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>Be me >Have a gf >Specifically told her at the beginning

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>Be me
>Have a gf
>Specifically told her at the beginning that I like to be alone because it's who I am. Being with people too much is physically draining and make me anxious
>Fast forward 10 month later
>We are always together
>ALWAYS.
>I never have a single moment to myself except the toilet and shower
>She get upset everytime I want to be alone
>I can't even sleep because of how I feel because I'm never alone


I just want to be alone. Is something wrong with me?
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you have a girlfriend and you're complaining

fucking kys
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nice humblrbrag you stupid piece of shit.
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>>37117429
what is this anime shes cute
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>>37117483
hurr what anime is it hurrr

go to /a/ you gook nigger
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>>37117483
Tokyo Ravens


>>37117429
I might try that soon
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>>37117504
why are you so mad

shes so cute
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Why is OP saying "girlfriend" when he's talking about a boyfriend?
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>>37117429
No, that means she's a cunt.
>Be me
>Get GF
>I like to be alone sometimes, have a day off from people, just me getting to recharge
>She has it the same way
>She starts writing master thesis
>I'm still at bachelor
>She's home all the time
>Starts telling me to get out more so she can get more days to herself
>Start going out with phycisist buddies
>Ask for a day off
>She starts crying and getting pissed because I'm "telling her she can't be in the apartment and I have no right to do that"
>Two years of this
>Lend her money because she ran out of scholarship money, just enough to get through a half semester
>Doesn't write thesis
>Doesn't read books for thesis
>Sits and watches Netflix every day
>Doctor says she's depressed
>Gets antidepressants
>moremoneyfordepressionyay
>Still doesn't do it
>Drops out
>Blames all her flaws on depression
>Still doesn't leave the apartment
>I still have to otherwise I'm scum
>Gets better, starts paying me back 10 % of what I loaned her each month
>Be together for another year
>She's made pretty much full recovery and is off the pills
>Breaks up with me

tl;dr
You're standing in a situation where you're an emotional rag for her to wipe with and toss away. Of course she doesn't give you what she promised, of course she gets angry when you want to be alone - she wants something else from you and women are so used to get their way that they become incredibly upset when they don't.
Nothing wrong with you.
End your relationship with her. Now.
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>>37117768
Fuck that was something. Thank you for the advice.
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>>37117892
Honestly, I don't know what's best for your relationship or you, so take it with a grain of salt.
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>>37117918
I'll wait a bit more. See if I can work things out in the next couple of months. If not, well fuck it I'll end it.

Thank you anyway. I feel better about myself right now, knowing that I'm not that bad of a person.
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>>37117429
You have Aspergers, OP.
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>>37117965
You're not, anon. You deserve your peace.
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>>37117504
You cant make anime requests on /a/, it's a banable offense. It's weird.
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>>37117988
I just looked it up. It's scary how much I can relate to everything I just read.

>>37118026
Thank you. I mean it.
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>>37117965
You're in the right anon. Just also know many girls know a good time in advance before they decide to break up with a guy.
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>>37117429
I'm the same way (sperg with schizoid traits, btw). She can't relate to you nor fathom how could you possibly be drained by socialising, so you're gonna have to be very explanatory, even redundant. Most people don't get it.

Make clear that her behaviour can fuck up your sanity and is making you miserable, that you need to retrait in order to recover and recharge, and that you're not necessarily sick of socialising *with her*, but of socialising, in general, and need to be alone.

If she doesn't want to understand and insists on being a capricious, inconsiderate cunt, drop her. That shit is insufferable.
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>>37118110
That's a reason why I don't let my guard down right now. She said she'd never been with someone more than a year and these like couples of days were actually the worse in the relationship.

I guess she already decided huh
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>>37118163
I mean. Self diagnosis is a thing but I can't know for sure. Luckily I have a therapist. Maybe she can say it clearly
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>>37117768
>You're an emotional rag for her to wipe with and toss away

Same thing happened with me, Anon. Hope you can get over it. I still haven't
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>>37118163
*retreat

>>37118211
Correct, self-diagnosis isn't reliable. Just wanted to say that I can relate to you and have that official diagnosis, so it's a possibility for you as well.
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>>37118327
Thank you for your input Anon. I mean at least I have some kind of diagnosis right now except Anxiety. I knew I was on the spectrum but I didn't knew where. Well. Now I know, at least maybe, so thank you
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>>37118084
We know our own. Go see an autism specialist for an expert opinion, do some reading, learn what your deficiencies are, and compensate as best you can. Good luck. :)
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