
So what? Viagra will still give him a boner.